What do Devs want to know from disabilities?

[new4u]

A question to all the devs out there: If I was to talk about myself or myself or my disability a what would you want me to talk about?

I've read through the Dev boards and there are many different points of interest among the Dev members. I understand that this group is a bout accepting your attraction to persons with disabilities, forming a safe community where you can explore your feelings and talk as bout them with other Devs, knowing that your feelings are totally fine, that you are not alone.

But for each of you out there, each Dev that would care to answer, what would you individually like to know about my disability or my life with as disability?

Being a Dev is more than just about a sexual attraction, so there is a lot you may want to know about. But sexual attraction to persons with disabilities is an important part of being a Dev, so let's talk about what turns you on personally. Maybe I'm not your type at all... But maybe I am. We won't know until we talk about what excites you. It may be a particular physical manifestatation of someone's disability, such as an amputation or an SCI, or it might be about their struggles as ND difficulties, or you may w a not to hear descriptive details of past sexual encounters I w has with non- disabled persons.

What a ould you, as an individual Dev, like to hear from me?

[feelsunshine]

Hi,
I have my personal “preferences” on disabilities, in short description: SCI. but still, please don’t think that devs are attracted to a PWD only because of his disability! There is so much more to it. I can only speak for myself but in the end it’s the whole package of a guy that counts. Character, looks, same humor, trust.. the regular stuff that any relation whatsoever would be based on.
Anyways, thanks for the invite on asking questions here.
I read through your posts. I get that you have struggles with an arm and a leg and you’re nearly blind. Are these conditions somehow related to each other? What’s up with your arm and leg? How old are you and where are you from? You didn’t happen to mention that earlier.

[lars]

This question is also one of those that gets to asked quite often, so it's good to familiarize oneself with the search function as well. Some questions get repeated a lot, and perhaps that is something that disabled guys can relate to as well ^^

[new4u]

HiFeelsunshine, thanks for responding. I was diagnosed with MS when I was 14, it got bad after a motorcycle accident when I was 18, paralyzed my left arm and leg with no function below the shoulder and hip. I can move my shoulder and swing my hip, but that's it for the left side. I was in a wheelchair for about 8.5 years and walk with a cane now - I can lock my left knee to take steps. My right side is norm as l and quite string. My MS caused optic neuritis and was affected from the very start. I'm 52 now and live in Toronto. Funny thing - my mild facial paralysis (most people can't notice it) has had a sort of permanent Botox effect, and I don't have any wrinkles like others my age. There is always a silver lining I guess.

To Lars: I wasn't asking a general question but a specific question to individuals. I've read the boards, so I get the concept, but I was asking what individual devs would like to know

[Deleted]

Unforfunately I don't think you will get lots of replies

[britishtetra]

Mate, I don’t wish to be the profit of doom, I am sure you researched your question but it’s not like a sweet shop in here. You just can’t get the candy off the shelf, it takes effort and time, don’t approach the devotee unless you have over 300 messages to your name. I would say wait until someone messages you, enjoy the board, add bits of your character and personality now and again. Don’t post in the Devotee section, that’s my warning to you! All the best to you, add some photos also.

[FlyingBert]

They want to eat your soul!  

[pumafreak]

What you are forgetting is that devs are women, and like any women they prefer a man to be functioning, confident, comfortable in their own skin, have a bit of character, personality and a good sense of humour wouldn't go a miss. Disabled or not Disabled