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Post by Nia on May 19, 2019 18:43:07 GMT -5
Hi girls. The truth is I miss u... despite all my misunderstandings with some of you guys here and everything that it’s not for me the truth is I miss u and in times like this I need your advice because no one else in the world could put this in perspective better than you I’ll start with a trailer on the story and if you answer and wanna help I’ll feed you with details I’m head over heals with a guy who is pwd and he is definitely into me We can’t stop communicating and we communicate wonderful but we both struggle to level up I seriously don’t know if it’s me or him or both and fuckig why,,,, I’m stuck and don’t know what to do It’s not drama we can keep status quo for ever but should we do that? Maybe DMs would be better... Thanks for answering after me being away for so long and I hope some of you missed me even a bit
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Post by Emma on May 19, 2019 23:02:26 GMT -5
Hi Nia its good to see you back but I'm confused by your post. What do you mean by level up?
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Post by Deleted on May 22, 2019 16:14:21 GMT -5
Hey nia, sorry youre stressed. Do you mean that youre struggling to open up to each other about your feelings/plans etc ?
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Post by Nia on May 22, 2019 16:22:55 GMT -5
Hi girls sorry for the late reply I’m in hell at work. lemons thanks sorry if I was unclear. When I say level up I mean to finally meet in real life. We closed the circle talking and messaging and literally opened every subject possible and now there is nothing more left besides meeting finally. And we both seem to want it so much and being terrified at the same time. I’m speaking for myself now, I’m honestly terrified.
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Post by Nia on May 22, 2019 16:24:28 GMT -5
And yeah to avoid future confusion I’m terrified because I’m almost certain I’ll fall in love and that I’ll have to change my life completely. Again.... not of not liking him irl...
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Post by Nia on May 22, 2019 16:26:35 GMT -5
Hey nia, sorry youre stressed. Do you mean that youre struggling to open up to each other about your feelings/plans etc ? No delight we opened up to each other about everything you can imagine
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Post by SouthernCalGal on May 23, 2019 13:08:34 GMT -5
Nia, welcome back. I think there was a thread not to long ago on PD that addressed - "Is it better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all." I know that fear can enter in quick when thinking about a new relationship. But, if you have been talking and from what you wrote you both seem very interested in each other - just do it! You can sit back and fret about what could happen all day long so...why not make it a reality. The upside - you both fall for each other and start something great or you meet and decide that you can just be friends or you have a wonderful time on your visit and then just continue to correspond. You never know what it could be unless you go for it! Would this be the first PWD you would be with? If so, I can see having nervous feelings about that. With all these crazy dev dreams running through our heads...I often wonder what that IRL experience would be like. Would it be better than the dreams? But, what happens if it didn't live up to the dreams ? Then what? But, I don't think you would ever know unless you went for it. Good luck and share what you decide to do.
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Post by raindrop on May 23, 2019 13:27:20 GMT -5
Go for it! Don't miss a chance at happiness! Feel free to PM me if you need someone to chat with. Honestly, it is worth it. Let us know how it goes if you do meet up!
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Post by raindrop on May 23, 2019 13:28:13 GMT -5
And yeah to avoid future confusion I’m terrified because I’m almost certain I’ll fall in love and that I’ll have to change my life completely. Again.... not of not liking him irl... I think it's too late. You already sound like you are in love!!!
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Post by Nia on May 23, 2019 16:58:56 GMT -5
Yes girls he would be my first pwd in my whole life and can’t believe it’s happening. You are absolutely right about everything you wrote. I’m not at all nervous because I worry that reality might not be as fantasy. I’m certain that it will be amazing. I’m just terrified because I feel that I would fall in love with him like never before
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Post by raindrop on May 23, 2019 17:28:19 GMT -5
Yes girls he would be my first pwd in my whole life and can’t believe it’s happening. You are absolutely right about everything you wrote. I’m not at all nervous because I worry that reality might not be as fantasy. I’m certain that it will be amazing. I’m just terrified because I feel that I would fall in love with him like never before So? Fall in love! Do it!
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Post by blueskye101 on May 24, 2019 6:16:29 GMT -5
Yes girls he would be my first pwd in my whole life and can’t believe it’s happening. You are absolutely right about everything you wrote. I’m not at all nervous because I worry that reality might not be as fantasy. I’m certain that it will be amazing. I’m just terrified because I feel that I would fall in love with him like never before @nia, Are you still with your same partner? Just wondering how things were going for you. Glad to see you are back. Sorry no advice for you but glad you can vent here and maybe someone has been in this spot.
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Post by Deleted on May 24, 2019 6:47:14 GMT -5
Hi Nia, so glad to see you back. I will PM you when I have a chance.
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Post by Deleted on May 24, 2019 8:32:01 GMT -5
And yeah to avoid future confusion I’m terrified because I’m almost certain I’ll fall in love and that I’ll have to change my life completely. Again.... not of not liking him irl... Its always worth changing things, especially if you have a chance at a positive future. Good luck x
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Post by pam on May 24, 2019 10:15:25 GMT -5
How wonderful to find your dream guy. Best of luck to you. Hope you meet him and are both happy!!!
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