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Post by RollAlongSlowly on Oct 23, 2015 4:30:03 GMT -5
Think mine grew back.....
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Post by lucretia on Oct 23, 2015 6:37:31 GMT -5
I can honestly say, I've never had sex with a woman. Vaginas scare me. Scary vaginas keep me straight. Seriously.
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Post by greeneyedvillan on Oct 23, 2015 7:46:08 GMT -5
I was in a bad mood but, scary vaginas just made my day.
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Post by luvonwheelz on Oct 23, 2015 8:02:52 GMT -5
The last time I saw a vagina, I was coming out of it. Gold star gay!!!
I do agree, boobs are fun.
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Oct 23, 2015 8:04:19 GMT -5
The last time I saw a vagina, I was coming out of it. Gold star gay!!! I do agree, boobs are fun. There's always man-boobs.
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Post by Hopper on Oct 23, 2015 8:30:06 GMT -5
Are they as much fun? I've only played with flat chested men so I know no difference. In seriousness and honesty: Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. For me personally, my first time was a shambles and that was due to both of us being desperate to just lose this stigma associated with virginity. Yes, we made the foreplay rather exciting (you know the story I'd imagine so I won't elaborate on that aspect) but it was also clumsy, strange and for a supposed right of passage, rather disappointing. Imagine having someone lying on top of you trembling like a vibrating chair and gritting his teeth in pain due to his position. I feel for that girl, I really do. Of course some people out there would love that idea of a top-man shall we say, but I guess after all was said and done, we both felt awful about it and rather guilty. Anyway, what I'm saying is never rush into things until you are really, really sure. Besides, it's your body, you decide when to share it with someone. Not society, not the media, not the pencil thin woman on the corner in fishnets with a moustache wearing a skirt no bigger than a belt, not nobody! Your time will come along when it's right.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2015 9:00:38 GMT -5
You're not alone. Don't sweat it. When you're ready, you're ready. It's not like milk, there's no expiration date. No expiration date? Say that to my curdled ball juice when I go too long without getting any.
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Post by Hopper on Oct 23, 2015 9:08:33 GMT -5
Just keep a pumpin' to keep it a-flowin, sir.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2015 10:12:42 GMT -5
The last time I saw a vagina, I was coming out of it. Gold star gay!!! I do agree, boobs are fun. There's always man-boobs. Not the dreaded MOOBS!!!!
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Post by disabledguy94 on Oct 23, 2015 10:16:17 GMT -5
Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. Oh don't get me wrong I'm not ashamed of it. This was just out of curiosity. I did have a couple chances in high school but I just didn't take them. I'd rather it be with the right person, I'll lose it when someone worth losing it to comes along. A couple of the girls that offered where actually pretty hot but I also didn't feel like getting any STI or STD... they where pretty well know to get around a lot.
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Post by Kiran on Oct 23, 2015 12:47:33 GMT -5
I can honestly say, I've never had sex with a woman. Vaginas scare me. They scare me too!
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Post by Sir Paul on Oct 23, 2015 13:40:29 GMT -5
Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. Oh don't get me wrong I'm not ashamed of it. This was just out of curiosity. I did have a couple chances in high school but I just didn't take them. I'd rather it be with the right person, I'll lose it when someone worth losing it to comes along. A couple of the girls that offered where actually pretty hot but I also didn't feel like getting any STI or STD... they where pretty well know to get around a lot. Friend, I respect your noble quest for love, but opportunities like that should be taken! You were probably just too shy and nervous back then. Now you'll start meeting these magical creatures called "college girls." Talk to them. Ask them questions. Don't mention Halo 3. I see good things in your future.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2015 14:27:46 GMT -5
Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. Oh don't get me wrong I'm not ashamed of it. This was just out of curiosity. I did have a couple chances in high school but I just didn't take them. I'd rather it be with the right person, I'll lose it when someone worth losing it to comes along. A couple of the girls that offered where actually pretty hot but I also didn't feel like getting any STI or STD... they where pretty well know to get around a lot. The ones that get around a lot are the best kind! Plus, condoms exist for a reason. I know it's everyone's personal choice whether they want to "cherish" their virginity and save it for the "right" person, but for me I just got it over with with someone who was... Less than stellar, while I was drunk, and I'm totally cool with that. Went on from there to have many great experiences with much better women.
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Post by jturk on Oct 23, 2015 17:11:37 GMT -5
I can't say the same. They just don't exist in my life lol Don't worry in the beginning it takes a lot of work to get close to one. Not true, if you trip and fall face first into a woman's lap you'll probably end up right next to a vagina, a little harder to pull from a wheelchair but it's doable. No worries disabledguy94, I was until I was 21 and I will just say I took a shortcut to make it happen, but I had it built up to be this huge deal and then when I had sex with someone I had no interest in it wasn't really all that enjoyable. I mean yeah the physical act is gratifying but it's not a lot different from using your own hand without an emotional connection IMO. I can count the number of times since then that I've had sex on one hand. But here's why: I was so focused on sex as an act, as a goal to be reached that I ignored the fact that I deserved to be loved and treated well in addition to getting laid. I rushed into a shitty relationship because she promised to do all this sexual stuff which ultimately never happened anyway because the rest of the relationship was so out of whack. I spent the next 4 years not having any sex ever, and then the next 4 years figuring out why I let that happen to begin with also with no sex. But I'm ok with that. I know when you're 21 it feels like getting laid will just make everything ok but it has taken me to age 31 to realize that I needed to focus on love and not sex. I used to put way too much pressure on myself. If sex is overloading your brain I would suggest taking matters into your own hands if you catch my drift. As for meeting someone to get some real experience with I would suggest making friends with some girls. Just friends, not someone you call a friend but secretly want to sleep with either. Get to know some girls as people not just as vaginas with a person attached. Realize that your focus on the physical act is causing you to unconsciously objectify women. Be honest with yourself,I'm not saying this to be judgmental I've just experienced it myself and hope I can help you out. Once you have some platonic friends you should have a better idea of what you value in a girl, and yeah you might be physically attracted but don't let that be the only thing that guides your actions or interest. Once you start getting to know girls on that level I promise you things will start happening for you. If someone consistently doesn't have the time to make for you forget about them and move on, real friends make time for each other. Good luck dude, this stuff isn't easy, hopefully it helps and doesn't come off as an older dude talking down to you lol
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Post by disabledguy94 on Oct 23, 2015 23:22:42 GMT -5
Oh don't get me wrong I'm not ashamed of it. This was just out of curiosity. I did have a couple chances in high school but I just didn't take them. I'd rather it be with the right person, I'll lose it when someone worth losing it to comes along. A couple of the girls that offered where actually pretty hot but I also didn't feel like getting any STI or STD... they where pretty well know to get around a lot. Friend, I respect your noble quest for love, but opportunities like that should be taken! You were probably just too shy and nervous back then. Now you'll start meeting these magical creatures called "college girls." Talk to them. Ask them questions. Don't mention Halo 3. I see good things in your future. Oh it's not really about love, I just don't want it to be because of pity. If I had a friend that cared about me and wanted to I'd jump all over that opportunity. I sure wasn't too shy or nervous either lol.
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