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Post by funquad on May 26, 2009 9:15:28 GMT -5
I would like feedback from (anyone really) but my fellow sci brothers. About ten years after my injury occurred I met a girl and we dated and she eventually moved in with me. Sex was great but initially I did not ejaculate, until one day after we had intercourse and she came, she wanted to suck me. And to my surprise, I ejaculated! I also felt the "rush" sweep over me as I came, plus my legs and abs spasmed which really seemed to help me "cum". What was interesting was other girls had sucked me before but no orgasm. So then I thought this may be a one time thing, but no, she was able to make me ejaculate most everytime. It was the way she sucked me. She would suck hard on just the head of my dick, not the usual up and down motion with her mouth. I cant cum by intercourse though. I have been able to ejaculate with the "egg" vibrator, but it makes my dick swell. I would like to hear from other quads or paras about being able to ejaculate. Or any comments too.
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Post by Triassic on May 26, 2009 19:18:25 GMT -5
hmmm.....and HOW DID she 'just happen' to know how to pop an SCI dudes cork? maybe she was a dev and had had practice...
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Post by spurs2000 on May 31, 2009 17:09:00 GMT -5
able to ejaculate! No chance of that these days! Opportunity would be good but more importantly My dysreflexia goes nuts at just slight touch of my genital areas. Do any of you other high-level sci guys suffer bad dysreflexia such as this?
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Post by benquad on Jun 2, 2009 23:30:57 GMT -5
I am so very fortunate & grateful to be able to ejaculate! To address original post, id hafta say that its the woman/lover doing the stimulation. My SCI is incomplete causing more sensation on my left side straight down the middle of my body even on my penis (sorry if TMI) I am so graphic only to illustrate what some may not be aware of, Ive met many a fellow wheeler that had a "G spot" or technique that did the trick. That said I thought I could only cum from oral/manual but was pleasantly surprised by a beautiful athletic woman who was able to do it all with her hips & other tricks! As for AD(Autonomic Dysreflexia) HOLY SHIT it hurts but its one of those calculated risks. Ive had to ask for a break b4 but for the most part orgasm is an amazing mix of ecstasy & pain! I know, I'm a freak Gimme a break for being so open I'm on my newly acquired medical marijuana GOOD SHIT!
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Post by spurs2000 on Jun 4, 2009 14:23:19 GMT -5
I am so very fortunate & grateful to be able to ejaculate! To address original post, id hafta say that its the woman/lover doing the stimulation. My SCI is incomplete causing more sensation on my left side straight down the middle of my body even on my penis (sorry if TMI) I am so graphic only to illustrate what some may not be aware of, Ive met many a fellow wheeler that had a "G spot" or technique that did the trick. That said I thought I could only cum from oral/manual but was pleasantly surprised by a beautiful athletic woman who was able to do it all with her hips & other tricks! As for AD(Autonomic Dysreflexia) HOLY sh*t it hurts but its one of those calculated risks. Ive had to ask for a break b4 but for the most part orgasm is an amazing mix of ecstasy & pain! I know, I'm a freak Gimme a break for being so open I'm on my newly acquired medical marijuana GOOD sh*t! I enjoy the detail, is good knowledge, honest & open!
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Post by Phil on Jun 4, 2009 16:39:42 GMT -5
It would be my guess that if you asked 50 SCI quads, you'd probably get 50 different replies as to what works or doesn't work for them. I guess that if the desire is strong enough, you find a way, conventional or not. ;D
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Post by spurs2000 on Jun 4, 2009 16:50:42 GMT -5
It would be my guess that if you asked 50 SCI quads, you'd probably get 50 different replies as to what works or doesn't work for them. I guess that if the desire is strong enough, you find a way, conventional or not. ;D A fair point!
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Post by benquad on Jun 5, 2009 3:27:30 GMT -5
It would be my guess that if you asked 50 SCI quads, you'd probably get 50 different replies as to what works or doesn't work for them. I guess that if the desire is strong enough, you find a way, conventional or not. ;D AGREED WE'RE SNOWFLAKES ON WHEELS!
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