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Post by eva on Oct 23, 2015 3:59:42 GMT -5
It was the most amazing feeling, I can't even describe the feeling in words. I loved feeling the end of his bone and being amazed at how a femur can just end like that. I relive it on an almost daily basis. I love feeling his legs and the feeling I got the first time almost comes back every morning. I do often think about the first time and how amazing it was. I love this. I'm the kind of person whose sexual attraction wears off after a few months, I just don't feel the mojo anymore. So I'm always fascinated that you can still feel so much desire after years. But then maybe it's because I'm not with a para
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katz
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Post by katz on Oct 23, 2015 13:27:26 GMT -5
What a fantastic topic.
I had a (male) SCI friend in college. Low quad. We met in a science class (I made sure we met) and soon were talking after class and walking to class together and partnering up on projects. I was so attracted to him and didn't understand why, at the time.
Anyway, he started to lose some of his hand function, which freaked him out, and he shared that with me. Being in on that and being asked to help him with his coat zipper,grab a pen for him, etc, was a big turn on for me. He ended up having to have surgery to remove scar tissue around his injury site and he was moved into a nursing home temporarily for his recovery. We stayed in touch the whole time he was out of school. I would visit him in the nursing home and we would talk for hours. Looking back, I realize that he was interested in me too (based on some of the things we talked about) but with all that was going on with him at the time, neither of us acted on it.
One night we had gone outside to talk and when we came back in, he started having really bad spasms in his legs. I had seen that before but not this bad. He transfered onto the bed and asked me to pull his legs up onto the bed for him...he was in some pain and needed to change positions quicker than he was able to on his own. That was my first real devvy touch. The spasms continued and he asked me to put some pressure on his legs, which I did with my arms and upper body. I could have fainted right then and there. Still, when I think about it...It was the most intimate experience without being sexual all at all.
If I had that evening to do over again, it would have ended differently. Instead, he laid in bed and I sat in the chair next to him and we ended up talking about sex at some point. I was so naive... haha
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Post by Melina26 on Oct 25, 2015 18:56:17 GMT -5
Dont wanna give out too much details yet, but my first touch just happened like a month ago. We met at the airport (I'm in Brazil, he's in USA) and said hi but no touch yet. Then we rode to his house on a wheelchair van, after a few bumps on the road his arms slide out of the correct placement on his chair and he asked me to get them back into placement for him. (he's a high quad who can't move his arms at all). Then I first touch his hand and wrist, placing them back, then pull his arm a little bit too. That first touch on his warm, fatty, soft hand is quick but pleasurable. It's like I was so overwhelmed I can't really remember it all, all that I felt. Then later I hugged him and it was weird cuz i didn't know how to do it with him on his chair. And the other significant moment was when I first touched his bony, skinny chest and shoulders and his belly. That I reaaaaly felt something waking up inside of me, a desire I had never felt before with abs. It was all amazing!
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Post by bowlergrl0524 on Nov 3, 2015 18:50:32 GMT -5
So, I will finally jump in on this. When we met the first time over Labor Day weekend, the first touch was a hug when he came through the gates of the State Fair. I was so nervous. Part of it was because I was there with my family, and part because it was so exciting and overwhelming. My family did not know before he and I met in person that he is a quad. So, it was all very awkward. However, I leaned down, and we embraced in a hug. After splitting off from my family, we were alone, and I took off his wrist brace from his right hand so we could hold hands comfortably. For those that are new and don't know, I am in a relationship with HungryQuad from here. He is a C5 quad, which means no wrist or hand movement. So, as he explained it to me, he would rather have stiff wrists than floppy wrists, which is why he wears the wrist braces all the time. That and they also hold his utensil holder. But, that day included a lot of hand holding and touching. By the end of the day, I had worked up the courage to sit on his lap. That was the most awkward. Part was because I was afraid of hurting him (I am not a small girl) and in part because I couldn't really get both legs on his lap because of his leg bag (He was wearing shorts so it was up high on his leg). It was like I was on cloud nine though. Even though his movement is limited, it was so heartfelt. It just made every dev sense in me tingle. It was funny because we were holding hands all day, but he would go through crowds and kinda forget that I was attached to him, because he couldn't let go of my hand, so I would get dragged through crowds that I didn't fit LOL. But now I just crave his touch and feeling. Maybe someday I will share how our first weekend together went
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kathy23rd
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Post by kathy23rd on Nov 18, 2015 18:48:34 GMT -5
Lovely stories I haven't had any first touch yet and not sure if I will either. My boyfriend is not disabled in any way, we've been together almost ten years, and I love him so much. It's all in my fantasies
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Post by Melina26 on Dec 30, 2015 19:01:12 GMT -5
Can you believe i had to come back here to read my own message and remember how it happened cuz one day I was just thinking "hey...how was it again the first time we touched and kissed?" Hahaha I couldn't remember cuz it all happened so fast and was so overwhelming....i feel like it was forever ago! Weird.
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Post by anniemouse on Jan 3, 2016 14:29:48 GMT -5
He transfered onto the bed and asked me to pull his legs up onto the bed for him...he was in some pain and needed to change positions quicker than he was able to on his own. That was my first real devvy touch. The spasms continued and he asked me to put some pressure on his legs, which I did with my arms and upper body. I could have fainted right then and there. Oh. My. How did you restrain yourself from leaning in for a kiss after the tremors abated? This is the stuffs of daydreams I never thought happened in real life!
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Post by butterfly on Jan 3, 2016 20:24:18 GMT -5
My day is coming....the anticipation is almost too much to bear at times but it is on its way. I cannot wait until I am able to share that experience with the ones who will understand it the best. Soon enough, my loves, soon enough.....
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