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Post by bowlergrl0524 on Jun 24, 2015 14:48:59 GMT -5
So, I'm talking to the guy right now, a PWD and I told him that I am completely turned on by scars. I want to touch them and to feel them, whether they can feel them or not. Am I the only one turned on by those things?
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jun 24, 2015 15:49:35 GMT -5
No, you're not! We all like these kind of "weird" things - that's why we're here.
I'm not sure I have only one specific big turn-on, but if I had to chose right now it would probably be spasms. I love when his arms, legs or sometimes even his whole body shake uncontrollably! I love to see him spasm and I love pushing my body against his when he has bigger spasms, so I can feel his body shaking against mine. It's great to me that he often spasms during sex, but I also like it when we're out and he starts shaking and I can't take my eyes off of him but at the same time have to hide how much it turnes me on. One time his arms started spasming when we were holding hands, so he basically held my hand real tight for a moment. That was great. (:
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Post by Maurine on Jun 24, 2015 16:36:03 GMT -5
Scars are a HUGE turn on for me. There are few things that turn me on as much as they do. I also love quad hands. They never become boring. Not only are they devvy, it also just feels good to touch them and play with them. And I love to watch them accomplishing things. Sexy guys using manual wheelchairs or crutches are also amongst my biggest turn-ons.
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Post by eva on Jun 25, 2015 2:44:16 GMT -5
I couldn't exactly pinpoint what turns me on. It's the man as a whole, so not only the physical aspects (of course) but everything that goes with it, the psychological aspect as well, something in the eyes... The way he moves, how confident he is, the subtle ways in which his vulnerability and strength show... Wit is also a huge turn-on for me.
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Post by cwbjr on Jun 28, 2015 16:49:50 GMT -5
from a straight-up sexual turn-on standpoint, i'm all about paralyzed hands, feet and spasms. if there's any way to combine the three of them (like an incomplete, low-level quad), i'm in heaven. quad hands are usually wonderfully soft, and i love holding and manipulating them. para and quad feet can be hit or miss, as some guys take care of them, some don't. and even if my standards for what i find beautiful/arousing are not the norm, i have yet to find a para or quad who's comfortable enough to just let me play with them. in my experience, guys i've been with think of feet as something to be tolerated or ignored, not celebrated or worshiped, so that can be a challenge. or they assume that because i like feet, i won't like their feet. quite the contrary. spasms are hot, no matter where or when or what form they take.
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Post by Melina26 on Jul 1, 2015 15:18:16 GMT -5
The visual stillness of high quads, no movement below neck, and the fantasy of the feeling too...touching his skin and caressing his entire body even though he cannot feel it. Sadly I haven't had the opportunity yet to be with a quad to be able to experience it. Well dressed chair guys with nice haircuts always get me... The strength of character despite the vulnerability of the body. and pretty much all you have said here!!! Things I never thought before,like spasms, but when reading your posts, make soooo much sense!
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Post by tori on Jul 1, 2015 22:30:38 GMT -5
There are many things that turn me on, I like to see guys lifting and working out in their chair, being active and such, playing sports, also just the way they move. Same thing with amputees, I think that's why I am picky about the type of chair or the prosthesis....
spasms aren't my thing at all. Not that it would weird me out, it just isn't a specific turn on. Quad hands I get a bit. Although I'm really only turned on by low level quads that can use a manual chair, again the hardware is part of the whole thing for me.
For the blindness Dev in me I like seeing them do blind things, using the cane, using their hands and touching things etc....
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jul 2, 2015 3:45:57 GMT -5
The strength of character despite the vulnerability of the body. This. Although this doesn't really push my dev-buttons (as far as I'm aware) this is one of the reasons I like my guy so much as a person. He's so strong, although not physically. And I don't even think he's aware of it.
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Post by savannahgirl on Jul 2, 2015 12:52:28 GMT -5
I love how the chair becomes a part of their bodies. The way they move as one. Seeing a man control his chair is a major turn on. As for scars, I like them on the spine like where they've had surgeries. Gets my motor running.
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Post by Melina26 on Jul 2, 2015 15:15:33 GMT -5
I love how the chair becomes a part of their bodies. The way they move as one. Seeing a man control his chair is a major turn on. As for scars, I like them on the spine like where they've had surgeries. Gets my motor running. When I read about the scars before I thought "not really my thing" but now that you mentioned scars on the spine indicating the surgeries...I guess I do dig those!!
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jul 2, 2015 16:25:37 GMT -5
I love how the chair becomes a part of their bodies. The way they move as one. Seeing a man control his chair is a major turn on. As for scars, I like them on the spine like where they've had surgeries. Gets my motor running. When I read about the scars before I thought "not really my thing" but now that you mentioned scars on the spine indicating the surgeries...I guess I do dig those!! So do I. I must admit, I was a little disappointed when my guy told me that he had had surgery from the front of his neck only (as usual for quads as far as I know) and therefore I realized there would not be a big surgery scar down his spine. Those are damn hot, but now I'm also really into the scar on his throat. His trach scar is even sexier to me, though. I love looking at it, touching and kissing it.
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Post by bowlergrl0524 on Jul 3, 2015 12:46:32 GMT -5
I also love watching the movement. I'm talking to a guy now, a PWD and I love watching him walking. It's a struggle but it's so meaningful. Each step is deliberate. I just love his flow, even if it's not necessarily graceful. Yup, it's a turn on alright.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2015 17:10:20 GMT -5
Scars (my favorite is the one on my SO's spine) and his legs. It's a whole package kind of thing, but, yeah... His muscular upper body is pretty awesome too!
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Post by Emma on Jul 3, 2015 23:10:12 GMT -5
Scars are ok but not really devy to me. Personally I just like amputated limbs, short stumps to be exact and if there are two that sort of match that's all I need.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2015 18:27:33 GMT -5
I really like the hardware when it comes to disability, the wheelchairs, the crutches or the braces...seeing that on a body of a nice looking guy is a big turn on for me...
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