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Post by kevink4339 on Aug 7, 2023 19:05:53 GMT -5
Who here has paid for..."relief"? Do you recommend it?
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Post by writerg on Aug 7, 2023 19:58:11 GMT -5
It's okay/good to do that as long as you have the right mindset. It's important not to get attached and to understand your needs/wants completely.
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Post by pyrat on Aug 8, 2023 3:42:08 GMT -5
At this point I would if somebody had the skills to make it happen
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Post by sungod on Aug 8, 2023 15:31:44 GMT -5
At this point I would if somebody had the skills to make it happen Are those skills hard to come by? I imagine the issue is more the availability/legality of someone willing to be paid for it.
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Post by pyrat on Aug 9, 2023 1:50:25 GMT -5
At this point I would if somebody had the skills to make it happen Are those skills hard to come by? I imagine the issue is more the availability/legality of someone willing to be paid for it. It’s legal in most places in the world. If you’re in the US and don’t want to go abroad you could go to Vegas. I’m a complete injury and haven’t figured out how to get off
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Post by Sir Paul on Aug 9, 2023 13:53:49 GMT -5
It's not really a recommend it or not recommend it type thing. Why are you unsure?
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Post by pyrat on Aug 10, 2023 2:19:36 GMT -5
It's not really a recommend it or not recommend it type thing. Why are you unsure? Who’s unsure about what?
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Post by Sir Paul on Aug 10, 2023 11:50:54 GMT -5
It's not really a recommend it or not recommend it type thing. Why are you unsure? Who’s unsure about what? Kevink is unsure if his "friend" should pay for "relief." That's why he's asking if people recommend it or not. I am curious as to what his concerns are.
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Post by diablednerd on Aug 10, 2023 13:01:12 GMT -5
Are those skills hard to come by? I imagine the issue is more the availability/legality of someone willing to be paid for it. It’s legal in most places in the world. If you’re in the US and don’t want to go abroad you could go to Vegas. I’m a complete injury and haven’t figured out how to get off Technically its illegal in Vegas too, gotta go over to the county next to Vegas
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Post by Dani on Aug 10, 2023 14:37:07 GMT -5
Yeah, I would think it's a legality issue depending on where you are residing.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2023 14:51:52 GMT -5
You know, it’s a shame that you even have to ask!
This is a base human need just like other aspects of caregiving, and I really wish as a society we would figure out how to address it.
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Post by kevink4339 on Aug 10, 2023 15:31:35 GMT -5
I'm asking because I really need something occasionally. I'm not going to get into the possibilities of dating because I'm almost 39 and I have never had a girlfriend...I'm not saying it's impossible but it hasn't happened yet. Aside from the physical need, I want to do something adult and for myself occasionally. And yes I agree that society needs to understand this part of life.
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Post by pyrat on Aug 11, 2023 1:56:24 GMT -5
It’s legal in most places in the world. If you’re in the US and don’t want to go abroad you could go to Vegas. I’m a complete injury and haven’t figured out how to get off Technically its illegal in Vegas too, gotta go over to the county next to Vegas They’re pretty aggressive considering that lol
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Post by pyrat on Aug 11, 2023 1:57:31 GMT -5
I'm asking because I really need something occasionally. I'm not going to get into the possibilities of dating because I'm almost 39 and I have never had a girlfriend...I'm not saying it's impossible but it hasn't happened yet. Aside from the physical need, I want to do something adult and for myself occasionally. And yes I agree that society needs to understand this part of life. Which country/state are you in?
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Post by Sir Paul on Aug 11, 2023 13:58:32 GMT -5
Many providers of such services are adamant about minimizing the legal risk to themselves by putting you through a vetting process until they are comfortable with meeting you. If getting in trouble is a big concern, finding one that cares about safety should at least help put you more at ease. There are reviews, chat boards, and ways to interact with these people too and you can often find ones that are empathetic to your situation. I'm not an expert on the subject, but there was this one time at band camp...
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