vancityippy
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Post by vancityippy on Sept 30, 2012 18:12:54 GMT -5
Yes indeed, an imaginary place, a false fantasy, where potential sexual partners with predominately hidden cravings and desires, which are based solely on male disabilities, are willing to chat about those desires but anything else maybe too taboo. I can certainly understand why so many disabled men find their hopes dashed looking under the heading "personals." Not only are they often disenfranchised in mainstream society, but when then do manage to glean a glimmer of hope, such as this site clearly represents, they are quashed by societies larger phobia of dismemberment and or disabilities. And this overt social repression appears to be demonstrated by the inability of so-called devotees to openly communicate with men in a "personal" on-line forum. I know I'm confused...lol. uuh. I'm prolly getting into something I shouldn't here but I'm confused. Are you mad you can't find a woman here? Or do you just not like devotees? I just want to clarify. I'm confused. I met a great guy here. But um, you can't meet anyone if you have a bad attitude.
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Post by Emma on Sept 30, 2012 20:11:20 GMT -5
I was confused too but this caught my eye: Yay! I didn't know. I love that there are a lot of connections being made recently.
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Post by Kid A on Sept 30, 2012 21:37:18 GMT -5
I was confused too but this caught my eye: Yay! I didn't know. I love that there are a lot of connections being made recently. +1! Yay, VCI! I'm so happy for you!
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vancityippy
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Posts: 209
Gender: Female
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Post by vancityippy on Sept 30, 2012 23:40:47 GMT -5
aw, thanks gals. Met a lovely friend here...distance happens to be a very, very giant factor so for now, we've made a lovely connection...and in a few weeks we'll get a chance to meet for real life! yippy.
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Post by Kid A on Oct 1, 2012 0:03:54 GMT -5
aw, thanks gals. Met a lovely friend here...distance happens to be a very, very giant factor so for now, we've made a lovely connection...and in a few weeks we'll get a chance to meet for real life! yippy. Awesome! I hope you have a great time! Who knows? If things go well, distance may not be a factor for too long.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 1, 2012 2:10:31 GMT -5
My goodness, there are so many conections going on here it is hard to keep up. Vancityippy I hope it all goes well. Seems that many a good relationship has started here.
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Post by BA on Oct 1, 2012 8:04:50 GMT -5
Awesome Van! I can't keep up with the connections either nor the number that have turned into serious long term relationships. I think it is just so wonderful. Wish I had this place when I was young and single! I also can't understand why someone would generalize that we only want to fantasize. But whatever.
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Post by Kid A on Oct 1, 2012 8:09:57 GMT -5
aw, thanks gals. Met a lovely friend here...distance happens to be a very, very giant factor so for now, we've made a lovely connection...and in a few weeks we'll get a chance to meet for real life! yippy. Whoohoo!!! VERY excited!!! Distance was a HUGE factor for me, and even after we met, it continued (and continues) to play a large role in our relationship. However... since I have just last week relocated across the ocean... I can say distance is not insurmountable. ;D Crossing the country or even an ocean is completely worth the trip for the right partner. <3
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Post by Emma on Oct 1, 2012 13:53:19 GMT -5
Crossing the country or even an ocean is completely worth the trip for the right partner. <3 Agreed!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2012 5:37:20 GMT -5
Yeah I moved to be with my now hubby, he lived 2 hours away from me in those days and I had to drive on the M25 which was a bit of an adventure for me (I had a nasty experence on that motorway involving a tire blowout while driving in the fastlane). I am soooo glad I did and stuck with dating him.
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Post by britishtetra on Oct 2, 2012 7:23:11 GMT -5
It's ok mate, I have made lots of friends on here, but no one connection. Just stick with it ok?
Pete,
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Post by jordan on Oct 9, 2012 15:20:07 GMT -5
I guess people kept writing on my thread after I had to not be here for a while lol... I was still going through something when I posted all of that, now I am not putting any pressure on myself and just kind of trying to work on getting where I want to be in my life. I'm much happier not feeling like I have to be with someone at the moment, I basically just gave myself permission to be where I am. I've come much closer to accidentally finding what I was previously looking for intentionally with this attitude. Another thing I learned about myself though is in general I prefer to meet people in person that way everything is on the table from the first moment
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Post by janewheeler on Oct 9, 2012 18:01:26 GMT -5
I was wondering where you'd gone off to, Jordan! Good to see you back. I like ya.
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Post by jordan on Oct 9, 2012 18:25:24 GMT -5
I am very active posting on a different message board, frankly this one goes a little slower so I forget to check it and then weeks go by lol... plus it was festival season and I went to 4 of them, most of my time was consumed with planning for that and anticipation... but now the cold is setting in and I'll be a bit more of a hermit for the next few months so you will all be seeing a lot more of me ;D
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Post by Kid A on Oct 11, 2012 0:27:01 GMT -5
I was wondering where you'd gone off to, Jordan! Good to see you back. I like ya. Ditto! WB, J!
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