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Post by faith on May 15, 2008 21:05:45 GMT -5
Would you change your "devness" if you could?
Has this desire been a positive or negative thing in your life?
Has it been frustrating or exciting?
For me- I wish I would have been more in tune with it earlier in my life and some of my choices would have been different, but I wouldn't change it. It is part of who I am... even if only a few know about it.
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Post by Claire on May 15, 2008 22:53:16 GMT -5
It's been with me always. I can't remember not being this way. If it was taken from me, I'm not sure who exactly I would be without it. It's a frightening thought, that I might be a "me" that I don't recognize.
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Post by Ciao Bella on May 15, 2008 23:22:19 GMT -5
If there was one thing I'd change, it's that I wished I had the balls to admit it to myself from the beginning. Then I would've concentrated on dating wheelers.
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Post by BA on May 16, 2008 15:52:58 GMT -5
Would you change your "devness" if you could? Has this desire been a positive or negative thing in your life? Has it been frustrating or exciting? For me- I wish I would have been more in tune with it earlier in my life and some of my choices would have been different, but I wouldn't change it. It is part of who I am... even if only a few know about it. I cannot say it any better than faith has. I wish I were in my early 20's and had access to the internet and a board like this to hash it all out on - this is my only regret. |
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Post by laurasweetou on May 17, 2008 13:54:47 GMT -5
small breasts, I wish I could change my small brests. The dev thing, well... right now I cold surely do with out it
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Post by irishclaire on May 17, 2008 19:45:38 GMT -5
Wouldn't change it for the world. I find different things attractive in different men, and that's something I respect about myself. I realise that it's not just "the chair" that makes the man, but the man himself.
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Post by me on May 19, 2008 8:58:19 GMT -5
I would change things about myself, but not necessarily that I can look beyond a wheelchair, I just wish I had been braver/more willing to take a risk at times.
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Post by charlene on May 19, 2008 10:45:03 GMT -5
I would change things about myself, but not necessarily that I can look beyond a wheelchair, I just wish I had been braver/more willing to take a risk at times. Sorry, me, but that really caught my eye. Am I, as a devotee, really looking beyond a wheelchair if I'm actively looking for a wheeler guy? |
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Post by me on May 19, 2008 11:33:23 GMT -5
Dev or not a dev, that is my question, not sure of the answer  |
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Post by charlene on May 19, 2008 11:42:42 GMT -5
Aight.  |
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Post by natasha on May 19, 2008 21:51:08 GMT -5
What I didn't like about my Dev thing was when I was thinking I was the only one having the thoughts I was having..I went trough some confusion periods and a lot of questionings....  But thanks to my ex who told me about Dev's it gave me a lot of light and then everything seemed a lot easier.... I just have 1 regret about a decision I took driven for my Devnes but oh well is like everything in life:decisions, desicions!!....Im just glad that it didn't affected the guy it affected me, so at least I didn't hurt him... To me definitely is been really exiting, I have a lot of really awesome and fulfilling experiences with wheelers that wont change for anything! ;D |
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Post by natasha on May 19, 2008 22:08:12 GMT -5
small breasts, I wish I could change my small brests. The dev thing, well... right now I cold surely do with out it I have small boobs and I love them! Its not what u got is how u use it!  |
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Post by Valkyrja on May 22, 2008 23:06:20 GMT -5
I agree with Isabelle... It would been great if I had had the balls to know I was a Dev, to know I was not a weird girl. It would be really different.
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Post by dolly on May 26, 2008 10:45:25 GMT -5
yup, i agree with faith and others in that i sure wish i had known i wasn't 'the only one' a lot sooner. i fully expect i would have made some different choices and it would certainly have been a heck of a lot easier to cope with psychologically. but it's an integral part of who i am, so i can't imagine being any other way.
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Post by devotee87 on Jun 26, 2012 6:20:24 GMT -5
I always knew that disability brought me pleasure. I tell myself that I may withdraw my lifetime probably cause a great void in me, and I should learn to know me. But basically the "others" get there, why not me. If I had to live without my side devotee, I think I would prefer never to have felt in me: be born "like the others." Today it's part of me, plus I know I'm not the only one in the world, and I can admit to a few people. Being a devotee is my freedom of expression, my pleasure in the street. I remove it would be like watching a movie in black and white: the same story, but more bland.
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But thanks to my ex who told me about Dev's it gave me a lot of light and then everything seemed a lot easier....
