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Post by toetyper on Jun 14, 2019 21:24:10 GMT -5
women;;need your help here/
friday night, im on my after dinner walk, i see this pretty woman ,so i pull up next to her; slow down just enough and say ''whats your name; she says 'no thank you not interested,' and turns down beaCon;; im at a disadvantage; because for all i know she might have heard an offer to joln Amway,
flash forward to tonight, same woman walking same block/ i try again, i just say hi/ she says;im walking alone,but i may have to get my husband;' ok message sent and recieved
did i do something wrong
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Post by Mets on Jun 14, 2019 23:38:59 GMT -5
yes
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Post by robbb on Jun 15, 2019 3:26:53 GMT -5
Yes.
Edited to add...
If she were the PWD instead of you that would be exactly the behaviour that get devs a bad rep.
R.
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Post by LaMara on Jun 15, 2019 3:52:35 GMT -5
Yes. The first time she was alone at night: it’s not the right time and place to hit on a woman, she was probably already alert and conscious of her surroundings The second time she probably started freaking out a little because, again, she’s alone at night and the same guy she already turned down tries again. I know I would Also, if she said no once, what made you think she would change her mind?
Edit: I realise that depending on your disability (which I don’t know) people around you might assume you couldn’t physically harm anyone so the lady walking alone might not have been afraid, but nevertheless being approached at that time and place was still probably uncomfortable and on the second time unnecessary
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Post by Hopper on Jun 15, 2019 4:08:52 GMT -5
Yes, very wrong.
You should have taken her "Not interested" seriously the first time around.
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Post by devogirl on Jun 15, 2019 4:56:08 GMT -5
Yes, you did wrong. 1. Do not approach women on the street especially at night. Only hit on women in spaces where women go because they want to be picked up, like a bar. 2. Never ever approach the same woman again once she has turned you down. No means no, do not try again. You showed you have poor judgment. She is never going to change her mind since you acted in a threatening way, and disrespected her by not accepting her no for an answer.
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Post by loulou on Jun 15, 2019 7:50:52 GMT -5
I’m inclined to think that if you’re asking the question you already know the answer & that’s what’s worrying.
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Post by RollAlongSlowly on Jun 15, 2019 8:00:04 GMT -5
I'm not sure. I suggest you try again...
...and then come back and tell us how a Taser to the throat and a night in a police cell feels
(And In case you've had a sense of humour bypass and dont get it... YOU WERE WRONG)
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Post by Sir Paul on Jun 15, 2019 12:11:20 GMT -5
You got some VERY honest responses here that may seem a little harsh to you, but take something from it and be more aware. Nobody likes to be approached while walking alone at night. You don't want the first thing a woman thinks about when she sees you to be - "am I about to get raped and left for dead?" - which is probably what she was at least subconsciously wondering. Live and learn.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2019 12:38:32 GMT -5
Maybe she sensed that you are a horny bastard
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Post by sy on Jun 15, 2019 14:38:00 GMT -5
Yeah, take a hint buddy.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2019 15:25:02 GMT -5
Am i the only person who is getting warning bells about this new member ? Obviously i may well be totally wrong but it feels to me a bit odd. Initial introduction covering every aspect of lgbgt+++++, dev, kinky, etc etc. Then a ridiculous post asking if its wrong to harrass/frighten a lone female at night ! What the hell
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Post by Hopper on Jun 15, 2019 15:38:21 GMT -5
Am i the only person who is getting warning bells about this new member ? Obviously i may well be totally wrong but it feels to me a bit odd. Initial introduction covering every aspect of lgbgt+++++, dev, kinky, etc etc. Then a ridiculous post asking if its wrong to harrass/frighten a lone female at night ! What the hell? I agree with you about the warning bells, but the lgbt ++++ kinky Dev is a different member from the OP in this thread. That guy is a gentle giant with a taste for kilts, the OP in this thread is a PWD semi-pro poker player with questionable social skills and motives for joining. Might be best not to get them mixed up.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 15, 2019 15:59:40 GMT -5
Am i the only person who is getting warning bells about this new member ? Obviously i may well be totally wrong but it feels to me a bit odd. Initial introduction covering every aspect of lgbgt+++++, dev, kinky, etc etc. Then a ridiculous post asking if its wrong to harrass/frighten a lone female at night ! What the hell Oh dear god, youre right 😂😂. Sorry to both. Being awake for 46 hours out of 48 is obviously not good for me
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Post by Hopper on Jun 15, 2019 16:21:31 GMT -5
Well, neither is 2 hours sleep good enough for ya if you were to go now.
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