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Post by faith on May 8, 2010 11:31:50 GMT -5
The preference/fetish thread got me thinking about, well, the big O. When you do have an orgasm, alone or with a partner, what percentage do you think dev thoughts? Can you have an orgasm with an AB partner with absolutely no turn on from your dev side? And, are your orgasms better when they dev-orgasms. Devorgasms... I like it.
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Post by faith on May 8, 2010 11:33:41 GMT -5
Oops- forgot to answer my own question. For me- it is 100%. I have never had an O without dev thoughts. Can't say if they are better or not than non-dev orgasms but they are certainly wonderfully good.
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Post by Neffie on May 8, 2010 12:15:03 GMT -5
also never had an orgasm without dev thoughts
I dread to think what would happen if I staddled a wheeler but I may just explode!!!
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Post by Neffie on May 8, 2010 12:16:30 GMT -5
oh and I can't orgasm with an AB man...just so that's clear.
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Post by faith on May 8, 2010 13:16:09 GMT -5
Okay Nef... since you said it so can I. I can't orgasm with an AB man either.
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Post by annabelle on May 8, 2010 13:39:31 GMT -5
Great question.
I've been with AB guys that were just SO incredibly hot that just the thought of them alone was enough to bring me to orgasm. So yes, I've had non-dev orgasms. With my last boyfriend, I was able to orgasm with him without having outside fantasies for maybe the first six months. After that, I could only have an orgasm from sex by dev fantasizing during sex. But seriously, don't all women in long term relationships fantasize during sex?
As for masturbating, I absolutely can't get to orgasm without a dev fantasy.
Neffie, Faith, when you say you can't orgasm with an AB guy, does that mean you can't have an orgasm at all during AB sex, or that you need to fantasize during sex in order to do it?
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Post by devogirl on May 8, 2010 14:18:08 GMT -5
I wouldn't put an exact number on it since my moods change so much over time, but like I said before I don't think dev thoughts all the time. Sometimes I don't think about anything at all, sometimes it's AB men, AB women, sometimes just random abstract images of nothing in particular. But I've never had any problems having an orgasm, since I was a teen, it's always been really easy. Even when I've been with a partner, AB or disabled, it's rare that I don't have one at all, and then the reason is usually that I'm too tired or stressed or something. Hey, we're all different!
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Post by annabelle on May 8, 2010 15:43:50 GMT -5
You're lucky, devogirl. It took me longer than average to figure out the whole self-pleasure bit because I didn't realize what my turn-on was. It's easy for me now, but it wasn't always.
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Post by Ciao Bella on May 8, 2010 19:45:31 GMT -5
1 million thousand percent Devorgasm I don't know about the rest of you girls, but when my devness is skyrocketing, just watching youtube vids makes me quite "happy" - even without trying.
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Post by canadiandev on May 8, 2010 20:28:54 GMT -5
I can orgasm with AB men or women without dev thoughts but the orgasm is so much sweeter with them. I can have multiple orgasms only with seriously-focused dev thoughts.
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Post by dolly on May 8, 2010 22:17:28 GMT -5
1 million thousand percent Devorgasm I don't know about the rest of you girls, but when my devness is skyrocketing, just watching youtube vids makes me quite "happy" - even without trying. thanks be to god for youtube. i'm gonna guess my devorgasm percentage is about 90-95%? it's probably never been lower than 80% but seems to be increasing exponentially as time goes by. i think with the more i discover(ed) about my devism and the more exposure i have to um, stimuli (lol)... it's made it more and more an essential component for me. (and i love the devorgasm term, btw! )
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Post by gorgonesque on May 9, 2010 0:42:19 GMT -5
Good question faith. I am currently figuring out the answer to this and will let you know when I figure it out.
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Post by annie on May 9, 2010 8:19:19 GMT -5
This is a great topic. I would have to say that I have never experienced the big O without a dev fantasy. Also, I have a very hard time orgasming with AB men, even when thinking naughty dev thoughts in my head. I always thought maybe I was just a failure at intimacy. Afterall, I have been with some very attractive and attentive AB men, and I was never just that into the sex. I was more turned on byh youtube videos than the actual act with real men. However, that all changed once I started dating my current BF who is a para. I never knew what an orgasm could really feel like before. I am very happy to discover that I am not a failure at human intimacy after all. Sorry for if that was TMI.
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Post by dolly on May 9, 2010 9:28:23 GMT -5
Sorry for if that was TMI. not at all. thanks for sharing that. it's actually very encouraging.
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Post by canadiandev on May 9, 2010 12:12:12 GMT -5
... I never knew what an orgasm could really feel like before. I am very happy to discover that I am not a failure at human intimacy after all. Sorry for if that was TMI. Definitely not TMI, Annie. I'm sorry to hear that all this time you thought you were a failure at human intimacy. And happy ot hear that it's so much better for you now. ;D Thanks everyone for your posts on this subject. I've lately been feeling a touch of guilt creeping back into my life because this site has given me more fodder for fantasies. Reading your posts is reminding me to *banish the guilt* and just enjoy myself.
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