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Post by Pisti on Nov 27, 2005 15:38:29 GMT -5
Methinks you are a dude Mr. a. (or a chick with a dick?) I had the same feeling about him/her. But I do not understand why would it be a problem... |
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Post by mrjefffurz on Nov 27, 2005 16:49:19 GMT -5
a problem?...lol....we str8 dudes ALWAYS have a problem where chix w/ dix are concerned,,,,being friends,,,not a prob,,,,,but being the object of attraction,,,,oh, hell yeah,,,major problem....and i know grrls who feel that way about gay grrls,,,and i know alot about gay grrls since i attract them like honey attracts beezes...
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Post by a on Nov 28, 2005 8:30:22 GMT -5
Ok guys. Yes I am a gay guy.
I do just want to point something out though.
For those of you who have joined from NM, this was always a site for dev's of para men. By it's very nature those dev's will be straight women as well as gay men. The gay aspect has decreased somewhat since the message board has gradually become something of a dating/personals service.
Although I seldom sign in, I have been visiting this site for a very long time. As far as I am concerned everyone is welcome, but you straight guys do have to accept that there will be a certain gay element.
I hope my fooling around hasn't offended you in any way Rollin'. That would never be my intention, and I would NEVER make an approach to a guy that I knew was straight. I have too much respect for people. I also have a para partner. If anyone is interested in how we met, the story is in the story archive, and is called something like The Rugby Player.
On the other hand a compliment IS a compliment whoever it comes from.
a.
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Post by V on Nov 28, 2005 15:00:27 GMT -5
I thought that story was hot. And I'm a chick and not really into the gay stuff. Hope you guys are happy, a. If your partner is as dreamy as he was made out to be in the story, I can only imagine that you are.
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Post by rollnthundr on Nov 28, 2005 23:47:50 GMT -5
Mrjeff thanks for the support. I know the p/c thing is to say there is no problem but sorry I'm not one to be p/c. I do understand that if I post something in a public forum I can't then say who can or can't see it. Although I do appreciate the compliment, I just think that if a person makes it known what his/her sexual preference is then it should be respected.
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Post by a on Dec 1, 2005 14:57:42 GMT -5
Ok Rollin', I've tried to be upfront, I've tried to apologise for any offence I may have caused, and I've tried to explain the environment in which you have chosen to participate. The fact that you have chosen to throw it back at me speaks volumes about the person that you are. So I'm outta here, to be honest I don't really want to be around people like you. I wish you luck in finding someone that makes you happy. Perhaps then you won't take yourself quite so seriously. Thanks for the comments V. He is even better than in the story, and getting better all the time. We are very happy thanks. Thanks guys, it's been fun, a. By the way Rollin', I'd still stroke your inner thighs for you.  |
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Post by sidney on Dec 1, 2005 16:34:54 GMT -5
All of a sudden I'm not jealous anymore Rollin!. - Sid
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Post by BA on Dec 1, 2005 19:17:27 GMT -5
Hmmm, this is a tough one Rollin' and 'a'. Some guys are very highly offended by any type of gay come-on and others could care less and will just say: "hey dude, I'm flattered, but I don't play on that team" Anyway, I just wish everyone wouldn't get so hot and bothered about everything. I don't think anyone on this site means to be disrespectful to anyone else. Rollin' , you are so attractive, that both men and women find you attractive. Is that a bad thing? I guess it depends on whether or not you choose to act on it and clearly you are a straight guy.
If I lesbian told me I was pretty, I'd be flattered, but I still wouldn't go with her. I find that I am more turned on by guys who can diplomatically handle the whole gay scene without feeling threatened by it. My ex-husband was homophobic to the point of refusing to go to a movie that featured a gay or even 'rumoured to be gay' actor. My current love, is very indifferent to the whole thing. He is disabled, he's been come on to very frequently and he respectfully declines. If another guy gets real pushy (happened to him once), he told the guy to get lost. I don't know why it is such a big deal to so many guys.
I respect your difference of opinions, but I don't think you need to leave us 'a'.
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Post by rollnthundr on Dec 1, 2005 20:15:24 GMT -5
I thought I was very civil in my comment. I accepted the compliment and took it for what it was.
I do find it interesting that a heterosexual man asked that his sexual preference be respected and a homosexual criticized him. Am I the only one who sees the irony in that?
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Post by Triassic on Dec 2, 2005 4:27:46 GMT -5
You guys are off base. 'a' made a very tame suggestive comment to rolln...it was just when he admitted to being male that the trouble started.
As far as I see it, if you can't handle gay men making mildly risque' comments about you then maybe you shouldn't post your pic here. There is NO presumption that only str8 guys and hetero women hang out here.
This board has to be for everyone. I don't see how gays ought to have some Fag Alert that goes off when they post either.
And we've been through that issue of posting anonymously.
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Post by Pisti on Dec 2, 2005 13:01:02 GMT -5
...and i know grrls who feel that way about gay grrls... Maybe... But the most sincere compliment I've ever heard came from a girl - in our mid teens, in a very reserved and shy country still under communism, where it has been a crime... I can tell you I fealt flattered... |
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Post by BA on Dec 2, 2005 19:43:51 GMT -5
You guys are off base. 'a' made a very tame suggestive comment to rolln...it was just when he admitted to being male that the trouble started. / |
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Post by mrjefffurz on Dec 2, 2005 20:10:01 GMT -5
lemme clarify my previous post,,,i have had gay dudes check me out,,,and i politely tell them (exciuse the bluntness but it gets the idea across w/ no room for misunderstandings) that i am all about the pussy,,,like my str8 grrl buds say they are strictly dickly,,,,as long as that is understood,,,*shrug*,,,its all good...
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Post by rollnthundr on Dec 2, 2005 20:55:33 GMT -5
I find this very funny, especially in a board that I thought would be little more lighthearted.
1. I have never said I was offended, (I wasn't) only that I should be respected.
2. people have assumed that they know what either "a" or myself are thinking or feeling. (at least for me, you've been wrong)
3. people have taken this so seriously (I haven't) Like the gun comment, even "a" saw it for what it was, a joke.
I'm curious.
In my very first post I basically stated I was straight. So "a" knew before he ever posted. I'm wondering, if the situation was a lesbian who had made her sexuality know and a straight guy kept hitting on her, would your comments be the same towards her asking to be respected as they have been towards me?
For further reference:
1. If you have a problem or want me to clarify a post I made, please stick around and talk to me about it. I think it's unfortunate that "a" chose not to do that. Also, please don't assume to know what I'm "really trying to say" or what I'm thinking.
2. I have yet to find anything that offends me. Especially comments made on the internet.
3. I rarely if ever take things to seriously. Life is to short to not see the humor in things.
So when you read any of my posts try to keep this in mind.
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Post by BA on Dec 2, 2005 22:57:12 GMT -5
Ahhhh, and I thought you sounded like you were kind of pissed off. My mistake.
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