i think its becoming obvious....

sarahl
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i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 11, 2009 4:23:14 GMT -5

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Post by sarahl on Sept 11, 2009 4:23:14 GMT -5

ok so this is my first post on here, ive always had a thing about wheelers, its a complete secret, know body knows about my obsession. well any way im with an able bodied partner and we have a daughter together, and im completely in love with him and wouldnt change anything, to me this fantasy will always just be a dream if you know what i mean. well anyway my partner has broke his leg pretty bad, had to have it operated on etc. well obviously as he cant walk i have having to help him loads and do alot for him and i LOVE it. i have gone mad on sex as its like my dream has come true, because i kno i physically have to do everything and helping him undress etc its such a turn on that im sure he is starting to think somethings going on. but i cant help it!
but then on the other hand i genuinely cant wait for him to get better as i dont like seeing my partner struggling or in pain. im probably making no sense here. i suppose its just given me a little sort of tast of what its like being a devotee, i just wish it wasnt my partner. i hope you guys undersatnd a little where iam coming from???

Pony God ...so many things I need to know before I go! Posts: 4,532 Gender: Male Relationship Status: It's complicated	i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 11, 2009 9:21:15 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Pony on Sept 11, 2009 9:21:15 GMT -5 I think it's cool as hell, and i'm sure your husband is digging the extra passion...unexpected benefit from the obvious negative!! Thanks for joining and telling your story...
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i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 11, 2009 15:58:04 GMT -5

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Post by BA on Sept 11, 2009 15:58:04 GMT -5

The question is, are you going to miss the hotness this is arousing in you when he is all healed?

You can tell him that his 'vulnerability' in the situation is a big turn on for you. I don't think that is all that strange. Very few guys would argue with getting more sex.

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roger888 God Posts: 1,309 Gender: Male Dev Status: Disabled Male Relationship Status: Married/Domestic partnership	i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 12, 2009 1:27:15 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by roger888 on Sept 12, 2009 1:27:15 GMT -5 Mixed emotions about it all?With my very limited knowledge of devs it sounds to me like you're a fully fledged Dev. Thanks for joining & posting.
	What do you do with an indecipherable signature?

Triassic God RIP Posts: 1,317	i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 12, 2009 1:41:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Triassic on Sept 12, 2009 1:41:10 GMT -5 just don't do what kathy bates did in 'misery' when the dude started to get better... ....the sledgehammer and the block of wood?
	't'aint no big thing/to wait for the bell to ring/t'aint no big thing/to toll the bell.../' -'love is the drug', roxy music

Pony God ...so many things I need to know before I go! Posts: 4,532 Gender: Male Relationship Status: It's complicated	i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 12, 2009 10:16:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Pony on Sept 12, 2009 10:16:33 GMT -5 lol...you stole my thought, Triassic!!
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Triassic God RIP Posts: 1,317	i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 13, 2009 21:30:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Triassic on Sept 13, 2009 21:30:13 GMT -5 broke his ankles. yowch.
	't'aint no big thing/to wait for the bell to ring/t'aint no big thing/to toll the bell.../' -'love is the drug', roxy music

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i think its becoming obvious.... Sept 21, 2009 1:19:55 GMT -5

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Post by vonvon13 on Sept 21, 2009 1:19:55 GMT -5

I understand. Most of the disabled men i have dated. Have to deal with alot of pain. That part I didn't like myself at all. That's just part of it. I just wanted to make it better. But, you have to ask yourself are you going to stay the same when he is better. Or are you going to go back to being the same as he was before? He will know something is up if you don't.

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Post by sarahl on Sept 11, 2009 4:23:14 GMT -5

Post by Pony on Sept 11, 2009 9:21:15 GMT -5

Post by BA on Sept 11, 2009 15:58:04 GMT -5

Post by roger888 on Sept 12, 2009 1:27:15 GMT -5

Post by Triassic on Sept 12, 2009 1:41:10 GMT -5

Post by Pony on Sept 12, 2009 10:16:33 GMT -5

Post by Triassic on Sept 13, 2009 21:30:13 GMT -5

Post by vonvon13 on Sept 21, 2009 1:19:55 GMT -5