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Post by wheelie37 on Jul 17, 2006 1:04:12 GMT -5
No he doesn't know. I am not going to tell him also, because he once said he would not go there, if he knew a girl was a devotee. How ironic huh? We are going to marry in the next year... maybe I will tell him in time. But right now, I don't see the point to it. I know I am , but I don't see myself as a devotee - I am devoted to him- it doesn't rock my boat anymore when I meet a cute wheeler down the street. Does he know about this site? Maybe he would realize that devotees are actually very nice  I am surprised he doesn't see female devotees as positive thing! Has he had a bad experience with one in the past? |
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Post by babs on Jul 23, 2006 13:57:14 GMT -5
Hi, It's not because he had a bad experience with a devo in the past. He can understand a devo is attracted by the possible fighting spirit of a disabled person -the will and power to survive- but he can't get his head round the fact that someone can only be turned on and is even looking for someone with a disabled body. Hmmm... at first I didn't totally agree with him, but since we been together for a long time now, I must admitt, that it became clear to me that I was more attracted to his personality and the way he carried himself than just his disabled body. Don't get me wrong.. his body still turns me on inmensely, not only because he is gorgeous, but in particular because he is who he is; the guy that loves me like no other and holds the key to my heart.
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Post by ajpchicago on Jul 23, 2006 14:12:07 GMT -5
If being attracted to the physical was the only element necessary for love then I would have married that hot guy that I made out with sophomore year of high school. Just because a girl is a dev, doesn't mean that she is going to fall in love with a guy in a chair (or vice versa). The same goes for a girl that digs asian guys or tall guys or whatever the physical is. Maybe your husband doesn't understand that being a dev is just like desiring any other physical attribute. And I would be worried for your relationship if your attraction had never moved beyond the physical.
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