Post by BA on Aug 18, 2005 10:54:49 GMT -5
What makes a para appealing for me (and Paulie, I use "para" in a general sense to describe anyone who uses and wheelchair but has arm/hand function) are several things. Now, mind you, these things are a real generalisation. Not every guy in a chair would meet these criteria so I am describing the "ideal".
#1. It is a visual turn-on, and I am attracted to the upper body stregnth as a contrast to the lower body lack of. (that one is not a generalisation)
#2. Adversity can make people more sensitive, aware and in touch with their feelings. My ideal wheeler is NOT bitter (that is a turn-off). Rather he has an appreciation for life that the average guy doesn't.
#3. I picture him to be a master at oral sex (sorry, if that is selfish, but it's a big thing for me)
Maybe he has mastered that art.
#4. I like to be needed for certain things.
#5. I can't quite explain. It's just the thrill of living "outside the box"
#1. It is a visual turn-on, and I am attracted to the upper body stregnth as a contrast to the lower body lack of. (that one is not a generalisation)
#2. Adversity can make people more sensitive, aware and in touch with their feelings. My ideal wheeler is NOT bitter (that is a turn-off). Rather he has an appreciation for life that the average guy doesn't.
#3. I picture him to be a master at oral sex (sorry, if that is selfish, but it's a big thing for me)
Maybe he has mastered that art.
#4. I like to be needed for certain things.
#5. I can't quite explain. It's just the thrill of living "outside the box"
I also have trouble changing the quilt cover on my double quilt!! 