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Post by devogirl on Aug 5, 2009 6:08:14 GMT -5
I hate to be a downer, but I really think this is a bad idea. You've been hanging out, he knows you're into guys, if he was gay or bi, you'd be having sex already. Come on, stop fooling yourself. Coming onto a straight guy is only going to end in hurt feelings for both of you. At best.
As for that hollow feeling, a lover, no matter how hot, can't MAKE you happy, you have to be ok with yourself first. It sounds like from this and your other posts that you need to do some work on yourself. Like Phil said, you can't live vicariously though him, and he's not going to make you feel whole if you think you're "broken."
Flirting with this dude may be fun in the short term, but long term you will be far better off if you move on, get involved in the gay community and maybe get some counseling. Can any of our gay members back me up on this? Sorry to be the one with the tough love, but that's how I see it.
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Post by mike on Aug 5, 2009 13:20:42 GMT -5
Devogirl,
I am not gay, but your advice to Ghost sounds right on the money. Unless one was sexually ambivalent, it's hard to conceive of a situation wherein they could be persuaded, charmed or seduced into changing their sexual orientation. I think friendship is the best that could be hoped for in this situation, and shifting attention toward a more appropriate partner is in order. Before things become more volatile & potentially hurtful.
Mike
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