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Post by missparkle on Jan 17, 2018 12:20:32 GMT -5
******************************************************************************************************************** The purpose of this posts is strictly educational, with purely friendly and noble intentions and have nothing in common with any real person or experiences from my recent past. It is rather intended for a younger audience, since I have a strong felling that older boys around, have already developed their own pretty good ways around girls. ******************************************************************************************************************** You have spotted her in the masses. There is something about her, that intrigues you and you want to approach her. But uhhhh... You ask yourself, how should I approach this creature, so similar, yet so very different than me. Oh Boy, you are right... You can never know what's coming from those little dev(il)s!  But Boy, be brave, that is what she wants you to be. You want to speak to her. Good, great in fact, girls like to be spoken to! Girls like attention of Boys, in general. She probably wants you to speak to her, too. Or not. LOL   But anyway, you should take your chances, what's there to lose?! So you decide you'll go for it, you will address her! Wow, Boy, you really impress me, things are getting better and better, you are on a good way there! It's a good sign, it means you have guts, more then other boys do! It enormously improves your chances with her! Oh, Boy, don't disappoint me now! What do I hear: “Hey ya, whatsap?!” (Nothing is up, only my mood can be down reading those lines! ); “Hope you are ok.” (Of course I am ok, why wouldn't I be?! Even if I was not, who are you that I would tell you?! ) ; “What are you doing?” (I am loosing my precious time here on nonsense! ) Hey Boy, come on, you can't be serious! I know you can do better than that! I believe in you! You have to distinguish yourself from any other boy. You are unique, unrepeatable, there is only one you, there was never before and never will be. You have to show her that, you have to let her know that. Say something funny, say something witty, say something silly, some short recent anecdote, say something clever, quote a book (you don't read, Boy?! You should!), quote a song, movie, play with words... Make her smile, make her laugh, make her feel, make her think. Wake up her inner being, she will open her eyes, open her ears, to better see you, hear you. Leave her thirsty, to wish for more! After that, you are in the saddle, everything is up to you, Boy! |
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Post by sungod on Jan 17, 2018 12:31:32 GMT -5
Thanks for the post. I may not be young, but I’m no expert at this.
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Post by mona on Jan 17, 2018 16:54:38 GMT -5
Alright, missparkle, girls like attention and to be spoken to but the same is true for the opposite sex. There's no reason why he must make the first step. I confess I sometimes imagine this scenario where I am at a vibrant party and there is this cute para who keeps looking at me. I gather all my courage and, heart pounding, come up to him and whisper: As you can't feel your legs - would you like to feel mine? |
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Post by missparkle on Jan 17, 2018 18:09:16 GMT -5
mona , I never said we can not take the first step. And I wrote this in general, not dev/pdw angle. I was more referring to the thing if they already decide to make the first step, for example to write, how to do it the best way possible, with best chances for any success. I can hardly believe there is any girl that will fall for "Hey ya, whatsup?" introduction. 
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Post by missparkle on Jan 17, 2018 18:12:35 GMT -5
Thanks for the post. I may not be young, but I’m no expert at this. If you don't consider yourself young, then what am I?!  You are young! Period! LOL |
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Post by krissnap on Jan 17, 2018 21:40:51 GMT -5
******************************************************************************************************************** The purpose of this posts is strictly educational, with purely friendly and noble intentions and have nothing in common with any real person or experiences from my recent past. It is rather intended for a younger audience, since I have a strong felling that older boys around, have already developed their own pretty good ways around girls. ******************************************************************************************************************** You have spotted her in the masses. There is something about her, that intrigues you and you want to approach her. But uhhhh... You ask yourself, how should I approach this creature, so similar, yet so very different than me. Oh Boy, you are right... You can never know what's coming from those little dev(il)s! But Boy, be brave, that is what she wants you to be. You want to speak to her. Good, great in fact, girls like to be spoken to! Girls like attention of Boys, in general. She probably wants you to speak to her, too. Or not. LOL But anyway, you should take your chances, what's there to lose?! So you decide you'll go for it, you will address her! Wow, Boy, you really impress me, things are getting better and better, you are on a good way there! It's a good sign, it means you have guts, more then other boys do! It enormously improves your chances with her! Oh, Boy, don't disappoint me now! What do I hear: “Hey ya, whatsap?!” (Nothing is up, only my mood can be down reading those lines! ); “Hope you are ok.” (Of course I am ok, why wouldn't I be?! Even if I was not, who are you that I would tell you?! ) ; “What are you doing?” (I am loosing my precious time here on nonsense! ) Hey Boy, come on, you can't be serious! I know you can do better than that! I believe in you! You have to distinguish yourself from any other boy. You are unique, unrepeatable, there is only one you, there was never before and never will be. You have to show her that, you have to let her know that. Say something funny, say something witty, say something silly, some short recent anecdote, say something clever, quote a book (you don't read, Boy?! You should!), quote a song, movie, play with words... Make her smile, make her laugh, make her feel, make her think. Wake up her inner being, she will open her eyes, open her ears, to better see you, hear you. Leave her thirsty, to wish for more! After that, you are in the saddle, everything is up to you, Boy! This is great advice! This seems extremely common when attempting to strike up a friendship/relationship with someone online, which has always felt so awkward/unnatural to me. Much easier when you've shared an experience together... be that a shared class or place of work, or even attended the same party or rode the bus together. But yeah, "hey, what's up" and "what are you doing," are about the least memorable way to approach someone. Step your game up, hypothetical boy! |
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Post by talapishka on Jan 18, 2018 5:50:29 GMT -5
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Post by mona on Jan 18, 2018 6:13:45 GMT -5
I was more referring to the thing if they already decide to make the first step, for example to write, how to do it the best way possible, with best chances for any success. I can hardly believe there is any girl that will fall for "Hey ya, whatsup?" introduction. Yeah, you're so right! Now I understand your post differently. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 18, 2018 8:30:30 GMT -5
Alright, missparkle , girls like attention and to be spoken to but the same is true for the opposite sex. There's no reason why he must make the first step. I confess I sometimes imagine this scenario where I am at a vibrant party and there is this cute para who keeps looking at me. I gather all my courage and, heart pounding, come up to him and whisper: As you can't feel your legs - would you like to feel mine? Damn if a girl said that to me it's an instant boner/make out/ sex in chair situation lol |
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Post by mona on Jan 18, 2018 17:16:13 GMT -5
Alright, missparkle , girls like attention and to be spoken to but the same is true for the opposite sex. There's no reason why he must make the first step. I confess I sometimes imagine this scenario where I am at a vibrant party and there is this cute para who keeps looking at me. I gather all my courage and, heart pounding, come up to him and whisper: As you can't feel your legs - would you like to feel mine? Damn if a girl said that to me it's an instant boner/make out/ sex in chair situation lol Good to know. But my fantasy always ends right after I say my pick up line. And irl I would of course never do it.👼 |
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Post by mona on Jan 18, 2018 17:21:06 GMT -5
I gather all my courage and, heart pounding, come up to him and whisper: As you can't feel your legs - would you like to feel mine? [ Best line I've had said to me is "will you do me in your chair" ..... Kinda hard to say no to that 😳 Wow, you have a subtle flirting style over there on the island! Whether it's hard to say no still depends of who is asking, though... |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 19, 2018 2:20:41 GMT -5
I've never had the courage to approach girls (even with online dating) so I'll probably be single all my life.
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Post by mona on Jan 19, 2018 2:26:48 GMT -5
It's cold in Yorkshire mona whether you say no or not just depends on how cold you are 😜 Us paras have to be mindful of our body temperature, can't be risking frostbite, say yes, stay warm, stay safe 🙃 I am from Berlin, @tykes, so I know that coldness dilemma 😛. So, to the next cute para I encounter waiting outside for the bus I could offer myself as an anti-frostbite-prevention... I guess a new scenario was born. 😊 |
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Post by mona on Jan 19, 2018 2:30:31 GMT -5
I've never had the courage to approach girls (even with online dating) so I'll probably be single all my life. Just try it out. And start with someone you're not too interested in. Remember you have nothing to lose. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2018 3:13:14 GMT -5
From my experience, expressing interest in someone when you have little to no interest in them is a mean thing to do to a person, it gives them false hope.
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But Boy, be brave, that is what she wants you to be. 
But anyway, you should take your chances, what's there to lose?! 
You are young! Period! LOL 
