Post by wonk on Nov 16, 2010 4:55:38 GMT -5
For those of you having trouble getting a date; just remember
"be careful what you wish for because you might just get it!"
Earlier this year I met a lady on a national dating site, she had
just moved to my town to go to university (as a mature aged student)
After chatting online a few times, and making sure she understood I was a para
and a couple of the things that it entails, we organised to go out for dinner.
At the arranged time I went to pick her up, I was expecting something less
than what I had seen in her photos, which were blurry and i was sure would be 5 or
more years old. When she arrived at the door I was very pleasantly suprised.. Hubba hubba
On the way to the restaurant it was a very pleasant but supeficial conversation.
However on sitting down she decided she should share something with me, she disclosed
that she had been a pole dance/stripper before arriving in Bathurst, well that certainly
explained the awesome bod and certainly didnt cause me to take a step back.
After ordering she asked a harmless question and this is where things started to go downhill!
"What have you been up to" God I should have replied "not much", but I had to mention
a one hour interview with a solicitor (lawyer) and that I had been asked to give
evidence in a court case on behalf of the defendant, blissfully unaware of the ramifications
I continued....
When I was in high school I attended a catholic boys boarding school ( I am a lapsed catholic BTW)
run by Priests and brothers, a couple of years ago a few accusations arose about inappropriate things
occurring while i was there. The person making the accusations was later proved to be making up many things
and was considered unreliable, however in the storm created other people came forward. I wondered if it was
true? A Grab for money? or mass hysteria.
One of the men accused was my dorm master for 4 years, I was very suprised and had never even heard a whisper before,
and believe me, we talked about everything.
When i was at school this person suspended me for 2 weeks for having possesion of an pornographic
magazine, when this occurred nothing inappropriate happened at all, and this was what i was asked to tell in court.
from this the following conversation occurred:
her: I hope they cut his balls off and make him rot in Gaol (Jail)
me: If he is guilty I hope he is punished
her: He deserves to have his balls cut off!
me: I don't know what did or didnt happen, but I never experienced anything like what he is being accused of
her: You fucking apologist, he is guilty
me: don't you think we should let the court decide
her: No, cut his balls off
me: what if he didnt do it
her: well he probably thought about it! and it will be a lesson for others
At this point I think "shut up Mal" why o why didnt i listen to myself,
thoughts raced through my mind, maybe she had been a victim herself
but would i let something like this lie? did i have to stick up for my principles?
Me: Don't you believe in innocent until proven guilty
her: Fuck that, they really should put these predators to death
me: are u serious?
her: YES!!
me: so if someone is charge then they should be executed without a trial
her YES
before I could say any more the waitress arrives with the entree
after a few mouthfuls, I still haven't learnt my lesson and press on
Me: Its a slippery slope, without the separation of powers, and the right to a fair trial
we could end up like Nazi Germany.. (nothing like an extreme example to get to have my point of view lol)
her: Hitler had the right idea, he just didnt go far enough
me: ha ha
her: no, I am serious
me : your joking right (looking now for a hidden camera)
her: No he should have exterminated all the blacks and Asians
me: One of my best mate is from Hong Kong
her: we may never get another chance like he had.
Me : come on thats not funny, are you taking the piss?
Her: Do you have a problem with it
me: yes i do
her: I am a racist and I am proud of it
me: WHAT???
her: this isn't going to work out with us, is it?
Me: NO!
at this point I went to see the owner of the restaurant who was a friend of mine,
and paid him and told him to get her dessert if she wanted, i went back to the table
and put $20 on the table and said "that is for a taxi" and left
On the way home i couldn't help but marvel how someone so attractive on the outside
could be so ugly on the inside.
SO I haven't been on a date since
"be careful what you wish for because you might just get it!"
Earlier this year I met a lady on a national dating site, she had
just moved to my town to go to university (as a mature aged student)
After chatting online a few times, and making sure she understood I was a para
and a couple of the things that it entails, we organised to go out for dinner.
At the arranged time I went to pick her up, I was expecting something less
than what I had seen in her photos, which were blurry and i was sure would be 5 or
more years old. When she arrived at the door I was very pleasantly suprised.. Hubba hubba
On the way to the restaurant it was a very pleasant but supeficial conversation.
However on sitting down she decided she should share something with me, she disclosed
that she had been a pole dance/stripper before arriving in Bathurst, well that certainly
explained the awesome bod and certainly didnt cause me to take a step back.
After ordering she asked a harmless question and this is where things started to go downhill!
"What have you been up to" God I should have replied "not much", but I had to mention
a one hour interview with a solicitor (lawyer) and that I had been asked to give
evidence in a court case on behalf of the defendant, blissfully unaware of the ramifications
I continued....
When I was in high school I attended a catholic boys boarding school ( I am a lapsed catholic BTW)
run by Priests and brothers, a couple of years ago a few accusations arose about inappropriate things
occurring while i was there. The person making the accusations was later proved to be making up many things
and was considered unreliable, however in the storm created other people came forward. I wondered if it was
true? A Grab for money? or mass hysteria.
One of the men accused was my dorm master for 4 years, I was very suprised and had never even heard a whisper before,
and believe me, we talked about everything.
When i was at school this person suspended me for 2 weeks for having possesion of an pornographic
magazine, when this occurred nothing inappropriate happened at all, and this was what i was asked to tell in court.
from this the following conversation occurred:
her: I hope they cut his balls off and make him rot in Gaol (Jail)
me: If he is guilty I hope he is punished
her: He deserves to have his balls cut off!
me: I don't know what did or didnt happen, but I never experienced anything like what he is being accused of
her: You fucking apologist, he is guilty
me: don't you think we should let the court decide
her: No, cut his balls off
me: what if he didnt do it
her: well he probably thought about it! and it will be a lesson for others
At this point I think "shut up Mal" why o why didnt i listen to myself,
thoughts raced through my mind, maybe she had been a victim herself
but would i let something like this lie? did i have to stick up for my principles?
Me: Don't you believe in innocent until proven guilty
her: Fuck that, they really should put these predators to death
me: are u serious?
her: YES!!
me: so if someone is charge then they should be executed without a trial
her YES
before I could say any more the waitress arrives with the entree
after a few mouthfuls, I still haven't learnt my lesson and press on
Me: Its a slippery slope, without the separation of powers, and the right to a fair trial
we could end up like Nazi Germany.. (nothing like an extreme example to get to have my point of view lol)
her: Hitler had the right idea, he just didnt go far enough
me: ha ha
her: no, I am serious
me : your joking right (looking now for a hidden camera)
her: No he should have exterminated all the blacks and Asians
me: One of my best mate is from Hong Kong
her: we may never get another chance like he had.
Me : come on thats not funny, are you taking the piss?
Her: Do you have a problem with it
me: yes i do
her: I am a racist and I am proud of it
me: WHAT???
her: this isn't going to work out with us, is it?
Me: NO!
at this point I went to see the owner of the restaurant who was a friend of mine,
and paid him and told him to get her dessert if she wanted, i went back to the table
and put $20 on the table and said "that is for a taxi" and left
On the way home i couldn't help but marvel how someone so attractive on the outside
could be so ugly on the inside.
SO I haven't been on a date since
Or maybe I should just say racism, period. Because I get the impression that some people still think it's like that down here. 