cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 15, 2020 14:41:50 GMT -5
Perfect!
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Uh...hello
Feb 15, 2020 21:33:28 GMT -5
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Post by sy on Feb 15, 2020 21:33:28 GMT -5
This dude introduced himself as a straight cis-male. I kind of want to fight him now.
Here's an ethical question. Is it okay for two disabled dudes to get in a fight?
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 15, 2020 21:38:03 GMT -5
This dude introduced himself as a straight cis-male. I kind of want to fight him now. Here's an ethical question. Is it okay for two disabled dudes to get in a fight? In all fairness, I wanna fight me too. Like...who tf do I think I am?? And it's only unethical if we refuse to give each other reasonable accommodations lol
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Post by sy on Feb 15, 2020 21:42:04 GMT -5
He's a good sport. He's okay with me.
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 15, 2020 21:45:58 GMT -5
He's a good sport. He's okay with me. Score!
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everythingiown
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Post by everythingiown on Feb 15, 2020 21:49:49 GMT -5
He's a good sport. He's okay with me. Score What a wholesome exchange! This could of went a completely different, far more toxic direction. I'm already loving this community!
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 15, 2020 21:55:06 GMT -5
What a wholesome exchange! This could of went a completely different, far more toxic direction. I'm already loving this community! Me too, dude! I keep coming back to this thought that this community is like someone put a ramp on human interaction and made it super accessible.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2020 22:39:53 GMT -5
Hi, always good to have new people on the board
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 15, 2020 22:44:51 GMT -5
Hi, always good to have new people on the board Thanks!
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Post by Green on Feb 16, 2020 21:10:19 GMT -5
a loving partner (we're polyamorous) I'm more inclined to relationship anarchy myself. I'm curious if you guys were both polyamorous before you met? Or were you guys monogamous and decided to open your relationship? I'm just curious if your disability played any part in that.
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 16, 2020 21:46:36 GMT -5
a loving partner (we're polyamorous) I'm more inclined to relationship anarchy myself. I'm curious if you guys were both polyamorous before you met? Or were you guys monogamous and decided to open your relationship? I'm just curious if your disability played any part in that. We were monogamous and decided it wasn't for us. I think my disability affected that decision, to a limited degree. We got together when I was 16 (I'm 24 now) and she is the first and still the only woman I've been with. I wasn't comfortable with the idea of only ever being with one person and she wasn't comfortable with the idea of me only ever being with one person. So we opened things up sexually at first but, in our various pursuits, we both ended up catching feelings for people. At some point we just realized that catching feelings is natural and monogamy isn't (in our collective opinion).
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Post by lisa on Feb 17, 2020 11:21:11 GMT -5
It's really cool to see a development like that in a relationship. I experienced the same thing, being in a LTR, that there will eventually be other people you have feelings for. It is so great to be in an environment where you don't have to suppress these feelings, but can explore them. (I know, this is not for everyone and I am not living in a totally open poly relationship either, but I like the idea very much.)
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Post by Sir Paul on Feb 17, 2020 13:24:23 GMT -5
Welcome aboard the S.S. Paradevo!
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Post by linda on Feb 17, 2020 13:52:27 GMT -5
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cripman33
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Post by cripman33 on Feb 17, 2020 13:54:20 GMT -5
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