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Post by SouthernCalGal on Feb 7, 2018 0:29:25 GMT -5
It hit me like crazy today! Almost couldn't concentrate at work! I am married to an A B man but can only think about DEV desires. I have gone back to reading books etc. I fantasize constantly when I am in this state - it's scary. How do the rest of you cope?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 7, 2018 0:58:23 GMT -5
I'm in the same boat as you! Books, fantasy, writing...I try to redirect some of that heightened sexual energy back into my partnership but most of it I reserve just for me. It's almost like a private form of tantra.
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Post by queenjane on Feb 7, 2018 13:42:02 GMT -5
I am currently coming down from a dev high, the first one in a long time, and it’s a huge relief. When I’m in the middle of one, I try to remind myself how easy life can be, how much better and more natural I feel without those obsessive thoughts running through my head. I can’t really comment on whether it works... but it can’t hurt, right?
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Post by mona on Feb 7, 2018 16:42:12 GMT -5
It hit me like crazy today! Almost couldn't concentrate at work! I am married to an A B man but can only think about DEV desires. I have gone back to reading books etc. I fantasize constantly when I am in this state - it's scary. How do the rest of you cope? I feel you. I also have an AB husband and my dev high has come to an end now (has it really? 😏) after almost a year! I actually enjoyed it. Don't feel bad about it. I can't give you any advice. I just see it as a gift or a sweet escape or a parallel world just for myself.
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Post by Celeste on Feb 7, 2018 20:41:21 GMT -5
I have been in such a dev low because I'm feeling all kinds of things about my AB ex...
However, I had a dream about this really hot wheelchair user last night, which definitely started some kind of dev phase. Thinking about dev things has been a nice distraction from a rough weekend romantically.
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Feb 7, 2018 22:58:14 GMT -5
Thank you everyone. It's so good to have support which helps when I'm in this intense phase. Hoping it dies down soon but I'm not to sure it will and I'm afraid where my mind travels sometimes !
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Post by laur on Feb 23, 2018 0:00:48 GMT -5
For like three months, I’ve been on such a dev high: reading devy romance novels, rewatching favorite shows that depict paras and quads, lurking here and reading threads, and writing stories. It’s crazy how it just hits me sometimes in both a bad and good way. I love my dev side and the feelings I get during these periods, but I struggle with being as satisfied as usual by my AB partner during these times...
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2018 7:17:20 GMT -5
I've been Dev high in this recent week. International disability event held in my city since last week. Although I am into wheeler, but I can't resist when a very handsome amputee approach me. Finally my dream come true. I had sex with disabled man, and he is not just an ordinary amputee. He is a famous paralympic athlete. What a wonderful experience! Wow, how did you meet ?
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Post by pam on Oct 15, 2018 7:17:53 GMT -5
Congratulations Jaina. I dont know you, but it is exciting when a fellow dev gets to have an experience like this. How nice you had this opportunity. I have been on a dev high since I found PD and dream about things like this. Hope you have wonderful memories of your dev time with him.
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Post by Emma on Oct 15, 2018 21:48:53 GMT -5
Sounds like a awesome dev dream come true! Now I'm trying to figure out who he is. What sport?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 20, 2018 17:57:21 GMT -5
We met at sport hall where his team performed. He just finished the game and saw me sat alone on a bench. He smiled at me and we talked and it just happened Wish there were more devotees like you. You are not supposed to read or write in here...Devs Only
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Post by katdob on Nov 29, 2018 4:11:53 GMT -5
I’m on a dev high at the moment and it’s driving me insane. Constantly watching programs with paras/ quads and reading. If anyone does find others ways to control it it I’d be happy to give it a go.
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Post by kyliestarz on Dec 5, 2018 20:38:41 GMT -5
I think I've come to the conclusion that there's no escape or long-term release from a dev high, other than the usual, temporary relief.
It's love hate for me. I love the intensity of a dev high because I get to satisfy a want (sort of), but I hate it because it's so consuming, which is awkward for someone in a AB relationship and in the closet about devness.
If it's too distracting, I just masturbate, as needed, and really just so I can focus. C'est la vie. I guess there are worse problems to have.
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Post by TotalBias on Dec 5, 2018 21:09:20 GMT -5
Ironically enough, I much prefer to date PWD, bud I tend to have AB fantasies or hybrid AB fantasies (like with the use of specialized equipment that would give them more mobility). When I’m with AB people I tend to not get as excited or am not as into it as if they were PWD, but sometimes when I’m with PWD I’m frustrated by things our bodies won’t physically let us do.
I think my dream is when our tech gets good enough that we could bang in a digital playground while feeling all the stimulation as if it were IRL. 😋
In all seriousness though, I’ve always found intimacy to be sexier with PWD, even when not every position was possible.
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Post by pam on Dec 5, 2018 21:12:19 GMT -5
It's love hate for me. I love the intensity of a dev high because I get to satisfy a want (sort of), but I hate it because it's so consuming, which is awkward for someone in a AB relationship and in the closet. been in a DEV HIGH since I joined here last spring, and it is hard to think about it all day and come home to an AB husband. Its like its work to get into reality again.
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