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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2015 13:18:46 GMT -5
I feel compelled to reply yet again. I found out yesterday that I'm looking at a complete knee replacement. I had a meltdown, I'm too young for this, etc etc. The thought of spending time in PT terrifies me. My SO has tried to cheer me up with my usual dev turn-ons, and while I still find him super sexy, I don't feel the same dev tingle that I used to. I know this is likely temporary, but I know 100% without a doubt that I could easily lose my dev self. Suddenly, I'm terrified by that. I always thought I'd give up my devness without a second thought, but now I'm terrified of losing that part of me, however temporary it might be. Sorry if that was a bit of a tangent/hijack.
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whisperingpines
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Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by whisperingpines on Apr 15, 2015 14:08:01 GMT -5
I think it would lessen my dev side to almost make it go away completely. Until some really hot para would appear, make a wheelie and.. well, bring me right back! I don't think anything will ever look as sexy as those nice legs of some hot para in a sporty chair.. plus the shoulders!  |
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Post by blueskye101 on Apr 19, 2015 9:57:38 GMT -5
I had both knee replacement last year and now face back surgery. Have numbness down one leg at present but has not diminished my dev attractions at all though I get pretty freaked when Dr told me I wi be in wheelchair if don't have surgery. Hate the thought for myself but still turned on by the guys. Lol. What a dble standard
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Post by Clair deLune on Apr 19, 2015 10:56:26 GMT -5
No, it wouldn't. There is such a wide range of disabilities that interest me; it's not like by some twist of fate I would end up with my "preferred" disability and that would cancel out my dev-ness.
That said, my devness has really changed over the years. Some of that has been through growing up, growing into a better understanding of relationships and sexuality, and growing out of some very immature ideas, and some of that has been through various life circumstances that have landed me with my own set of limitations. Rather than serving to change what I'm interested in, its served to lead me to investigate a little deeper into what ACTUALLY interests me, and why. Not "why" as in "why am I like this" but "why" as in "what specific things set off what specific reactions."
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Post by blueskye101 on Jul 1, 2016 20:19:35 GMT -5
I feel compelled to reply yet again. I found out yesterday that I'm looking at a complete knee replacement. I had a meltdown, I'm too young for this, etc etc. The thought of spending time in PT terrifies me. My SO has tried to cheer me up with my usual dev turn-ons, and while I still find him super sexy, I don't feel the same dev tingle that I used to. I know this is likely temporary, but I know 100% without a doubt that I could easily lose my dev self. Suddenly, I'm terrified by that. I always thought I'd give up my devness without a second thought, but now I'm terrified of losing that part of me, however temporary it might be. Sorry if that was a bit of a tangent/hijack. Don't freak too much. I had both knees done almost 2 years ago. It's been great. Hard work for awhile but it's wonderful now |
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Post by robbb on Jul 3, 2016 16:44:40 GMT -5
Great question Inky. Short answer is I don't know.
As someone attracted to my own sex I wonder if my becoming disabled would in any way be more interesting to me than for a straight woman who became disabled as I would be living with the very physical and emotional effects that I find so attractive in the same sex. Not suggesting that I have or would ever find myself attractive!
Some years ago I developed a neurological problem that effectively meant I was temporarily a quad, albeit with full feeling. For some time after I recovered I felt very guilty about being attracted to guys who were in such a shit situation into which I'd had a brief insight. That said my dev tendencies never left me, even when I couldn't move I managed to be very interested in and turned on by an SCI'd guy who came into the same hospital ward for a few days.
R.
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Post by kivic on Jul 3, 2016 18:10:36 GMT -5
I read through this thread a couple nights ago and that night I dreamed I used a wheelchair. It was a indistinguishable disability: I was and I wasn't disabled. I can hypothetically guess that my devness may simply morph. Morph into what I'm not sure. Wouldn't it be all consuming at first? Learning to live your life from another angle or change in your self-perception. I have in the past fantasized that I was disabled while having sex or fantasized about disabled women. It's so hard to guess how I would truly view my sexuality if I were to become disabled though, as long as I could still orgasm, I guess I could deal |
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