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Post by Braced4Impact on Sept 26, 2022 11:00:33 GMT -5
Was curious where people stood on this.
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Post by Dr. BiPAP Sachin on Sept 27, 2022 19:31:34 GMT -5
My math nerd analysis is calling, jk. Ok, there are two main reasons I voted neither/not interested. (1) The definitions of key terms in any poll are crucial, in my view. You ought to explain what "switch" means, as I'm not sure what it means. (2) I think there should be an "a little bit of both" option. I consider myself physically submissive, since I can't move at all, and definitely want to be gently touched and squeezed by my potential partner, almost like one of those cuddly Vermont teddy bears.  On the other hand, I consider myself verbally dominant because I'm good at giving directions, that is, when it's sexy time I'll tell my potential partner exactly what I want and how I want it, consensually of course. Btw, please don't change the poll, I was just giving my individual perspective on it.  |
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Post by atlwheelin on Sept 27, 2022 19:36:06 GMT -5
My math nerd analysis is calling, jk. Ok, there are two main reasons I voted neither/not interested. (1) The definitions of key terms in any poll are crucial, in my view. You ought to explain what "switch" means, as I'm not sure what it means. (2) I think there should be an "a little bit of both" option. I consider myself physically submissive, since I can't move at all, and definitely want to be gently touched and squeezed by my potential partner, almost like one of those cuddly Vermont teddy bears. On the other hand, I consider myself verbally dominant because I'm good at giving directions, that is, when it's sexy time I'll tell my potential partner exactly what I want and how I want it, consensually of course. Btw, please don't change the poll, I was just giving my individual perspective on it. Switch indeed means adapting to either role in a given scenario |
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Post by Braced4Impact on Sept 27, 2022 20:02:39 GMT -5
My math nerd analysis is calling, jk. Ok, there are two main reasons I voted neither/not interested. (1) The definitions of key terms in any poll are crucial, in my view. You ought to explain what "switch" means, as I'm not sure what it means. (2) I think there should be an "a little bit of both" option. I consider myself physically submissive, since I can't move at all, and definitely want to be gently touched and squeezed by my potential partner, almost like one of those cuddly Vermont teddy bears. On the other hand, I consider myself verbally dominant because I'm good at giving directions, that is, when it's sexy time I'll tell my potential partner exactly what I want and how I want it, consensually of course. Btw, please don't change the poll, I was just giving my individual perspective on it. A switch is someone who enjoys both aspects. There are various shades of it, like someone who switches might lean dominant or submissive, or just really not have any preference and enjoys both equally. |
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Post by Dani on Sept 27, 2022 23:19:04 GMT -5
I am not dominant, but I'm also not submissive in the traditional sense within the D/s dynamic. I am also not "neither/not interested," and I am not a switch.
I am none of the above I guess.
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Post by Braced4Impact on Sept 28, 2022 0:50:10 GMT -5
I am not dominant, but I'm also not submissive in the traditional sense within the D/s dynamic. I am also not "neither/not interested," and I am not a switch. I am none of the above I guess. That's interesting; I'm trying to wrap my head around this and would love some clarification. |
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Post by abqman on Dec 15, 2023 12:03:33 GMT -5
It all depends on my mood and partner. I can be both sub or dom. I guess these means I am a switch.
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Post by celkan on Dec 16, 2023 5:08:09 GMT -5
I am more doninant and not at all submissive, but like abqman says, it depend of the woman I'm with. I'm confortable to take the lead and be as directive as she wants me to be and is confortable with. I have not really ever been in a real bdsm dynamic with leather and accessories though. It was more like rough sex and they were asking I take charge of most life decision making. I'm all for equality and I see my women as my equal, but some of them like to give control and submit. While it is not mandatory for me, I am confortable to fill that role. But it is something discused beforehand, not something I take for granted.
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On the other hand, I consider myself verbally dominant because I'm good at giving directions, that is, when it's sexy time I'll tell my potential partner exactly what I want and how I want it, consensually of course.
