hungryquad
Junior Member
Taken by: bowlergrl0524
Posts: 64
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled Male
Relationship Status: In a relationship
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Post by hungryquad on Jul 2, 2015 6:47:43 GMT -5
Welcome Melinda! I'm a high quad c4/5. You should not be ashamed for what you like . As the saying goes one man's trash is another man's treasure
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Post by spurs2000 on Jul 2, 2015 14:17:36 GMT -5
hi Melina, welcome to the board. I am another fairly high quad C4/C5/C6. I don't think it'ssadism your preferences are simply different to others.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2015 12:42:31 GMT -5
Welcome to PD Melina. It is a great thing you found us and I think you will get lots of insight here, also if you read over some over the older posts. Have fun here
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Post by JW on Jul 3, 2015 16:20:28 GMT -5
Welcome Melina26, Don't worry, you are not alone. There are many devs here with the same attractions, worries and concerns. There's nothing strange about you and you don't need to feel self-conscious. Just know that there are lots of great quad guys out there who would love to find a nice caring woman. After all..... quads need love too. By accepting your attractions for what they are, who knows...... you might even find a nice quad guy one day.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2015 17:11:20 GMT -5
Welcome! I hope you find some answers here! I think you'll find your place in no time!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2015 18:38:03 GMT -5
Welcome! I don't understand why people think devs are creepy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them, in fact I love the idea that someone could find everything wrong with me so right.
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Post by A££Y "Cuddles" Magoo on Jul 3, 2015 19:27:40 GMT -5
You're among a group of great and intelligent people. Enjoy. Ha! Speak for yourself, I'm a complete idiot ;-) Welcome Brazilian lady! if u are a complete idiot then I don't even wanna know what that makes me . Also welcome! perhaps Kiran can take you shoe shopping one day
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Post by Pony on Jul 3, 2015 19:35:12 GMT -5
It's only sadistic if you go out with assymagoo....lol
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Post by blueskye101 on Jul 4, 2015 2:07:41 GMT -5
Welcome to PD
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Post by Kiran on Jul 4, 2015 23:05:44 GMT -5
Hi, Melina26! VERY, VERY VERY, VERY warm welcome from a fellow Brazilian!! By the way, I am a CP gay guy. I hope you don't mind! It will be good go back to speak / to write in Brazilian Portuguese again after a LONG TIME!
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c5rollman
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Posts: 19
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled Male
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by c5rollman on Jul 12, 2015 6:55:52 GMT -5
Welcome Melina
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weathereyes
New Member
Posts: 44
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled Male
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Post by weathereyes on Jul 24, 2015 18:56:06 GMT -5
Hi guys! I'm new here and after reading around the Internet for a while I think this is the best place on this subject, so I would like to get your personal views, if you would care for helping a torn newbie! I'm a girl, 26 years old, Brazilian, and I've only recently become aware of the devotée definition for what I know I've felt my entire life when it came to guys, even if unable to name it. My preference has always been for high SCI only, young and cute college boy type, C3, C4 or C5 at most, cause I dig the stillness. There is something about the symmetry of a fully motionless attractive body that, for me, is just beautiful! With the years I have become more aware of what I truly feel, but always felt it seemed a little bit too much like sadism, maybe because of the helplessness or the suffering, in some way, with their needs, I don't know...but I don't want to think of myself as a sadist because it is so harsh and I'm such a sweet girl just thinking of love (maybe even life-long) and fun, and I don't think my desire comes from a mean place. What do you guys think about a possible proximity with sadism? Is there a thick line between us and them? And also, I've read many disabled people (manly woman) go on about how they find devotees creepy, stalkers, and actually avoid them; but then go bitching about the fact that their relationships never last long, and always end with the other person having issues with their chair/disability. They thinking it is creepy that people feel attracted to them precisely because they are disabled wouldn't be a little self deprecating? As if a person who loves and desires them just the way they are would have to be certainly crazy! I'm like....whaaaaat??? What do you think?? PS: I still haven't got the chance to meet a real life high quad, only in my dreams! Just waiting for my lucky day... Bemvinda Mel! Cheers from a fellow brazilian! I hope you you ar enjoying this place so far!
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dream2bc5c6
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want to be c5c6 quad
Posts: 20
Gender: Male
Dev Status: BIID
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by dream2bc5c6 on Aug 13, 2015 19:00:27 GMT -5
welcome
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cg4short
New Member
Hello everyone it has been a long time since I log on to the board, hoping to make friends this time
Posts: 29
Gender: Male
Dev Status: Disabled Male
Relationship Status: Single
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Post by cg4short on Oct 20, 2015 6:30:55 GMT -5
Welcome Brazilian lady!
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Post by britishtetra on Oct 20, 2015 7:09:34 GMT -5
Hello Melina, I'm Pete a C4/5 quad living in sunny England. I read your introduction and thought I'd reply, so you like the stillness of the paralysed body. I've just spent many years in bed only getting up for a hour a week here, two there unable to feed myself, or do anything physical. Even now I only get out of bed two or times a week until my sore finally heals!. I know that when I get my syrinx done that I'll be unable to move my arms, but it's ok I've looked into mouth control chairs, they look ok. Plus I'm trying to paint/draw using my mouth. I see your life as a dev is tough, I've written to many over the years and have lots of friends on here. Your sadist ways intrigue me, I have only feeling in my head, shoulders and I get terrible pain there but sometimes I enjoy it. I've often thought of been hurt more there, just because I can feel there. Although getting dysraflexia is pain enough for anyone. Anyway I hope you find what your looking for,
Pete in sunny brum
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