brinzerdecalli
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I hope to encounter some interesting and uniquely minded people.
Posts: 217
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled Male
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by brinzerdecalli on Dec 4, 2018 23:21:04 GMT -5
When she leaves our loving relationship she runs into a very unsafe and dangerous one... Almost punishing herself. Yeah, this is really bad. I would say I've been through something slightly similar, in the sense who I was with had bipolar and was later diagnosed with schizoaffective. It's similar because she would go through periods of extreme lack of interest, then periods of loving and caring. At first it would seem like it was the difficulties of my disability, but as more time went on, it was more apparent that it had entirely everything to do with her mental health, and almost nothing to do with me. I'm not dating her now, but we are close friends and she is considerably more stable since she's been getting good treatment. The girl you're talking about, we can't know if she has a diagnosable disorder, but whatever the case, you might find that everything will look a huge deal better if you have patience with her. Of course, as has been mentioned, live your own life at the same time, which you seem to have been doing. Thanks for sharing and letting me I'm not alone in this tangled life we live. Can't keep a good man down... I'll be there for her when she wants, try to guide her where I can, but I will never just wait. I have a phrase I came up with. "I'd rather walk a mile than wait a minute for the next ride." It's about waiting for the bus, but works so well for this situation too... hahaha
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Post by matisse on Dec 28, 2018 22:31:46 GMT -5
Yeah, this is really bad. I would say I've been through something slightly similar, in the sense who I was with had bipolar and was later diagnosed with schizoaffective. It's similar because she would go through periods of extreme lack of interest, then periods of loving and caring. At first it would seem like it was the difficulties of my disability, but as more time went on, it was more apparent that it had entirely everything to do with her mental health, and almost nothing to do with me. I'm not dating her now, but we are close friends and she is considerably more stable since she's been getting good treatment. The girl you're talking about, we can't know if she has a diagnosable disorder, but whatever the case, you might find that everything will look a huge deal better if you have patience with her. Of course, as has been mentioned, live your own life at the same time, which you seem to have been doing. Thanks for sharing and letting me I'm not alone in this tangled life we live. Can't keep a good man down... I'll be there for her when she wants, try to guide her where I can, but I will never just wait. I have a phrase I came up with. "I'd rather walk a mile than wait a minute for the next ride." It's about waiting for the bus, but works so well for this situation too... hahaha What do you mean "be there for her?" She can just use you whenever she wants and then go away again? Be happy for the good times you had together, and just cut her off.
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