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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2018 13:56:41 GMT -5
Welcome to PD mysterious guy who jerks off
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Post by Manda2212 on Aug 3, 2018 14:03:31 GMT -5
LMAO, Holy Jerkeroni Batman. Amazing @tykes!
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Post by nycguy2018 on Aug 3, 2018 14:42:12 GMT -5
@tykes Forgive me if that is not what this board is for, but I was looking anonymously for advice on a deeply personal issue. And to clarify, no family member is doing anything for me other than helping me clean up. Due to the nature of my disability, I always have assistance showering.
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Post by nycguy2018 on Aug 3, 2018 15:24:23 GMT -5
@tykes Oh ok, thank you for explaining. I took it as a general sex-related board for PWD and devotees. I hope I did not offend anyone with this question. I might be interested in learning more about devotees at another point and would certainly revisit this board at the appropriate time with a proper introduction. That said, how could I get an admin/mod to remove this thread for me?
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Post by robbb on Aug 3, 2018 16:31:25 GMT -5
You make me die Tykes.
nycguy, welcome. I realise your post was serious but as openers go that was hilarious.
Don't worry too much about offending people, that hasn't happened to most of us on here for a long time.
Stick around, take part, share with us and learn about us, it's a good place with much to offer.
R.
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Post by Mets on Aug 3, 2018 17:24:52 GMT -5
Abrupt first threads are pretty hard, sometimes you just can’t pull one off
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Post by AlrightyAphrodite on Aug 3, 2018 18:44:51 GMT -5
You all crack me up. I love when a bunch of kinksters look down their noses and clutch their pearls because a disabled guy brought up masturbation on a board about sex with disabled people. I guess if he posted some like relational drama and then some threads about crochet... then can we talk about sex without setting off alarms for the Internet Politeness Brigade? Are you all offended on behalf of yourselves or someone else? Have you tried... getting over yourselves? Maybe you all need to post a sticky about the topics you consider acceptable for first posts, because I can't figure it out.
Not a very welcoming bunch, or some of us anyhow, but welcome to the party all the same NycGuy
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Post by someonerandom on Aug 3, 2018 19:01:39 GMT -5
You all crack me up. I love when a bunch of kinksters look down their noses and clutch their pearls because a disabled guy brought up masturbation on a board about sex with disabled people. I guess if he posted some like relational drama and then some threads about crochet... then can we talk about sex without setting off alarms for the Internet Politeness Brigade? Are you all offended on behalf of yourselves or someone else? Have you tried... getting over yourselves? Maybe you all need to post a sticky about the topics you consider acceptable for first posts, because I can't figure it out. Not a very welcoming bunch, or some of us anyhow, but welcome to the party all the same NycGuy You suggest they make a.... Sticky? Ha hah ahaha!
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Post by lucretia on Aug 3, 2018 19:04:26 GMT -5
I really don't think he came here for devs or dev discussion.
My daughter knows a guy, trying to get him to join here, and she already warned him we're a salty bunch. I've been keeping my eye out for him, because I promised to be nice.
LOL
Anyway, welcome to the party.
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Post by Manda2212 on Aug 3, 2018 19:31:11 GMT -5
Err, I did not mind the thread. I have seen way more awkward things posted here. However, I adored holy jerkeroni and wanted to acknowledge its awesomeness. I will probs steal it to use myself.
Welcome NCY dude.
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Post by Mets on Aug 3, 2018 20:35:11 GMT -5
I don’t think anyone was offended, just a little surprised to see it with no introduction or anything. I actually posted almost the same question when I was a new member myself, it’s a legit topic that PWDs think about and have little to no outlet to discuss. Nonetheless, it is still an unusual way to introduce yourself
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Post by kwhi on Aug 3, 2018 22:43:19 GMT -5
You all crack me up. I love when a bunch of kinksters look down their noses and clutch their pearls because a disabled guy brought up masturbation on a board about sex with disabled people. I guess if he posted some like relational drama and then some threads about crochet... then can we talk about sex without setting off alarms for the Internet Politeness Brigade? Are you all offended on behalf of yourselves or someone else? Have you tried... getting over yourselves? Maybe you all need to post a sticky about the topics you consider acceptable for first posts, because I can't figure it out. Not a very welcoming bunch, or some of us anyhow, but welcome to the party all the same NycGuy Good for you Aphrodite! I thought much the same thing.
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Post by pneilson on Aug 3, 2018 23:59:07 GMT -5
Welcome to PD mysterious guy who jerks off Best PD welcome ever...
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Post by robbb on Aug 4, 2018 0:53:37 GMT -5
You all crack me up. I love when a bunch of kinksters look down their noses and clutch their pearls because a disabled guy brought up masturbation on a board about sex with disabled people. I guess if he posted some like relational drama and then some threads about crochet... then can we talk about sex without setting off alarms for the Internet Politeness Brigade? Are you all offended on behalf of yourselves or someone else? Have you tried... getting over yourselves? Maybe you all need to post a sticky about the topics you consider acceptable for first posts, because I can't figure it out. Not a very welcoming bunch, or some of us anyhow, but welcome to the party all the same NycGuy I see no one looking down noses or being offended. Only 4 of us had posted by the time you did. Tykes answered the guy's question with a bit of advice on the side, Steve cracked a funny about the opening subject, Dani and I welcomed him. I think that's a fairly normal batting average for a welcome around here. I do see nycguy worrying he had offended and being told he probably hadn't. I see people laughing at the idea of walking into a room full of strangers and saying 'hi, so how do you wank?' which I still think is hilarious, or is it somehow different because it's a virtual room? R.
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Post by lucretia on Aug 4, 2018 5:07:37 GMT -5
I'm not offended, just amused. It's actually a very common question/subject and I don't think anyone was offended or put off. It's just not a typical first post.
I also get that from the outside, and without reading the "about us" info, someone might think this is "just" a sex board. It's not that different from thinking we're a dating site for PWD to find hookups.
What's different, and refreshing, is the OP's desire to respect the environment. He apologized (not necessarily necessary) and explained the misunderstanding, and also acknowledged he isn't necessarily interested in the dev aspect. He just wanted advice from other PWD.
He is obviously message board savvy because he's able to correctly tag and edit, as well as address the mods for guidance. I hope he sticks around if only for that reason.
😎
But seriously, I think if he's as bold and thoughtful as his first posts indicate, he's a good addition to our community. I hope he thinks about joining the conversation.
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