I'm disabled and want to meet a devotee

[Lee]

As the moderator of this site, you have no idea how often I get emails from disabled men who are searching for devotees. Usually I direct them here to this forum, which they really should have been able to find themselves if they were able to find my email address. Here's an example of an email I recently got, slightly modified:

I'm John, a [age][disability] from [location]. I just found out about devotees and most of the information I'm finding is on male devotees, where can I find information of female devotees to disabled men? Could you provide me with some links or email addresses? I would very much be open to meeting female devotees for friendship, companionship and relationships. Thanks.

Fair enough. Obviously I don't have a directory of devotee email addresses, so I sent him the link to this site. His reply:

I've been reading the forums. I don't understand. You are women who like to discuss disabled men from what it seems like and that you feel attracted to them. But it also appears that most of you aren't interested in getting involved with disabled men sexually. I don't understand... Is it a support group? I just want to meet some women who I can build my life together with... Could you put me in touch with single females who are open to relationship with disabled males?

If you are reading this and you either relate to this guy or ARE this guy, a few things:

1) I am not a devotee pimp

2) If you join the board and say hi, you have to wait at least 24 hours before a dev is willing to have sex with you

3) If you join the board and say hi, try saying hi back before you come whining to me

Basic social skills, people.

[RollAlongSlowly]

2) If you join the board and say hi, you have to wait at least 24 hours before a dev is willing to have sex with you

Dammit............ Theres always a catch !!

[Emma]

Maybe you should start that directory of single devs since there seems to be such a demand for it.

[Lee]

Apr 28, 2013 9:01:35 GMT -5 Emma said:

Maybe you should start that directory of single devs since there seems to be such a demand for it.

OK, devs: If you want to be on a mailing list of horny devs that I can send to disabled guys who can't be bothered to spend five minutes on the board actually trying to get to know anyone, then send me a PM. Or write your phone number on a public bathroom wall, whatever.

[Enid]

I suggest a google map, that way you can find who can get to your house in 24 hours!

[devogirl]

OMG Lee thank you so much for dealing with these idiots so the rest of us don't have to. It never ceases to amaze me how these guys claim to want someone to "build a life together" but apparently any dev will do, if we express any kind of standard or personal preference then we are not "real" devs. Maybe a mail-order bride would be more what they have in mind?

[Emma]

Sadly there actually are Russian mail order bride businesses that match disabled women with rich foreign male devs.

[ProudRealist]

Sadly there actually are Russian mail order bride businesses that match disabled women with rich foreign male devs.

All i need now is an Australian mail order groom businesses that match disabled men with rich foreign female devs...THEN I'M SET ;D

[Deleted]

I don't understand why anyone would come to a discussion board and think it's a dating site. I originally came to talk some shit out and had no intentions of meeting anyone (or even sticking around if we're being honest). I'm mostly glad I stayed, but I'm under no illusions that some dev is going to sweep me off my wheels. To me, this site is more of a support/friendship group for female devs that for some reason put up with assholes like me.

[kivic]

Ahahaha, if only life were like that

[Inigo Montoya]

So, like, I was going to subject y'all to one of my thousand word posts... but it turns out that the current climate has already been addressed by Lee! (Thanks, Mr.BB, for directing me here and saving the rest of PD-kind from my verbal diarrhea!)

We've been here before, people, we just forget it... like labor during childbirth. And PD will come back around!

Oh, wait! So sorry for you... Mr.BB also liked the verbal dump. So... BOTH!

[devman1950]

Aug 6, 2013 14:30:17 GMT -5 James said:

I don't understand why anyone would come to a discussion board and think it's a dating site. I originally came to talk some shit out and had no intentions of meeting anyone (or even sticking around if we're being honest). I'm mostly glad I stayed, but I'm under no illusions that some dev is going to sweep me off my wheels. To me, this site is more of a support/friendship group for female devs that for some reason put up with assholes like me.

And it's nice they also put up with guys like ME , James