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Post by mona on Jan 21, 2018 5:30:24 GMT -5
From my experience, expressing interest in someone when you have little to no interest in them is a mean thing to do to a person, it gives them false hope. Yes, you're right. I wasn't suggesting that you should propose to marry someone you're "not too interested in", though.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2018 7:12:04 GMT -5
I wasn't suggesting that you should propose to marry someone you're "not too interested in", though. That's not how it works? I understand better my singlelife
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Post by mona on Jan 21, 2018 7:18:10 GMT -5
I wasn't suggesting that you should propose to marry someone you're "not too interested in", though. That's not how it works? I understand better my singlelife Always happy to help.😉
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Post by lucretia on Jan 21, 2018 10:01:09 GMT -5
From my experience, expressing interest in someone when you have little to no interest in them is a mean thing to do to a person, it gives them false hope. Yes, you're right. I wasn't suggesting that you should propose to marry someone you're "not too interested in", though. I also advocate practicing socialization in "safe" settings. Practice talking to everyone. Practice light flirting with everyone. Bank tellers, cashiers, telemarketers... Just increase your interactions in non-emotional scenarios. The more comfortable you get socializing in general, the more confident you become. There is no shortcut to gaining confidence. It's just a numbers game. Whatever you do consistently over a period of time, you get good at.
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Post by furby89 on Jun 4, 2018 13:01:00 GMT -5
Love it! I can read it over and over again. Such a lovely post. I'll try that next time, i'll promise! Seems its exactly the sort of reply i searched for to having an answer to my post in "Hello from Germany!" Lol :-)
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Post by TotalBias on Jun 4, 2018 15:39:44 GMT -5
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Post by wheelofsteel on Jun 4, 2018 18:50:22 GMT -5
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Post by kevin714 on Jun 9, 2018 16:10:28 GMT -5
Yes, you're right. I wasn't suggesting that you should propose to marry someone you're "not too interested in", though. I also advocate practicing socialization in "safe" settings. Practice talking to everyone. Practice light flirting with everyone. Bank tellers, cashiers, telemarketers... Just increase your interactions in non-emotional scenarios. The more comfortable you get socializing in general, the more confident you become. There is no shortcut to gaining confidence. It's just a numbers game. Whatever you do consistently over a period of time, you get good at. Great Advice!
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Post by kevin714 on Jun 9, 2018 16:28:24 GMT -5
Damn if a girl said that to me it's an instant boner/make out/ sex in chair situation lol Good to know. But my fantasy always ends right after I say my pick up line. And irl I would of course never do it.👼 Why not! I once was talking to a very beautiful woman and in a straightforward, honest, and candid voice said "let's get naked." Things worked out and we took it from there.
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Post by kevin714 on Jun 9, 2018 19:01:15 GMT -5
Why not! I once was talking to a very beautiful woman and in a straightforward, honest, and candid voice said "let's get naked." Things worked out and we took it from there. before or after she'd been paid? 😜 She was not a hooker. I just found her attractive, smart, funny, and sexy. We just hit it off and clicked.
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Post by bunster on Jun 9, 2018 22:41:02 GMT -5
Thanks for the post. I may not be young, but I’m no expert at this. with that smile and that face?? you should have them eating out of your hand
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Post by bunster on Jun 9, 2018 22:46:18 GMT -5
woo hoo Kevin! that's how ya do it dude
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Post by matisse on Jun 10, 2018 15:34:49 GMT -5
With online dating, how common is it to meet someone at a bar or club, other than the guys just looking to score?
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Post by Manda2212 on Jun 10, 2018 16:18:49 GMT -5
With online dating, how common is it to meet someone at a bar or club, other than the guys just looking to score? Met my husband at a bar! I was real drunk-like. It ended up working out somehow. 😋
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Post by matisse on Jun 10, 2018 21:50:18 GMT -5
I gather all my courage and, heart pounding, come up to him and whisper: As you can't feel your legs - would you like to feel mine? I would say yes even though I am not SCI......
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