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Post by wheelie37 on Jun 4, 2006 7:27:01 GMT -5
"And why are there so many chicks here, too?" what do you mean?  |
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Post by dodat on Jun 21, 2006 20:14:06 GMT -5
GREAT, because im a buffet of scars and withered legs...... take all you want....  |
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Post by benquad on Jun 28, 2006 13:12:14 GMT -5
obviously it ranges but i havent read much about catheters, i have a superpubic cath & have had many "issues" w/ women,sex & intimacy in general.
just a note on autonomic dysreflexia, its not always from bad things a really good orgasm caused AD
hope for feedback
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Post by devogirl on Jul 3, 2006 1:30:39 GMT -5
OH so now instead of a hotel in Vegas, we are going to go on a devo CRUISE! Awesome! Count me in!
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Post by E on Jul 5, 2006 13:03:52 GMT -5
Royal Caribbean is the cruise-line to choose.
I've cruised with them over a dozen times. The assistance provided is fantastic.
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 5, 2006 23:27:24 GMT -5
do they dock in the uk? |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 5, 2006 23:30:29 GMT -5
I may have a new scar soon  burned my thigh with a boiling hot black coffee!! Have to go to hospital twice a week for them to change the dressing and keep an eye on the wound. So frustrating, feels like I have taken a step back in my life, a 21 year one! Life revolves around hospital AGAIN! |
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Post by Triassic on Jul 6, 2006 10:09:01 GMT -5
Jeez, wheelie...sorry to hear that. I worry about injury like that; they can really complicate things.
Here's a question for the devs; hope it's not too high-toned and analytical. I'm wondering if some of the attraction might be due to Contrast. That is, the contrast, the tension of your own(more-or-less) fit, normative body meshing with one that is-strictly speaking-defective. Is there a dynamic where your own physical ability plays off the guy's INability? We could be shading into a bit of dominance/submission here, but that's OK.
I'm not articulating this too well...It's just that everything works relationally. There hasnt been a lot of discussion on the subject of body contact; skin to skin intimacy. Is that sort of thing important to you? Is there a difference to how you would relate to a gimp in terms of physical closeness?
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 6, 2006 13:03:35 GMT -5
thank you for your comment triassic |
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Post by dolly on Jul 9, 2006 20:07:38 GMT -5
it's an interesting question, triassic. i don't really have any feelings about it apart from feeling generally more comfortable with a dis guy vs. AB. it feels more natural somehow. but that's probably just 'cause i'm a dev!  (sorry to hear about your burn, wheelie. hope you heal up quickly!) |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 10, 2006 1:01:06 GMT -5
thank you Dolly x
As to the question, could it be you feel more relaxed or less intimidated by a wheeler. Sort of more of a friend closeness, that has developed to a physical attraction once you had sex with wheelers?
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Post by dolly on Jul 10, 2006 10:27:12 GMT -5
thank you Dolly x As to the question, could it be you feel more relaxed or less intimidated by a wheeler. Sort of more of a friend closeness, that has developed to a physical attraction once you had sex with wheelers? hmm... maybe less physically intimidated, but that's not really what it's about for me. actually in other ways i'd be feeling more intimidated because i'd probably be that much more excited. lol and the dev thing adds a whole other level of complex emotions, feelings. but yet it feels more "right" somehow. of course, as with anything it would depend on the person. ideally i would like the guy to know/understand/be cool with my dev tendencies so we could explore that aspect together. but at this point i think being open about that would still be rather embarassing for me... |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 10, 2006 11:36:28 GMT -5
Well as you keep on the group and hear from almost every wheeler on here that it is really cool! you may get more confident  |
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Post by Pisti on Jul 11, 2006 13:46:09 GMT -5
you feel more relaxed or less intimidated by a wheeler? Rather more intimidated... because in that case I'm interested. With AB-s I'm more relaxed, usually kind but unreacheable. Of course they can - and usually do - try, and sometimes succeed. But wheelers, I want them to reach me, I want to be noticeable, I want to please - and the result is usually quite an awkward situation. |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 12, 2006 0:35:25 GMT -5
what sort of awkward situations have you had in the past?
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burned my thigh with a boiling hot black coffee!! Have to go to hospital twice a week for them to change the dressing and keep an eye on the wound.
