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Post by Oved on Jun 11, 2006 3:10:43 GMT -5
Why can't the wheelers flirt with us women first? My problem is I don't know how to flirt.....plus I'm technically challenged. I have no cam......don't even know how to find an email address here....... Ray, I've seen your posts at beautyability.com. I really enjoyed them since you have a great sense of humor. Too bad I can't get to the message board anymore.  |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jun 11, 2006 7:52:25 GMT -5
Why can't the wheelers flirt with us women first? My problem is I don't know how to flirt.....plus I'm technically challenged. I have no cam......don't even know how to find an email address here....... A lot of wheelers are very nervous at making the first move proberly due to rejection or just assume that you may be looking at them out of pity or just interested on what happened to them. So many people who do chat to us ask those sort of questions, or tell us about their medical history, or the medical history of a relative etc. Female devotees are very rare from our perspective, and when they are afraid to tell anyone that they are attracted to disabled people, it is very hard for us to find out etc |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jun 11, 2006 7:57:31 GMT -5
some of the members have icons on the left under their name, looks like a bit of cheese  click on that to send the person an email |
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Post by fabie on Jun 11, 2006 8:26:46 GMT -5
and cute w/c users are very rare from our devo perspective  ;D |
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Post by wheelie37 on Jun 11, 2006 11:10:48 GMT -5
I thought Germany was very accessible. I would have thought you would have more chance of meeting wheelers |
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Post by vivi on Jun 11, 2006 12:06:25 GMT -5
and cute w/c users are very rare from our devo perspective ;D So true... For me, to see any wheeler is a treat, even more finding a cute one! I went to the US about 3 weeks ago, and was sitting at the food court in the mall, having lunch. I did see a wheeler, but sadly he was with a lady that seemed to be his mom. I don't think I would have had a good reaction from her if I went over to say hi, but I still stared at him, and I think I caught his eye. Still, he wheeled away. |
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Post by Ray T on Jun 11, 2006 15:48:27 GMT -5
and cute w/c users are very rare from our devo perspective ;D Hey I am cute... i guess that means that i'm rare...lol if you do not beleave me just ask needles and have a look at my pix |
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Post by needles on Jun 11, 2006 18:40:09 GMT -5
and cute w/c users are very rare from our devo perspective ;D Hey I am cute... i guess that means that i'm rare...lol if you do not beleave me just ask needles and have a look at my pix Needles chooses to remain silent on the subject. As usual. |
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Post by mrjefffurz on Jun 13, 2006 15:27:11 GMT -5
this wheeler certainly has no problem making the first move,,,those who no me say im just a natural flirt,,,they say im flirtatious toward every woman i come ib contact with *shrug* i dunno,,,im frindly,,,lol,,,ive been told that im cute,,,but i just laff it off,,,i dont think a 50 yr old dude can be cute...now that ive lost so much weight i feel if i WAS cute i lost it...the jovial chubbster thing, yanno....ahem, vivi,,,i know where u coulda seen a wheeler w/o a woman (unless it was a "daughter-like" grrl) who's eye woulda been quite catchable *wink*...ok...im rambling...lol
edited t claim that i typed this post lying down and with the monitor the only lite...but the truth is never 1/2 as inteesting...maybe...i dunno...im rambling again
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Post by Oved on Jun 14, 2006 3:15:00 GMT -5
jeff: i like your tat. coffee, tea or me? ;D
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Post by mrjefffurz on Jun 14, 2006 22:41:12 GMT -5
well, since u put it that way....i can have offee or tea & it wont be special...so i reckon that leaves you...coincidence...i tink not ;D
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Post by Oved on Jun 17, 2006 4:50:02 GMT -5
Very smooth, jeff......I like it!!!!
So, really, tell me about your tat. Where and what is it? Did you get it pre- or post injury?
Personally, I don't have any. I wouldn't mind getting one or two but I hesitate because it's so permanent. It's not like you can get rid of it if you ever get bored of it. Or, you can't change it if you suddenly decide you don't like how it came out.
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Post by mrjefffurz on Jun 17, 2006 14:37:18 GMT -5
interesting story, my tat,,,i have the native american bear totemon my left forearm...it is the symbol for strength and perseverence thru life's difficulties...its upside down so i see it right-side up...a constant reminder...the eyes was done as a human eye,,,the lightning bolt is reversed...to remind me that the "power?" whatever,,of the bear comes from within...the is a smal red mark near the eye,,,that symbolizes the fact that some wounds never heal,,,i have a scar over my right eye that i got when i was 3 yrs old & sometimes it still hurts...i got it done in april of '05,,,wayyy post injury...lol...the same time i had it done my daughter had a more simplified bear totem done on her right shoulder,,,but her's is sniffing a flower  the tats were what she wanted for her birthday....my feeling is to chose a tat that has such a strong meaning to you that regretting it isnt much of a possibility,,,no non-family names on ones butt, for instance  |
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Post by carpenter on Jun 17, 2006 19:34:31 GMT -5
Harpo, what is a Native American Beer?
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Post by Oved on Jun 21, 2006 2:29:52 GMT -5
jeff, thanks for sharing. i like the customized tat and its interpretation. your daughter must think you are the coolest dad to get a matching tat for her bday. the upside down matter is pretty cool, too. who wooda thunk? are you native american? |
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click on that to send the person an email 
the tats were what she wanted for her birthday....my feeling is to chose a tat that has such a strong meaning to you that regretting it isnt much of a possibility,,,no non-family names on ones butt, for instance 
