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Post by ruthmadison on Nov 12, 2014 7:03:43 GMT -5
For me, he's the guy. I use him in many of my fantasies, but I feel that if he were to be disabled irl then my fantasies wouldn't nearly have the same intensity. This is something I have always done with him, used him in my dev fantasies, so really in a way, he is key to my devness. We've been together coming on 15 years, and he is still "the guy." Awwwww! That is really sweet. I've always been afraid to visualize real people in my fantasies. It's like I'm afraid that if something does happen to them it will be my fault. Just another layer of guilt in my dev psyche!
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Post by Valkyrja on Nov 21, 2014 13:41:27 GMT -5
I agree with Kivic. If I could have chosen, I would have chosen a wheeler but... I had no choice: it was always AB... AB... AB. So, when I met my partner (AB,duh!), at the beginning when it was just sex, I used to imagine him as a para. I really enjoyed that. Now, after so many years, I could never use that fantasy again. That only last a couple of months at the beginning of the relationship.
But I always had (and still have) a huge "Battalion" of DA characters on my head.
Sorry Ink... No Orcs around!! LOL
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1nfused
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Gender: Female
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Post by 1nfused on Jan 29, 2015 15:37:44 GMT -5
"A wheelchair or a white cane makes a hot guy hotter." That's a nice consise way of putting it, +1 from me there. (I'll sign the white cane thing, too) ...I'd like to stress the "makes a hot guy hotter" thing though. (Can't stress this enough.) Even the hottest disability on earth doesn't do much for me by sole virtue of its existence. I've confirmed this IRL over and over again. It would have to be on a guy I'm already interested in - in quite a few other ways!
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Post by LaMara on Jan 29, 2015 18:02:18 GMT -5
The way I tried to explain it once, was that perfection is overrated. The physical flaw makes the beauty of everything else stand up much more. And in the same way, I like to think that someone who has to go through an objectively more complicated life, usually has a richer and more complex personality too (of course, this is more wishful thinking than actual reality ) But this is mostly me trying to rationalize something that is not rational, it just is.
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