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Post by imupforanything on Feb 19, 2023 18:14:32 GMT -5
I saw an older post about disability and kinks but thought maybe best to start a more current one.
I have kinks from before my accident (SCI) and some I developed after that have been shaped by my disability. I can go into more specific's if anyone is curious but starting off general since I'm new here and don't want too go "to far".
My before accident kinks are still my dominate ones and the new ones evolved as I adapted. I was almost twenty at the time of my accident and had been active from an early age so I did have time to develop what I liked.
The newer things don't surpass my standards but I've learned to enjoy them a lot. Especially the sensitivity of my neck and ears above my line of lesion, lips on my neck and kissing my ears. Even just how good it can feel to have fingers and fingernails ran through my hair, gripping and pulling on it. I feel like I overlooked a lot of the simple things before and how sensual they can be.
One new thing to is the visual aspect of things that used to be driven just by touch, such as in the dark. I now like to have a camera to watch things I can't see and cast it to my tablet in my sight. I can't explain it in words but the mind "fills in" what it remembers and is a big part of it for me.
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Post by wheelzoffortune on Feb 19, 2023 19:33:27 GMT -5
Well, I never had any kinks from before my injury because it happened when I was 6 months old.
I definitely have kinks now, but I'm not entirely sure I want to get into them here lol. I will say this, though... for the most part written erotica does it for me much more than watching actual porn. Not sure if that is a para thing or just a me thing.
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Post by someonerandom on Feb 19, 2023 19:59:11 GMT -5
Well, I never had any kinks from before my injury because it happened when I was 6 months old. None that you remember anyway…
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Post by loveonaroll2 on Feb 19, 2023 20:10:33 GMT -5
Very interesting topic my friend I like the way you think I will get into some of my kinks as a 28 year old guy with Cp I’m not sure why but I am attracted to whenever a girl takes charge and does things for me even if I can do that myself like I can feed myself but man whenever a girl feeds me I get weak 🥵 another girl I was dating took charge and offered to drive me to continue our date after my Pca told us he had to get me home. I had a girl try to get me in bed herself but unfortunately she couldn’t do it That same girl got me dressed herself after sex and took of my pants too If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that you guys are the only group I have felt comfortable to open up and talk about this kind of thing to also I love Sexting in fact it turns me on just reading my sexy text messages back 😂 also I love being called daddy baby and babe I love hearing a girls voice and when she smiles also I am turned on by physical touch and cuddling I have a really high sex drive lol 😂 I love sexy Lingerie sexy videos pictures even FaceTime or video chat sex I am turned on more by personal Messages and Content more then porn in fact I haven’t found a lot of porn out there with Pwd and people without disabilities I would love to see more of that content in the future also I love when a girl tells me how much she wants me and what she wants to do to me . Finally Thanks to Pd I have discovered erotica that describes sexual encounters of people who are in wheelchairs and people without disabilities I never really read erotica prior to joining this Community and I really love it and that turns me on so please keep it coming to anyone who write these hot sexy stories.
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Post by writerg on Feb 19, 2023 21:12:37 GMT -5
Very interesting topic my friend I like the way you think I will get into some of my kinks as a 28 year old guy with Cp I’m not sure why but I am attracted to whenever a girl takes charge and does things for me even if I can do that myself like I can feed myself but man whenever a girl feeds me I get weak 🥵 another girl I was dating took charge and offered to drive me to continue our date after my Pca told us he had to get me home. I had a girl try to get me in bed herself but unfortunately she couldn’t do it That same girl got me dressed herself after sex and took of my pants too If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that you guys are the only group I have felt comfortable to open up and talk about this kind of thing to also I love Sexting in fact it turns me on just reading my sexy text messages back 😂 also I love being called daddy baby and babe I love hearing a girls voice and when she smiles also I am turned on by physical touch and cuddling I have a really high sex drive lol 😂 I love sexy Lingerie sexy videos pictures even FaceTime or video chat sex I am turned on more by personal Messages and Content more then porn in fact I haven’t found a lot of porn out there with Pwd and people without disabilities I would love to see more of that content in the future also I love when a girl tells me how much she wants me and what she wants to do to me . Finally Thanks to Pd I have discovered erotica that describes sexual encounters of people who are in wheelchairs and people without disabilities I never really read erotica prior to joining this Community and I really love it and that turns me on so please keep it coming to anyone who write these hot sexy stories. Your kinks make a lot of sense! My earliest memories of strong ladies throwing me around in therapy was my first positive experience with women. Strong women make us feel safe and protected. During this time, they were clearly an authority figure role, so there is yet another connection to disability and desire to feel protected.
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Post by devogirl on Feb 20, 2023 2:08:23 GMT -5
If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that
You enjoy erotic submission to a dominant woman, that's a beautiful thing! You're not the only PWD who's a sub, I have met at least one IRL and there are a few here on PD.
I'm glad you are enjoying it. You mean on the PD blog site, right? Look for the stories by Lovis and Rowan, they really know how to write about guys with CP. They published some books on Amazon too, look up Lobster with a Straw by Lovis Johnson and Shadowboxing by Rowan Mai (if you don't mind m-m content).
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Post by loveonaroll2 on Feb 20, 2023 8:50:16 GMT -5
If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that
You enjoy erotic submission to a dominant woman, that's a beautiful thing! You're not the only PWD who's a sub, I have met at least one IRL and there are a few here on PD. thanks so much that makes so much sense however I also helping the girls I date however I can but I guess I’m primarily a sub ? I feel so relieved you have no idea! I'm glad you are enjoying it. You mean on the PD blog site, right? Look for the stories by Lovis and Rowan, they really know how to write about guys with CP. They published some books on Amazon too, look up Lobster with a Straw by Lovis Johnson and Shadowboxing by Rowan Mai (if you don't mind m-m content). and yes I do but I’ve also found a couple of stories on some of the threads that I enjoyed I primarily enjoy Contant between a man and a woman I’m not sure what you mean by mm content but I do appreciate the recommendations and I’m so glad to finally communicate with you on here !
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Post by loveonaroll2 on Feb 20, 2023 8:53:41 GMT -5
Very interesting topic my friend I like the way you think I will get into some of my kinks as a 28 year old guy with Cp I’m not sure why but I am attracted to whenever a girl takes charge and does things for me even if I can do that myself like I can feed myself but man whenever a girl feeds me I get weak 🥵 another girl I was dating took charge and offered to drive me to continue our date after my Pca told us he had to get me home. I had a girl try to get me in bed herself but unfortunately she couldn’t do it That same girl got me dressed herself after sex and took of my pants too If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that you guys are the only group I have felt comfortable to open up and talk about this kind of thing to also I love Sexting in fact it turns me on just reading my sexy text messages back 😂 also I love being called daddy baby and babe I love hearing a girls voice and when she smiles also I am turned on by physical touch and cuddling I have a really high sex drive lol 😂 I love sexy Lingerie sexy videos pictures even FaceTime or video chat sex I am turned on more by personal Messages and Content more then porn in fact I haven’t found a lot of porn out there with Pwd and people without disabilities I would love to see more of that content in the future also I love when a girl tells me how much she wants me and what she wants to do to me . Finally Thanks to Pd I have discovered erotica that describes sexual encounters of people who are in wheelchairs and people without disabilities I never really read erotica prior to joining this Community and I really love it and that turns me on so please keep it coming to anyone who write these hot sexy stories. Your kinks make a lot of sense! My earliest memories of strong ladies throwing me around in therapy was my first positive experience with women. Strong women make us feel safe and protected. During this time, they were clearly an authority figure role, so there is yet another connection to disability and desire to feel protected. I’m so glad you think so I never thought about it that way that would be an interesting topic of discussion for one of the threads on her disability and desire may be a good topic for my podcast disability a desire thoughts?
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Post by Braced4Impact on Feb 20, 2023 13:51:53 GMT -5
Er...me If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that
You enjoy erotic submission to a dominant woman, that's a beautiful thing! You're not the only PWD who's a sub, I have met at least one IRL and there are a few here on PD.
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Post by imupforanything on Feb 20, 2023 14:01:34 GMT -5
Do you see your increased focus on neck, ears, and scalp stimulation as a kink? Is the sensation in those areas much stronger compared to before your injury? It is much stronger and more intense for sure. I wasn't necessarily considering it a kink per say, more that it became something much more that it was. Changes due to my accident though have changed my perception and shaped new things that became kinks that probably would not have happened if I was never injured.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2023 17:40:40 GMT -5
first gotta say im with everyone here who’s into written erotica. i was first introduced to it bc i know people who narrate erotica for audiobooks — tho they’re never stories with pwd /sigh — and tho sometimes they can get a little cheesy (never the sex always the plot) it’s a lot of fun to indulge in it.
i definitely had kinks before my sci but maybe for the purpose of this thread i’ll keep it to like after injury
ok well this did exist before injury — but since injury maybe it’s a tad stronger — but im into being a sub to a more dom woman. it also just seems very intuitive for a person with less mobility too. like yes use me and tell me what you want or what you want from me lol. but recently as ive been like exploring and becoming more comfortable experimenting i def can be a more of a dom as well. there’s just something about telling whoever youre with exactly what you want — or the other way around — that is def a turn on for me. but anyway…
post injury — even tho i can still get hard and everything — im really into the idea that an orgasm is like achieved in your brain through a release of chemicals and not necessarily through a release from your genitals lol. so my heightened sensitivity above my injury level or where i lose function also really helps. so like my head, ears, neck, shoulders, clavicle, my chest etc. the feeling is absolutely stronger than pre injury and i can get just as aroused and get an orgasm from someone stimulating those areas as i can below the waist. tbh sometimes it can be too much lol. ok not really but still.. i’d actually go as far as saying playing with those areas — my neck and shoulders especially — is def a kink probably shaped by my disability. like even if stimulation is coming from below the waist it’ll probably be even better if my hair is getting pulled or something lol.
but even tho i can still get hard and get pleasure from stronger sensations above injury level i think my main kink is getting my partner off tbh. i live for it. like post injury ive definitely become pretty good at a couple specific things and i sorta take pride in it a little lol. but for me — and maybe this isnt really a kink at all — sex is the best when im with a partner and we’re just exploring each other and figuring out/discovering what we like either in the moment or more generally. and so with that i also like to use toys when im with a partner — for her and for me.
i certainly have more kinks that may or may not be disability related but maybe i should save those for the DMs lol
oh wait… ok maybe this is a weird one but as ive had some nerve degeneration over the years ive developed a really bad spasm in one toe where the pain can be straight up excruciating every now and then if it flares up and in those moments thats all my brain focuses on. but like when it gets really bad having someone rub it — i have stronger sensation there too — the pain relief might as well be sex lolol
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Post by AlrightyAphrodite on Feb 20, 2023 19:20:53 GMT -5
Pain is the hot sauce in the spice cabinet of life
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Post by Dr. BiPAP Sachin on Feb 20, 2023 19:29:49 GMT -5
I've got kinks too, so I guess I'm a kinkajou. Of course, all kidding aside, visual stimulation most definitely gets me ohhh so hard. Also, I consider myself as physically submissive, but verbally dominant, though I'm technically still a virgin. Hot legs are also a turn on for me, though I believe I may have brought this up way back in an earlier post when I initially joined PD.
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Post by Dr. BiPAP Sachin on Feb 20, 2023 20:10:37 GMT -5
Very interesting topic my friend I like the way you think I will get into some of my kinks as a 28 year old guy with Cp I’m not sure why but I am attracted to whenever a girl takes charge and does things for me even if I can do that myself like I can feed myself but man whenever a girl feeds me I get weak 🥵 another girl I was dating took charge and offered to drive me to continue our date after my Pca told us he had to get me home. I had a girl try to get me in bed herself but unfortunately she couldn’t do it That same girl got me dressed herself after sex and took of my pants too If anyone can explain to me why I am turned by by this kind of thing I would appreciate that you guys are the only group I have felt comfortable to open up and talk about this kind of thing to also I love Sexting in fact it turns me on just reading my sexy text messages back 😂 also I love being called daddy baby and babe I love hearing a girls voice and when she smiles also I am turned on by physical touch and cuddling I have a really high sex drive lol 😂 I love sexy Lingerie sexy videos pictures even FaceTime or video chat sex I am turned on more by personal Messages and Content more then porn in fact I haven’t found a lot of porn out there with Pwd and people without disabilities I would love to see more of that content in the future also I love when a girl tells me how much she wants me and what she wants to do to me . Finally Thanks to Pd I have discovered erotica that describes sexual encounters of people who are in wheelchairs and people without disabilities I never really read erotica prior to joining this Community and I really love it and that turns me on so please keep it coming to anyone who write these hot sexy stories. Wowww you stud you!! Damn, I need to consider these additional items fo sho, 'cause you da man!
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Post by scinoob on Feb 24, 2023 1:37:33 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I (he’s para) are into a whole load of kinks. We’re mostly into the same things but my big ones are rubber/latex/, bike leathers and rope. Although the latex can be tricky for him. He likes nipple play and rope. I’m not sure why but I love tying him up completely even if he can’t move his legs etc anyway 🤔
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