zeuss1953pa
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Posts: 10
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled
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Post by zeuss1953pa on Feb 4, 2023 13:39:03 GMT -5
I'm very curious as to your relationship with your disabled SCI partner. If he is a Quad like Me, he needs some everyday help in dressing, showering/drying off, all the general house work. Do you live in with your partner and do all these things, maybe even get married? What type of a sex life do you have with your partner, if he's got ED?? Do you specifically come out and ever tell your man, that you are a devotee, and if he wasn't disabled that he wouldn't be your type? I'm totally new to thw whole dev thing so I'm asking, not trying to pry!
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Post by ichbin on Feb 5, 2023 15:49:38 GMT -5
I'm very curious as to your relationship with your disabled SCI partner. >> If he is a Quad like Me, he needs some everyday help in dressing, showering/drying off, all the general house work. He is not a Quad. >> Do you live in with your partner and do all these things, maybe even get married?
We don't live together. Regarding marriage... too early to think about (relationship only since half a year). Just today though we talked about a couple we both know where the guy is a high quad and his wife does all his care. They have two children also. >> What type of a sex life do you have with your partner, if he's got ED?? There's more to sex than 1.) penetration and 2.) penetration with an errect phallus meaning: 1.) for having fulfilled sex (intimacy, connection, sensations...) as well as for having an orgasm for me penetration (with whatever) is not necessary 2.) for having fun with penetration the specific male organ is not necessary - there are fingers that do a perfect job 3.) ED doesn´t mean no erection. Pills do the work. >> Do you specifically come out and ever tell your man, that you are a devotee?
Yes, he knows I am a devotee and has known from the very beginning. In fact, he would not have said hi to me on the online dating platform if in my "profile section" there would not have been the note that I am looking for a "paraplegic guy, TH level, acquired injury". >> if he wasn't disabled that he wouldn't be your type?
I wouldn't say he is not my type. After 6 months of getting to know this man better and better and spending so much time with him, with so many different activities, always having a good time, laughing a lot together, ... I think he's a very good match for me. Also, I don't think the disability is inseparable from the personality. He has been paraplegic for 30 years, and a lot of what I love about his personality is due to his way of dealing with his disability. So, if he weren't disabled, he would be a completely different person. If he could magically be cured and walk again, I would be so happy for him because I know he would love it. I would still love him for who he is. But the physical attraction would for sure not be the same, that's, as a matter of fact, a fact 🤷♀️
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A
New Member
Time answers your questions or makes you no longer care about the answers.
Posts: 11
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by A on Feb 9, 2023 15:21:14 GMT -5
Welcome
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zeuss1953pa
New Member
Posts: 10
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled
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Post by zeuss1953pa on Feb 11, 2023 12:56:04 GMT -5
Hello A, Why are you Peeking Out through those beautiful eyes??? Care to chat sometime?
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