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Post by kyliestarz on Oct 9, 2019 21:02:57 GMT -5
Would you rather have 1 intimate date night over a bottle of wine at your place with a hot pwd with your primary disability fantasy OR 5 of those nights with a hot pwd with your secondary disability attraction?
This is a tough one for me...it depends on the day, but usually my ultimate fantasy is a hot DAK, and second would be a hot para. I think I would go for it though, one night with my dream amputee, argg but one night is so short. I’d want it again so much the next day it would almost not be worth it. There’d be no rush with 5 nights....I can’t decide.
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Oct 9, 2019 22:34:06 GMT -5
Hmm kyliestarz - this is a really fun question to think about. I'm going to have to take this question and run it through my dev head tonight and get back to you .
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Post by Emma on Oct 9, 2019 22:56:57 GMT -5
I'd absolutely choose the 5 nights but then again my disability preferences aren't all that different from each other.
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Post by robbb on Oct 10, 2019 2:23:06 GMT -5
One night only.
R.
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Post by feelsunshine on Oct 10, 2019 3:00:22 GMT -5
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Post by pam on Oct 10, 2019 7:04:52 GMT -5
Just one. The 5 nights wouldn't last forever anyway, so I might as well enjoy the one.🙂
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Oct 10, 2019 7:18:27 GMT -5
kyliestarz , I would choose the one night. It would start early though (around 5:00 P.M.) and go well into the next morning ending with brunch. We’d have a lot to get accomplished .
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Post by devogirl on Oct 10, 2019 7:38:14 GMT -5
This is not the kind of choice you would ever have to make in real life. Here's how it often happened for me when I was single and looking: do I invest the time and effort trying to make it work with a guy who is my primary disability fantasy, even though he lives far away and/or we don't really have anything in common? or do I pursue a guy who lives nearby and/or we have a lot in common but he's not really my type? I always chose option 1 and it always ended badly. Option 2 turned out to be better in the long run.
The other thing is that my primary disability fantasy is just that, a fantasy. The kinds of things that give me a dev thrill in books/movies are pretty limited. But in real life, I have gotten devvy feelings from all kinds of unexpected situations, some I would never have guessed. It all just depends on the person and the circumstance.
For example, as a teenager during a summer trip I met a guy who was born with a malformed hand. In terms of impact on his daily life, it's a really minor disability. If a character in a book had that disability he would not have interested me at all. But something about the unexpected encounter plus watching him do things like eat lunch put my dev feelings in high gear. And he was cute. I was obsessed with him. Unfortunately I was only around him for about a week so nothing happened, alas.
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Post by blueskye101 on Oct 11, 2019 2:59:01 GMT -5
1 night. I had this happen couple years ago and though more would have been nice; I have memories and dev material for life. 😆😉😩
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Oct 11, 2019 4:41:33 GMT -5
1 night. I had this happen couple years ago and though more would have been nice; I have memories and dev material for life. 😆😉😩 I’m jealous !
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rebeca
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Post by rebeca on Oct 11, 2019 6:19:25 GMT -5
take 1, then convince him to stay for 6 more. I'm very persuasive.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 20, 2019 4:33:11 GMT -5
Interesting question!
Does SB and SCI count as two separate attractions?
If so I'd love to choose the 5 nights option!
I've already had a sexual experience with my primary attraction so I'd love to have a few nights with attraction number two!
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bananaleaf
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Post by bananaleaf on Oct 21, 2019 10:55:50 GMT -5
I think I'd take the 5 nights! First times (not actual FIRST times but sex with somebody for the first time) are often a little awkward and rarely really really good.
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bluefox
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Post by bluefox on Oct 26, 2019 19:07:11 GMT -5
Wow, even though my primary (muteness) and secondary (blindness) interests trigger the dev in me almost equally much in the right phases, this is hard. Maybe it's even because of that. I think I'd go for the 5 nights - someone here wrote the first night is rarely the best and if it's only one night, I'd regret it so much because there would be so many fantasies left untouched - damn, why does it have to be time limited at all! ;-; But being honest with you, I think then and there I'd choose the one night with the handsome mute guy. The instincts would kick in! 😅
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Post by devogirl on Oct 27, 2019 9:02:24 GMT -5
Hey bluefox it's so interesting that your #1 is muteness. That's definitely a big one for me too! Although less so after I learned that true aphonia without hearing loss is really rare. Deafness is also a big dev preference for me, especially if the guy chooses not to talk. If you're interested, a member here has been writing a super long story about a guy with a fictional condition that includes intermittently not being able to speak:
There hasn't been much discussion about muteness here but I'm totally up for it. Do you go for any speech impairment, or sign language also? Any favorite books or movies?
As for your #2, there are tons of blindness devs here too (including me).
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