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Post by ichbin on Jun 14, 2022 15:02:08 GMT -5
Recently I was wondering...
There was this guy on TV, a moderator of the news. Only his upper body was to be seen, then there was a table and the lower end of the picture frame.
I somewhat found him attractive. But only by imagining him being a paraplegic.
Then I thought... the same guy... same voice, same look... as an AB guy I don't find him attractive.
It's so weird.
I did this "game in my head" a couple of times back and forth, imagined him to be paraplegic and then AB... while he was talking on TV.
Any time I imagined him to be paraplegic I found him attractive and sexy and when I imagined him to be AB, I didn't.
It was really weird and also in a way so inexplicable to me. But it just is as it is š¤·āāļø
Can any of you relate to this? Have you experienced something similar?
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Jun 17, 2022 16:22:47 GMT -5
Absolutely! I have done similar. If I see an attractive man, he will often wind up in my devvy head as a wheeler.
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Post by rebeckers84 on Jun 17, 2022 18:24:28 GMT -5
For sure!!!
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Post by rebeckers84 on Jun 17, 2022 18:45:32 GMT -5
This is actual āfootageā of me scrolling bumble:
1st pic- chest upā¦ o please
Brief description- no mention of any disability
2nd pic- chest up againā¦ ok please pleeeeeas
3rd pic- chest up againā¦ maaaaybe pleeeeeease let this be the one
4th pic- full body shot (prolly holding a fish)- DAMMIT. Son of a biotch
leffffft
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Post by blueskye101 on Jun 18, 2022 1:53:57 GMT -5
Definitely, all the time!
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Post by Amee on Jun 18, 2022 8:49:18 GMT -5
This is actual āfootageā of me scrolling bumble: 1st pic- chest upā¦ o please Brief description- no mention of any disability 2nd pic- chest up againā¦ ok please pleeeeeas 3rd pic- chest up againā¦ maaaaybe pleeeeeease let this be the one 4th pic- full body shot (prolly holding a fish)- DAMMIT. Son of a biotch leffffft Haha, this was 100% me on Tinder!  Although the most annoying ones were those who only had chest up pictures, no full body shot and left me wondering " Maybe, just maybe... Very unlikely, but maaaybe...." |
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Post by feelsunshine on Jul 6, 2022 13:43:13 GMT -5
This is actual āfootageā of me scrolling bumble: 1st pic- chest upā¦ o please Brief description- no mention of any disability 2nd pic- chest up againā¦ ok please pleeeeeas 3rd pic- chest up againā¦ maaaaybe pleeeeeease let this be the one 4th pic- full body shot (prolly holding a fish)- DAMMIT. Son of a biotch leffffft ššš made my day! exact same here!!! |
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Post by koala on Jul 10, 2022 4:47:26 GMT -5
This is 100% accurate. I love to just hold onto that glimmer of hope and keep the mental picture in my mind, but then it is so devastating when he inevitably turns out to be AB.
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Post by rebeckers84 on Jul 11, 2022 19:55:02 GMT -5
O man my bumble scrolling today went exactly as described above but then the last pic was pull body shot in a chair and Iām so used to swiping left I almost did!!! Scroll back up up up review profile more thoroughly, swipe right! š¤£
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Post by ichbin on Jul 11, 2022 20:51:01 GMT -5
O man my bumble scrolling today went exactly as described above but then the last pic was pull body shot in a chair and Iām so used to swiping left I almost did!!! Scroll back up up up review profile more thoroughly, swipe right! š¤£ Has never ever happened to me. No men in chairs on local tinder š¤·āāļø |
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Post by londongayboy on Jul 13, 2022 6:39:31 GMT -5
I'm not really attracted to very well built, mobile, upper bodies so no.
I prefer withered muscles and weak limbs, which is why I tend to be more of a quad devo than a para devo. If the para guy has too much upper body strength and definition its a turn off for me.
Quads with weak bodies from head to toe though.. now thats hot.
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Post by rebeckers84 on Jul 21, 2022 17:44:52 GMT -5
I'm not really attracted to very well built, mobile, upper bodies so no. I prefer withered muscles and weak limbs, which is why I tend to be more of a quad devo than a para devo. If the para guy has too much upper body strength and definition its a turn off for me. Quads with weak bodies from head to toe though.. now thats hot. I donāt think it has much to do with them being muscular or built or anything as much as just seeing only a top body shot and being hopeful that perhaps they are in a chair. |
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Post by feelsunshine on Mar 23, 2023 7:58:21 GMT -5
I was stuck at home for a few days due to covid infection. I got bored and signed up on Tinder again. I think I have browsed 500+ profiles in the last 24 hours but not even one wheeler š
And itās so frustrating because many profiles start just right: 1st shot: head only, 2nd shot: upper body, 3rd shot: sitting on couch (ok, still a possibilityā¦)ā¦ last shot: either standing or climbing mountains šš ok swipe left.
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and IF there is a profile with upper-body-shots only, then theyāll mention ārunningā as their hobby š¤Æ
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Post by ayla on Mar 23, 2023 9:39:47 GMT -5
I have to say I'm glad that rock climbing is so popular in the men's hobbies department, as all the rock climbers wanna show off their full (very obviously abled) body scrambling up a rock face on the first pic. Saves time. Not that I ever find a wheeler via swiping but at least I don't get my hopes up as often.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2023 16:47:19 GMT -5
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Although the most annoying ones were those who only had chest up pictures, no full body shot and left me wondering "Maybe, just maybe... Very unlikely, but maaaybe...."
