Post by finally on Jun 4, 2013 5:31:01 GMT -5
It´s amazing to me... that this all exists on the internet.
I am 33 yrs old and obviously dev since childhood. I live in Austria, Europe.
I have NEVER spoken to ANYONE about that, including best female friends (to whom I talk about everything, including sex, masturbation etc.)
I was just so ashamed of that whole topic, I just kept it secret - even when I see men in wheelchairs out in the street it seems like a forbidden thing to me to watch them - or someone could notice what I think while watching them...
It seriously is a great burdon!
Yesterday I was googling around, and I found Ruth Madison on youtube - and thats how it all began. I think I spent five hours on the internet, and today again, and I found this forum, which I am really happy about!
It´s so weird that it really began in childhood - I know very well and remember a couple of things!
While masturbating I always think of men in wheelchairs, never anything else. Seldom I fantasize that I am a men who is a dev and does it with a disabled woman.
I am in a relationship with a non-disabled man for 10 yrs, we have two children. Of course he knows nothing about that - but we really do not have the greatest sexlife anyways... since we both fear to talk and show who we really are...
I am just wondering how that whole thing will go on for me. Whether I will talk to a girlfriend of mine, whether I will date a man in a wheelchair sometimes.
My greatest fear is, that my sexual fantasies are so huge that everyone could "see" them, just by watching me, and that, if I met men in wheelchairs, they would feel that it´s not really their person that I´m interested in.
I also fear that, in real life, if I had a date or even sex, it wouldn´t even be the way that it is in my fantasy. And it works so well in my fantasy, I wouldn´t want to lose that ability (to masturbate).
Is that weird?
Can anyone understand my thoughts and feelings?
I´m so excited to be here!
Thanks!
I am 33 yrs old and obviously dev since childhood. I live in Austria, Europe.
I have NEVER spoken to ANYONE about that, including best female friends (to whom I talk about everything, including sex, masturbation etc.)
I was just so ashamed of that whole topic, I just kept it secret - even when I see men in wheelchairs out in the street it seems like a forbidden thing to me to watch them - or someone could notice what I think while watching them...
It seriously is a great burdon!
Yesterday I was googling around, and I found Ruth Madison on youtube - and thats how it all began. I think I spent five hours on the internet, and today again, and I found this forum, which I am really happy about!
It´s so weird that it really began in childhood - I know very well and remember a couple of things!
While masturbating I always think of men in wheelchairs, never anything else. Seldom I fantasize that I am a men who is a dev and does it with a disabled woman.
I am in a relationship with a non-disabled man for 10 yrs, we have two children. Of course he knows nothing about that - but we really do not have the greatest sexlife anyways... since we both fear to talk and show who we really are...
I am just wondering how that whole thing will go on for me. Whether I will talk to a girlfriend of mine, whether I will date a man in a wheelchair sometimes.
My greatest fear is, that my sexual fantasies are so huge that everyone could "see" them, just by watching me, and that, if I met men in wheelchairs, they would feel that it´s not really their person that I´m interested in.
I also fear that, in real life, if I had a date or even sex, it wouldn´t even be the way that it is in my fantasy. And it works so well in my fantasy, I wouldn´t want to lose that ability (to masturbate).
Is that weird?
Can anyone understand my thoughts and feelings?
I´m so excited to be here!
Thanks!