mags0528
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Post by mags0528 on Jun 12, 2015 19:43:13 GMT -5
Do you ever have sex dreams involving a PWD? Do you have repeat dreams? With a particular disability, or does the disability vary? What is the scenario, typically, and how do you feel when you wake up? I have had a few, mostly involving amputee women. I am bi; I am waaaay more bi for PWD women than AB women. I find it a but odd because in my waking life, though attracted to amputees, quads are more of my main focus of attraction. There could be so many reasons and factors why, but I won't bog you guys with the details...I enjoy these dreams for the most part (some get crazy weird, like last night's!) But I'll just use it as nocturnal entertainment So anyway, if you have had some steamy and/or confusing dreams, please do tell! And feel free to analyze! I'll share my analysis if the convo goes there.... And really, they don't have to be sex dreams! Just share what you got!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2015 21:00:44 GMT -5
Unfortunately I never dream of anything devvy or guys with my preferred disability...would be nice...I actually dreamt last night I was in a pot shop and tasted all their different flavored cookies and I learned how to smoke pot, the girl was very friendly and taught me how to smoke it in a pipe or how to roll it...well, I woke up with a total headache and super tired, dragged myself to work...had a migraine...I think I did too much pot in my dream...
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Post by killercupcake on Jun 12, 2015 21:13:38 GMT -5
I wish I had devvy dreams... Or sex dreams at all... But never.
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Post by Emma on Jun 12, 2015 22:00:38 GMT -5
I rarely dream and when I do things are really vague, its hard to put them into words`. I can remember a few dreams that had my husband in them but his disability wasn't like it is in real life. I don't remember him using a wheelchair or having any to take accessibility into account but also don't remember him having legs. I don't think disability is a big component of my dreams. I wish it played a bigger role!
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jun 13, 2015 3:58:40 GMT -5
Ever since I've been on this huge dev-high, starting when I found PD, I've dreamed of devvy stuff. Right now I often dream about the guy I'm seeing, who is a quad, and of course the dreams are devvy, but I don't think I dream them because of the devness, but mainly because of him. I always dream about people or things that are on my mind a lot. I think dreaming to me is kind of an outlet. I've also sometimes (not that often anymore) had lucid dreams, but none of them have ever been devvy yet. Maybe I should try to have a devvy lucid dream next time.
Last night I had a weird dream. I was seeing "my guy", as IRL, but then again I was also seeing two other guys. They all wanted to be with me and I had to choose, but I just couldn't.
I remember comparing the two other guys, who were AB, to "my guy" and liking the fact that they were AB on one hand, because I didn't have to take care of things and they would hug and hold me tight, which was really nice, but then again I kept thinking "Will the sex be as good?" and also how great "my guy" is. In fact, the were all great (heck, it was a dream after all), but I didn't know whom I wanted to be with and kept "playing" them.
The dream was really nice, but I feel awful now. I'm still trying to figure out if I could really be in a relationship with a high quad with a very high need of assistance and this dream is obviously me struggling trying to figure it out and maybe reminding myself how easy things would be with an AB.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 13, 2015 22:36:54 GMT -5
I'm bi as well, and for the longest time, my devy drams were all female focused. Lately, though, male quad amps have been sneaking into my dreams, and I am not complaining. Variety and all! Oddly enough, I don't recall ever having an x-rated dream about an AB, male or female.
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Post by siouxwin on Jun 14, 2015 1:56:44 GMT -5
As a kid I saw an after school special where Scott Baio played a paraplegic and I used to dream about him in the chair all the time, even sometimes now I still dream about him.
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Post by kivic on Jun 14, 2015 10:08:20 GMT -5
I seem to have devvy dreams regularly and they usually involve my SO. I dream every night, vivid and convoluted dreams, but especially enjoy the devvy ones as they tend to stay with me for a few days afterward.
As soon as I met my SO, within the first week I'd had a devvy dream about him....interesting? For me, definitely!
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2015 12:51:22 GMT -5
It's late night in here and I just had devvy dream scene.
In my dream, earth was invaded by alien. The end is near. Me and my pwd friend struggled a lot to escape from aliens. When we found sanctuary we couldn't waste time again, so we did it. It was the best sex ever.
Well, maybe its because I read scifi too much lol
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2015 7:47:47 GMT -5
I dream nearly every night, and most are pretty vivid, and stay with me for quite some time. I don't have a ton of devvy dreams anymore, but I did before I met my SO. My dreams have always been a sort of conflict resolution for me, and are pretty close to real life. My occasional devvy dreams now feature my SO and I doing something we haven't, or dealing with some random situation. I have had a couple of dreams where he's been a quad. Of course, I've had dreams where I'm a model too, so there's not always a lot of logic to it.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2015 11:46:28 GMT -5
My dreams are usually very bizarre and incoherent--probably the state my brain is in most of the time. I've read dream analysis articles before, and supposedly if you dream about water and snakes, those have sexual connotations. If that's true, that's the only way my sexual desires manifest in my dreams, unfortunately. No hot PWDs. Even the snakes are AB.
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Post by Maurine on Jun 16, 2015 13:34:21 GMT -5
I have the weirdest batshit dreams ever, but I guess I am odd during my waking hours, so that figures. My favourite ever was the meat Countdown dream, followed by 'naked and proud'. Then I've had a few dreams where I can fly just by flapping my arms. They are great. Disability dreams are disappointingly rare and often mixed up - I.e., anyone disabled I know will be able to walk (but not properly), or someone who's AB IRL will be a wheeler. I always wake up disappointed from those ones. Perhaps I have issues... Oh and sometimes I have dreams so vivid they almost become like a false memory. They seem that real. Quite scary really. Cheese definitely gives me vivid dreams, so if I want an exciting night, I just pop in a portion of extra mature cheddar and Bob's your Uncle...or maybe my Uncle, who knows! I can relate to a lot of that! I've had the flying dreams, too. They are great! It feels so natural, more so than walking. I don't dream about disability a lot, except for those involving my boyfriend. During the first months of our relationship, in my dreams he could often stand up or even walk, sometimes just a few steps, in one dream he climbed several flights of stairs with me. He was still disabled and didn't walk like an AB, but he had mysteriously regained lots of function. I have my theories why I was having these dreams, but they've almost vanished now. I also had dreams of ABs from real life as paras. In these dreams, they had been paralysed for a while, but I was always slightly shocked, since their disability was new to me, as I only knew them as ABs in real life. When I have particularly devvy dreams, I write down what I remember. They often don't make a lot of sense. As for sex dreams, I sometimes get sexually aroused in a dream, but they don't involve sex or any imagery at all. When I seem to be nearing climax, I will wake up, but unfortunately, I've never actually orgasmed like that so far.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 18, 2015 22:07:26 GMT -5
When I'm on a dev hi I have devy dreams, the guys are normally random, but occasionally AB people I know but in the dream are para's. Sometimes I dream I'm the para, usually these ones I'm using a wheelchair but am not PWD. I have no desire to be PWD and I dont have BIID so I am not sure what these dreams are about.
My devy dreams are always sexual in some way. But I only seem to have them when I'm on a dev hi.
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jun 20, 2015 0:52:38 GMT -5
Had a very sexy devy dream right before waking up.
I was in a room with other people and then suddenly there was a para there, too but without his chair. He sat on a bench in that room and started taking off his shoes and I couldn't take my eyes off of him. Then he also started moving around and doing floor transfers and lots of the stuff I like. In the end he even took off his shoes and socks again and started putting them on only for me to watch. He did it very slowly and sexy and even caressed his legs and feet for me, as he obviously knew I'm a dev. I was so turned on, but couldn't do anything because of the other people in the room.
Then he said "And now..." And that's when I woke up.
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Post by rebeckers84 on Sept 20, 2015 19:40:49 GMT -5
I do all the time! Lots of different ones but one recurring of my wedding day. I come out from the back about ready to walk down the aisle with my dad, look up at the alter and see my man's chair but never get to see his face don't know what that means but hopefully something good!!
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