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Post by BA on Jul 27, 2010 19:53:22 GMT -5
Long story short, it didn't work out. Now I'm just wandering around San Francisco in a daze. I feel so lost. I really hoped that he was the one. But he just wanted a mum/nurse who he could also f*ck. How could I be so stupid? You are not stupid. You have had an 'experience' for what it was worth and you learned something in the process. He is not the only wheeler out there in the world. When you are able to process what happened, you will be able to recognize what the 'red flags' were. We are here for you. |
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Post by dolly on Jul 27, 2010 23:50:28 GMT -5
sorry to hear that, bex.  san francisco is a beautiful city. i hope you can still find some enjoyment in your visit... as much as possible, given the circumstances. i can't say anything any better than the two ladies before me did, but i echo their sentiments and offers of support. *hug* |
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Post by Emma on Jul 28, 2010 1:43:03 GMT -5
This is a great topic. I would have to say that I have never experienced the big O without a dev fantasy. Also, I have a very hard time orgasming with AB men, even when thinking naughty dev thoughts in my head. I always thought maybe I was just a failure at intimacy. Afterall, I have been with some very attractive and attentive AB men, and I was never just that into the sex. I was more turned on byh youtube videos than the actual act with real men. However, that all changed once I started dating my current BF who is a para. I never knew what an orgasm could really feel like before. I am very happy to discover that I am not a failure at human intimacy after all. Sorry for if that was TMI. I am new here......just came across the site although I have been part of the online female dev community for years. I figured I'd introduce myself but couldn't figure out if this was the right place. Anyway I'm a little different than the rest of you because I'm an amputee devotee. I never got into the whole para/quad thing. I also am extremely lucky and after years of looking met the amputee of my dreams. We got married a year ago and I couldn't be happier. Anyway like Annie I felt for years that there was something wrong with me sexually. I actually spent a lot of time researching why I didn't like sex and even took some medication to try to help it. It was all better when I was finally with an amp. I also never had an orgasm with an AB guy so I guess that would make me 100% dev  Looking forward to getting to know the girls here emma |
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Post by alibara1 on Jul 28, 2010 6:00:22 GMT -5
First, Very sorry to hear that it didn't work Bex!
Now, the best thing for a broken heart is RETAIL THERAPY!! Hit the shops...n have a ball...you will forget him in a flashhhhhhh.
Hugs to u toooooo
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Jul 28, 2010 9:03:35 GMT -5
Hugs, Bex.  |
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Post by Be As You Are on Jul 30, 2010 3:12:25 GMT -5
So sorry it did not work out Bex. I hope you are managing to somewhat enjoy exploring a new city, and you do not let this derail you from continuing to try to find "The One" that makes you happy!
You have alot of support here!
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Post by Devoblue on Aug 5, 2010 11:57:05 GMT -5
I just saw this update and I'm very sorry too that it didn't work out. Regardless of the outcome you took a leap of faith and there's nothing wrong with that. You would never have known if you didn't take that risk. It's a brave thing no matter how it ended. I hope you managed to enjoy San Fran a bit.
Big hugs!
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Post by Dee Dee on Aug 5, 2010 19:30:06 GMT -5
Been there, Bex - more than once. It´s horrible. Hugs!
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Post by ruthmadison on Jan 7, 2011 18:02:37 GMT -5
The preference/fetish thread got me thinking about, well, the big O. When you do have an orgasm, alone or with a partner, what percentage do you think dev thoughts? Can you have an orgasm with an AB partner with absolutely no turn on from your dev side? And, are your orgasms better when they dev-orgasms. Devorgasms... I like it. Never without it. I close my eyes and fantasize about disabled characters when I'm sleeping with AB men. |
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