bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Post by bracey1 on Feb 22, 2020 22:15:54 GMT -5
Greetings all. I'm a fairly new member of this group, looking to find like minded people to chat with. I consider myself a devotee who would like to do some pretending in the privacy of my home (I very much don't want to offend anyone dealing with a disability who would find this offensive).
I find myself fascinated with quadriplegics, those with a tracheostomy and on a ventilator in particular. I'd appreciate chat with anyone to share their experiences and perspectives on this.
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Feb 23, 2020 13:04:01 GMT -5
Post by feelsunshine on Feb 23, 2020 13:04:01 GMT -5
I hope this site helps you in finding what you're looking for. The thought of pretending is very difficult to understand for my brain. Although I once in a while fantasized how it might "feel" to be paraplegic, I never ever felt the urge of pretending for real, like actually purchasing a wheelchair and trying that. And also, the thought of being together with a pretender would not be fulfilling to me. I'm looking for the real deal - let's put it like that. Welcome to the board!
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 13:52:30 GMT -5
I hope this site helps you in finding what you're looking for. The thought of pretending is very difficult to understand for my brain. Although I once in a while fantasized how it might "feel" to be paraplegic, I never ever felt the urge of pretending for real, like actually purchasing a wheelchair and trying that. And also, the thought of being together with a pretender would not be fulfilling to me. I'm looking for the real deal - let's put it like that. Welcome to the board! Thanks. I've been trying to reconcile these feelings for a while. It feels good to be able to talk with some who may understand a little of what I am trying to understand.
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Post by linda on Feb 23, 2020 15:17:26 GMT -5
While I myself cannot at all relate to the idea of pretending, I once came in a bit closer contact with a pretender online and realized the obvious – that also pretenders are just normal people like you and me. And being fully aware of the fact that my devness feels just as irritating for other people as pretending does to me, I think the only way is to be acceptive towards any kind of lifestyle or orientation as long as it happens with the consent of everyone involved. After all, none of the people on the board has chosen to be what they are. Welcome on board! I hope you will find what you are looking for.
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Hello
Feb 23, 2020 16:04:35 GMT -5
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Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 16:04:35 GMT -5
While I myself cannot at all relate to the idea of pretending, I once came in a bit closer contact with a pretender online and realized he obvious – that also pretenders are just normal people like you and me. And being fully aware of the fact that my devness feels just as irritating for other people as pretending does to me, I think the only ways is to be acceptive toward any kind of lifestyle or orientation as long as it happens with the consent of everyone involved. After all, none of the people on the board has chosen to be what they are. Welcome on board! I hope you will find what you are looking for. Thank you. I appreciate your perspective.
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Feb 23, 2020 16:44:38 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2020 16:44:38 GMT -5
Welcome to the board, hope you find what you are looking for. Have you been on Fetlife? You may find some more info there and chat with like minded people when it comes to pretending.
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 16:47:21 GMT -5
Welcome to the board, hope you find what you are looking for. Have you been on Fetlife? You may find some more info there and chat with like minded people when it comes to pretending. I'm on Fetlife and had a few conversations. However, I was interested in exploring this from a non-sexual perspective. I realize there may not be many pretenders here, but I think enough devotee interests can overlap for stimulating conversations. Along with learning about the experiences of actual persons with disabilities.
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Feb 23, 2020 16:56:59 GMT -5
Post by Nate on Feb 23, 2020 16:56:59 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you find what you're looking for.
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Hello
Feb 23, 2020 17:03:16 GMT -5
Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 17:03:16 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you find what you're looking for. Thank you!
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Feb 23, 2020 17:10:01 GMT -5
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Post by pam on Feb 23, 2020 17:10:01 GMT -5
Welcome, hope you make new friends and gain lots of useful information
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Hello
Feb 23, 2020 17:11:33 GMT -5
Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 17:11:33 GMT -5
Welcome, hope you make new friends and gain lots of useful information Thank you. Looking forward to chatting with everyone.
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Feb 23, 2020 17:24:11 GMT -5
Post by Dr. BiPAP Sachin on Feb 23, 2020 17:24:11 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you enjoy it here, man.
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bracey1
New Member
Would love to talk with vent dependent quads about their experiences.
Posts: 21
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Hello
Feb 23, 2020 17:51:55 GMT -5
Post by bracey1 on Feb 23, 2020 17:51:55 GMT -5
Welcome! Hope you enjoy it here, man. Thanks!
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malkyor
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Posts: 15
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled
Relationship Status: Single
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Feb 23, 2020 19:25:42 GMT -5
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Post by malkyor on Feb 23, 2020 19:25:42 GMT -5
Hi and welcome! If you want to keep in touch, please message me so we can chat
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Feb 23, 2020 19:38:03 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Feb 23, 2020 19:38:03 GMT -5
Welcome to the board, hope you find what you are looking for. Have you been on Fetlife? You may find some more info there and chat with like minded people when it comes to pretending. I'm on Fetlife and had a few conversations. However, I was interested in exploring this from a non-sexual perspective. I realize there may not be many pretenders here, but I think enough devotee interests can overlap for stimulating conversations. Along with learning about the experiences of actual persons with disabilities. Oh yeah, FL is definitely mostly about sex so I get it if you want to get a different perspective on this. Best wishes
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