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Post by N2paraguys on Feb 19, 2020 18:49:36 GMT -5
Rail is easy but if not suggest Uber over taxi
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Post by N2paraguys on Apr 23, 2018 19:26:44 GMT -5
You are a Very sexy man David!
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Post by N2paraguys on Feb 20, 2018 19:01:25 GMT -5
Good job!
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Post by N2paraguys on Mar 14, 2017 17:40:26 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you enjoy it here!
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Post by N2paraguys on Feb 19, 2017 12:33:18 GMT -5
Damn your sexy Lars!
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Post by N2paraguys on Dec 29, 2016 16:57:50 GMT -5
So many false statements! This guys thought process is fxck'd up!
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Post by N2paraguys on Aug 25, 2016 22:44:29 GMT -5
Sad summer is coming to an end too! Agree seems like it just got started! Spent a lot of time in my pool and riding ATVs this summer! Not sure about winter yet...although I will find a way to cope lol!
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Post by N2paraguys on Jul 27, 2016 18:19:50 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you enjoy!
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Post by N2paraguys on May 19, 2016 7:11:43 GMT -5
You look amazing Brian! You are an incredibly sexy guy!
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Post by N2paraguys on Mar 22, 2016 22:00:46 GMT -5
ESFP (the entertainer") here! Reading up seems pretty accurate!
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Post by N2paraguys on Dec 31, 2015 22:59:36 GMT -5
Congratulations! Wishing you many years of happiness!
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Post by N2paraguys on Dec 24, 2015 10:34:20 GMT -5
Merry Christmas to all!
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Post by N2paraguys on Dec 23, 2015 16:37:34 GMT -5
anyone around to chat?
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Post by N2paraguys on Nov 29, 2015 14:55:16 GMT -5
Great questions that I think highlight some perceptions about devotees that don't apply to me (not saying they don't apply to other devotees or that they that they are bad perceptions per-say
In no way do I feel like I have "walked in your PWD shoes" - said differently, there is no experience in my life that I feel is relate-able or as life changing. Having spent significant time around both friends and sexual partners that have had spinal cord injuries. I clearly recognize the enormity of the impact such an injury has on ones life and would not wish such an injury on my worst enemy.
I don't believe my attraction to para guys is either empathetic or sympathetic based; however, I do think resilience is part of the attraction. A can-do attitude is very attractive in anyone, whether is be a PWD or an able bodied person.
History of attraction: As a guy, I dated women through high-school and college and finally in my mid-20s experimented with a guy and quickly concluded at a minimum bisexual with a much stronger preference for men. In the self-acceptance process, I quickly came to recognize it was a preference that was part of my DNA as the attraction existed long before I ever new what sex was (great childhood with great parents). I also came to realize my attraction to paraplegic guys was the same - existed from early childhood and long before having any concept of sex (can remember seeing them on TV or movies and being excited or aroused - no such men existed in my life).
The Attraction: First I have to be attracted to the guy, the injury will not make me attracted to a guy that I would not otherwise be attracted to. Next I am attracted to all aspects of his injury (again wouldn't wish such an injury on my worst enemy). The way he does everyday tasks, pushes his chair, gets dressed etc; the way he looks sitting on the couch, his chair, laying in bed or bending down to pick something up, the way he puts on shoes, this list goes on. Also attracted to things others or he may see as a detriment - the smaller lower body, the toll sitting takes on the butt, the way he deals with urination or the sexual challenges such an injury can cause. But the attraction is not sympathetic or empathetic - I just find it sexy! I usually explain it like this - I am attracted to para guys the way some people are attracted to blondes or skinny, or curvy, or muscular, or geeks, or nerds, or intelligence - there is nothing deviant about my attraction.
I have no desire to control him, be his caregiver or dominate him in anyway especially sexually! I want us to be a team! I 100% recognize that there are things that I may have to do, not naive, but also know there are things he can do to make my life easier too - it all equals out!
Sexually, yes there are challenges. The key to great sex is communication - I want to please him and I want him to please me - again equals in the end!
Finally I don't understand pretenders either! I have NO desire to be a para or pretend to be one - then again I have never understood men or women who have a desire to be something other than what they were born - Not saying its wrong but I can not comprehend!
Long post but hopefully answers the questions presented!
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Post by N2paraguys on May 16, 2015 23:13:06 GMT -5
Smokin HOT Bro!
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