sharmayne02
New Member
Posts: 22
Gender: Female
Dev Status: Devotee
Relationship Status: It's complicated
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Post by sharmayne02 on Apr 6, 2017 18:02:32 GMT -5
hi
I am interested in chatting with men in W/C does not have to be a love connections but a friendship online or even something in person if the universe allows it. I am a devotee and enjoy chatting with others who happens to be attracted to men in wheelchairs specially paraplegics or quadriplegics but I would not personally discriminate I enjoy good conversations. I have dated and befriended men in wheelchairs in the past. I am open to chatting on skype and if anyone is interested please send me a private message, and lets connect on skype.
A little about myself I am a college grad I love to travel, being active, movies music. I work in my local school district as a family service provider which I enjoy working with children and their families I am currently working on my second degree communication and interpreting in ASL looking forward to chat with others.
skype username: dancin_angel2
Sharmayne
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Post by devogirl on Apr 7, 2017 6:22:53 GMT -5
Hi Sharmayne, welcome to PD. It's good to see you posting so much and looking to connect with people.
However, please be very careful about chatting with PWDs online. There are people who pretend to have a disability and target devs specifically, because they want someone to admire their fake disability. Some will go to great lengths to manipulate you and carry on the deception. Trust your instincts, and if someone raises your suspicions or makes you uncomfortable, do not hesitate to ask for verification. The main red flags are wanting to talk about the disability all the time to the exclusion of all other topics, and endless excuses for not sharing a photo or video chat. There are more, but we don't want to train pretenders to get better fooling people.
Also don't limit your chats to PWD men. It's a good idea to reach out to female dev members here, both to make friends and to get more information on how to spot a faker. Good luck, but please be careful.
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Post by darthoso on Apr 8, 2017 19:56:19 GMT -5
Hi Sharmayne, welcome to PD. It's good to see you posting so much and looking to connect with people. However, please be very careful about chatting with PWDs online. There are people who pretend to have a disability and target devs specifically, because they want someone to admire their fake disability. Some will go to great lengths to manipulate you and carry on the deception. Trust your instincts, and if someone raises your suspicions or makes you uncomfortable, do not hesitate to ask for verification. The main red flags are wanting to talk about the disability all the time to the exclusion of all other topics, and endless excuses for not sharing a photo or video chat. There are more, but we don't want to train pretenders to get better fooling people. Also don't limit your chats to PWD men. It's a good idea to reach out to female dev members here, both to make friends and to get more information on how to spot a faker. Good luck, but please be careful. We need a 'certified cripple' list.
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Post by wonk on Apr 9, 2017 4:42:49 GMT -5
A valid invalid?
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Post by wonk on Apr 9, 2017 4:45:32 GMT -5
Actually it shouldn't be to hard to have a section near the avatar, with validated or something like that
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