lacuna
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Post by lacuna on Aug 2, 2016 12:22:07 GMT -5
I think I'd be embarrassed mostly. That's not to say I wouldn't enjoy it, honestly as others have said in my eyes it's a compliment whatever the situation. Where it gets tricky is that in my experience the only time that is likely to happen in the UK is when the 'kisser' and the 'kissee' (technical terms, so I'm told :-P) have had a boatload to drink. Which would be off putting for me. Maybe I'm wrong and you handsome PWD out there get a pass all the time, can't say it's ever happened to me though. ...I feel like I'm fishing... I'm not...
Would I ever do it? Not in a million years. I'm far too polite for that :-P
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Post by Pony on Aug 2, 2016 14:51:36 GMT -5
I'll take a pass any day, especially at my age! Ahhhh ,Brasil....I can't wait for Olympics to start Friday, sure to be beautiful women scantily clad. brings back memories of an internet gf I had back in mid 90s. She was so beautiful, not great English, but not terrible. She worked for an American company in Sao Paulo, and we used to talk on phone a lot, sometimes free bcoz the company. She sent me photos in snail mail, and she was so pretty. Yes, we had crazy phone sex, but eventually we faded after some months. Funny thing, many years later I found her on fb...she's married now with kid, and not as hot as then, of course. I'm not either! lol
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Post by Pony on Aug 2, 2016 16:38:24 GMT -5
If you're making a pass at me, Brace, just say it...lol
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Post by wiggles on Aug 2, 2016 17:14:01 GMT -5
I'm of the opinion that it's quite possible to flirt without being lecherous about it. Of course, everyone is different so not everyone is going to react the same way, but a little creativity and effort is usually considered at least a little flattering and not wholly unwelcome. This is from my personal experiences living in Canada, the United States, and Denmark... not from any sort of scientific paper.
Oh, and I may think a woman has an amazing chest, but howling about how "those are some nice tits!" seems guaranteed to end in sorrow. I don't think geography comes into play then!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2016 17:15:08 GMT -5
I think this making a pass at someone is country-specific and maybe a bit controverse. My friend said she enjoyed her stay in Europe, because nobody would ever make a pass at her. I had another brazilian friend who said she would feel invisible in Europe, and she loved it. Maybe it´s like that in your country too, Dani . I´m convinced that you wouldn´t be invisible if you were here. I personally don´t mind, or may even like. If the guy does something creative, for example, turns off his own radio, opens his window and starts dancing to my music in traffic. I can´t help but smile.
Well, I live in the North Western US and people here are somewhat cool and distant, must be the weather or something. It's even hard to flirt at the traffic light, everyone stares straight ahead...
The Southern states were different too... As for living and growing up in Germany, yeah, the German guys are distant too sometimes, they took too long and then an American once again took over , this time the woman instead of the country
I guess I should move to Brazil
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Post by bearbait on Aug 3, 2016 0:23:14 GMT -5
Generally, if I get caught completely off-guard, my reactions are comically bad. I mean groan-inducing levels of awkward. I'm one of those people with Plan A, and a dozen contingencies in the event of failure, spontaneity and I have a blood-feud that goes back decades.
But, I have been successfully asked out for drinks before. Keep it casual and low pressure, sometimes it works out.
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Post by avastyedog on Aug 11, 2016 12:19:58 GMT -5
I've had both experiences. At bars/clubs I've had lots of girls come and just "sit" on me, haha. It can be rude, but the more attractive the female, the less rude it is to me.
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Post by Nia on Aug 16, 2016 7:26:09 GMT -5
I would take that as a compliment why on earth would I feel objectified? That would be my projection right? Happened to me many times and each time I felt great. Also, I did that once barely made it, took me so much courage and I failed. But no regrets and I would do it again
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Post by King Cripple on Aug 17, 2016 17:56:26 GMT -5
If she's over 55 like all of the other flirts in my life, I'd take that whole encounter in stride. Those ladies have proven to be my key demo. But while I would take any comment as a complement, I also know that I'm a bullshitter by nature. I like to talk a lot of shit when I'm with my guy friends, and I definitely like to flirt when the opportunity arises. I personally like the creative demands that flirting imposes. I cannot interact physically with a woman, so how do I let her know I like her without actually saying as much? Because to say as much would be a little scary and not as fun. And I'm also a huge sucker for all of the sexual tension that can be derived from two people carefully circling what it is they really want to talk about. This is especially true if she's witty and knows right where to stop short. It's all a major turn on when done right, and I would never turn down a flirt, harmless or otherwise.
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Post by peter37 on Jul 21, 2017 14:03:37 GMT -5
Hi, I'd be quite flattered really, I'd turn around and ask if she like to join me for a coffee.
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