Post by ruthmadison on Apr 28, 2011 22:32:38 GMT -5
It's, of course, hard to predict real life and know how I would actually be.
There isn't much information in this question, but it seems to me that it is assuming that you have a good relationship with an ab guy and then he becomes disabled.
Well, maybe I'm a bad person, but that sounds pretty great to me.
If I already liked him ab, then I'm going to absolutely adore him disabled. The issue is the guilt. Did I cause it by wanting it? Is it my fault?
Okay, that and the difficult transition from ab to disabled. I've always dated guys at least ten years post injury because I'm not interested in that drama.
But I will own up to my inner dark side. I would like this hypothetical person more when he's disabled.
There isn't much information in this question, but it seems to me that it is assuming that you have a good relationship with an ab guy and then he becomes disabled.
Well, maybe I'm a bad person, but that sounds pretty great to me.
If I already liked him ab, then I'm going to absolutely adore him disabled. The issue is the guilt. Did I cause it by wanting it? Is it my fault?
Okay, that and the difficult transition from ab to disabled. I've always dated guys at least ten years post injury because I'm not interested in that drama.
But I will own up to my inner dark side. I would like this hypothetical person more when he's disabled.