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Post by laur on Dec 2, 2018 20:18:19 GMT -5
Welcome to PD, kyliestarz! I think the intensity of dev feels does seem common for many of us around here. I also have an AB partner, but still feel like I need to engage in devvy fantasies and media in order to be sexually satisfied. It’s a major part of my life and has been a part of me throughout all of my memories (even before I really understood it). I lean toward the “born this way” feeling for that reason. I remember always being attracted to guys with broken legs and, as soon as I knew about SCI, that too. I do experience dev highs though where these feelings can get particularly intense. Anyway, it sounds like you have been around for awhile, but I hope you’ll continue to share and get to know us all! Welcome to the crew officially.
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Post by kyliestarz on Dec 2, 2018 22:23:36 GMT -5
Maybe this is a newb thing, but I want to just like crudely blurt out all the sci and amp things I love - All this incredibly 'hot' stuff that I've had to internalize my whole f-ing life.
Your average non-devs get to talk about sex whenever they want, and it's nothing. If I brought up one tiny dev thing at a dinner with my friends, the whole conversation would come to screeching halt. I want to talk like they do on Sex in the City talk, but about wheelers!
I want to talk about what a quads' hands would feel like in bed, how beautiful a dak's body is, and how everything that comes with paralysis makes me melt. Etc.
Sigh...but I must slow down. And I get the impression this type of very personal talk is best left to DMs.
So, if anyone is interested in such, please please message me.
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Post by Emma on Dec 3, 2018 17:50:31 GMT -5
Kylie, fee free to post whatever you like here. I get the wanting to blurt it all out. When I first started talking with other devs I had a lot to say. There are many of us who have been here for years and have run out of things to say. I’m always happy to get into a devy conversation here especially when amputees are mentioned 😛
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Post by kyliestarz on Dec 4, 2018 22:49:02 GMT -5
Thanks lemons. Have you ever been with an amputee? I would kill to make love to a dak. I think I'm most turned on by SCI, but it terms of just outright sex, dak takes the cake. That body. High, smooth stumps with just the slightest scars and big strong arms. I could stay in bed with that all day.
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Post by Emma on Dec 6, 2018 1:54:32 GMT -5
Yes, my husband is a DAK
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Post by SouthernCalGal on Dec 6, 2018 15:18:47 GMT -5
kyliestarz, Welcome to PD. I hope you enjoy it here. I love your posts so far !
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Post by kyliestarz on Dec 6, 2018 19:12:31 GMT -5
lemons what! I literally cannot imagine that, being intimate with a dak, whenever you like. I think I'd almost faint if given the opportunity. Do you still get devvy thoughts about him, even though you're with him every day? All those amazing devvy moments must be so common to you. It's just so hard to imagine.
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Post by devogirl on Dec 6, 2018 20:11:00 GMT -5
I used to feel that way, like if I was ever with a real blind guy I would be so overwhelmed I would just pass out. But then I went on to have a lot of real life experiences with various PWDs, some good some bad. I never once fainted 😄 It's just different when you're with a real person. And even when you're in a relationship with a PWD those devvy feelings still come and go.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 7, 2018 10:51:56 GMT -5
Ha! I used to think the same!! That if I was ever with a para, my head would fall off. I’ve found that the devvy moments are more imaginative. I never get any overwhelming dev moments when I’m with my guy. Not even when I see him transfer.
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Post by Emma on Dec 8, 2018 1:33:08 GMT -5
Yeah like any relationship things are not as exciting as time goes on. Sure, I’m still into him in a devy way but other, regular relationship things come into play as well. It was really fun initially, similar to how you would imagine. I didn’t faint but at times it just seemed so amazing that it couldn’t possibly be real.
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Post by pam on Dec 8, 2018 11:44:48 GMT -5
Yeah like any relationship things are not as exciting as time goes on. Sure, I’m still into him in a devy way but other, regular relationship things come into play as well. It was really fun initially, similar to how you would imagine. I didn’t faint but at times it just seemed so amazing that it couldn’t possibly be real. If I was ever in an IRL relationship with a PWD, that's how I would feel, like it wasn't real! Of course, I'm sure once I would experience the everyday challenges, it would soon become real.
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