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Post by faith on Dec 19, 2010 23:14:51 GMT -5
I normally embrace and love my hot times... those times when all I can do is think about sex and being with a wheeler...
But I am so busy at the moment with work and company and Christmas. I NEED to do other things! I am getting those things done, but in a side-tracked kind of way.
What do you ladies do when you must do something else but your mind just goes back to wheelers, orgasms and sex?
Any tips to help me turn it off?
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Dec 19, 2010 23:24:57 GMT -5
No. I just function in the fog.
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Post by Inigo Montoya on Dec 19, 2010 23:28:15 GMT -5
Sorry.
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Post by Cake on Dec 19, 2010 23:39:49 GMT -5
Honestly? No. The only thing you can do is try to enjoy the ride. Fighting it will only make it worse. Yeah. Enjoy the ride  |
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Post by lavly on Dec 19, 2010 23:47:44 GMT -5
i hate that my answer is the same ... no
sometimes you have so much to do and your running late cos all you have been doing is watch " just one more" youtube clip .... i so hate thoughs times ...grrrr
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Post by Cake on Dec 19, 2010 23:51:12 GMT -5
Oh, and: You're not the only one, sister. Many of us are in the same place right now...
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Post by devogirl on Dec 20, 2010 0:08:55 GMT -5
Sorry, I have no secret for turning it off. I have sometimes felt like my mind was on two tracks at once, one for work and one for dev thoughts. I have found that just relaxing and giving yourself permission to enjoy it makes the obsessive feeling less intense and painful.
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Post by dolly on Dec 20, 2010 1:04:07 GMT -5
no advice. but i totally relate. i'm in the exact same place, myself.
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Post by lavly on Dec 20, 2010 5:32:15 GMT -5
i think thats why im trying to find out what being a dev is all about so that i can stop that place happening ... when i dont want it to happen.
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Post by BA on Dec 20, 2010 6:13:47 GMT -5
I say maybe we shouldn't feel so guilty about it. Men supposedly think about it all the time, lol. There are just times (like lately) when things get really stirred up. I think it's just who/how we are. Can it ever just be ok?
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Post by Be As You Are on Dec 21, 2010 20:10:58 GMT -5
sometimes you have so much to do and your running late cos all you have been doing is watch " just one more" youtube clip .... i so hate thoughs times ...grrrr This has been a big problem lately! I used to pride myself in being punctual. Lately... .I've actually blown things off because I'd rather stay home and devocize! I hate that in my "on times" it affects my day-to-day life so much  I have found myself watching You Tube at stoplights when I am in the thick of things... |
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