New Wheelchair Quad black male in Washington DC

[joeswanson1017]

Back in 2009 I was in a serious car accident and I broke my neck in 2places leaving me a quadriplegic. Since then I've been able to regain a lot of power and mobility back since the initial crash give me the ability to have a normal life working life

Since then it’s been really hard for me to get in a relationship let alone maintain one trying to find women who are comfortable and accepting to me and my wheelchair.... throughout the years it his has been really depressing not knowing if I ever find a woman who will be accepting of me and who I can’t have a life, friendship, relationship with someone to build with who doesn’t already have their own baggage ( multiple children )

I’m in the DMV area very interested in meeting new ppl

[joeswanson1017]

Nov 10, 2018 11:25:38 GMT -5 @tykes said:

Posted in the wrong place dude, try personals or general

Im interested to know your reasons for not wanting a relatonship with a woman who has 'baggage' as in multiple children, as a quad you bring your own baggage, it does seen a tad selfish

Im speaking as a para who inherited 3 children in marriage number 2(i refuse to call them step chidren, i kove them as my own) ive just given one away at her wedding, an extended family can be great and rewarding if you put the effort in. Dont rule it out 



 In rereading it you’re absolutely right using the word baggage is wrong I should say trying to find a woman already doesn’t have a family looking for an father figure.

[willie0001]

Welcome joeswanson1017, I went through rehab with a couple quads and know too well how we all live. Para is handier but we all have our same issues. Hope you find something here helpful.