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Jun 7, 2019 1:24:33 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 7, 2019 1:24:33 GMT -5
This feels like you are taking the proverbial to me. You definitely won't meet anyone if these posts reflect your conversational skills. Feels disrespectful to the people who contribute properly and make the time and effort to make thoughtful and honest posts.
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Jun 7, 2019 1:28:36 GMT -5
Post by jim on Jun 7, 2019 1:28:36 GMT -5
lol... here we go...
smh
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Jun 7, 2019 1:48:00 GMT -5
Post by jim on Jun 7, 2019 1:48:00 GMT -5
I. Don't. Want. To. Make Posts. I. Do. Not. Want. To. Be. Part. Of. The. Community. What. Do. You. Not. Understand. ? Dumbass. And the fact that you are so small minded to think that you're way is the only way just demonstrates your selfishness and stupidity. And it is not disrespectful. I just don't want the same things as you from this. Yea, you're probably right. I probably won't meet anyone but not because of my lack of conversational skills you self-absorbed, arrogant prick. Simply because the world is full of people who don't get me or share my values... and not to mention idiots like you
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Jun 7, 2019 1:52:32 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jun 7, 2019 1:52:32 GMT -5
I. Don't. Want. To. Make Posts. I. Do. Not. Want. To. Be. Part. Of. The. Community. What. Do. You. Not. Understand. ? Dumbass. And the fact that you are so small minded to think that you're way is the only way just demonstrates your selfishness and stupidity. And it is not disrespectful. I just don't want the same things as you from this. Yea, you're probably right. I probably won't meet anyone but not because of my lack of conversational skills you self-absorbed, arrogant prick. Simply because the world is full of people who don't get me or share my values... and not to mention idiots like you Welcome! Good to hear your real voice Jim 😉
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Jun 7, 2019 1:53:53 GMT -5
Post by jim on Jun 7, 2019 1:53:53 GMT -5
Anytime.
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Jun 7, 2019 1:54:37 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Jun 7, 2019 1:54:37 GMT -5
Wow...
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Jun 7, 2019 2:01:17 GMT -5
Post by jim on Jun 7, 2019 2:01:17 GMT -5
Shame.. that I didn't realize I could just comment instead of post to get the "ten" posts.
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Post by Emma on Jun 7, 2019 2:13:17 GMT -5
This is not going to end well.
Dude what do you think is going to magically happen when you can send private messages? Whoever you contact will still be able to see this bullshit. You are completely missing the point of this message board.
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Post by erikajulia on Jun 7, 2019 2:21:02 GMT -5
This is not going to end well. :-D No, probably not. I don't even get his "concept". Find a partner, but not a friend? That would translate for me into "find someone to fuck, but nothing more". Well, the website states: "We are not a dating-site" - so how big would the chance to succeed with this goal have been, even if he had not completely messed it up from the start? How many men or women are here who are willing to be just a one-nighter to a stranger - or maybe to have frequent sex with someone without knowing that person at least a bit? Uah - that's scary for me.
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Jun 7, 2019 2:24:32 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Jun 7, 2019 2:24:32 GMT -5
Waste of time to even type anything in this thread ladies...I'm going to bed, Good night jim
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Post by dolly on Jun 7, 2019 2:27:44 GMT -5
Jim is gone. If he surfaces in another shape or form, please let the moderators know.
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Jun 7, 2019 2:29:42 GMT -5
Post by erikajulia on Jun 7, 2019 2:29:42 GMT -5
Waste of time to even type anything in this thread ladies...I'm going to bed, Good night jim Sleep well, dani!
Well, I confess I'm interested in the mindset displayed here. Are there many who come here and want what Jim wants? No real interaction, but only sex, and fast? And is that really what he wants, or is there a misunderstanding somewhere? Jim? Care to enlighten me if I got you right? (That is, if you're still here...)
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Post by dave78 on Jun 7, 2019 3:31:56 GMT -5
He seemed like the sort of hopeless romantic that would be inclined to send photographs to the object of his affection.
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Post by erikajulia on Jun 7, 2019 3:39:10 GMT -5
Unfortunately erikajulia there are some guys who arrive her and think just that, more like, they think that all they have to do is 'appear' say they are 'disabled' and knicker elastic will start snapping across the globe. They don't last very long and sometimes go out with a blaze of righteous indignation and fury because a dev hasn't offered to service his needs. Usually with some insults chucked in. These are the kinda guys who cant form a relationship outside of the internet and for some bizarre reason think that its 'easier' online. *shrug* Nothing can be done about those kinda guys, they don't last long, best to ignore @tykes - made my day with "elastic will start snapping across the globe." *tries to get up from the floor under the table*
I just told dani - I deal with that sort of male quite often, but on another level (not concerning sex, but obeying rules when in the countryside, I'm sort of a ranger and have to tell them to stick to the rules), and I simply don't get it. You want sex only, fast, without much other interaction? Fine, go to a whorehouse or call someone to come. You want to join paradevo? Fine, to send private messages post ten postings with at least the tiniest bit of sense in them. But beware: We are not a dating-site. You want to go fishing? Fine, don't park your car where it's not allowed, and have your papers with you. Simple. Why make a fuss about it?
You do not abide by the rules, and someone comes and tells you how to behave properly, and why? Great! Say "Thank you!" and behave properly (or leave with as little fussing as possible). But no. There are so many people (and those I meet are mostly males - maybe because fishing is a thing mostly males do) who simply can't do that! It must be very hard. Is it something about ego? Most times I find it more fascinating and funny to watch, but I don't get it. If someone explains the rules - why create a scene or try to argue yourself out of it? At least here no one can threaten you bodily for telling him he's done wrong - that's extremely annoying in real life. ;-)
Thanks again for the laugh.
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Post by dave78 on Jun 7, 2019 4:27:48 GMT -5
I read about devs and this common misconception just before I joined PD. However, it wasn't sex that brought me here, it was the desire to be accepted for who I am, and that is exactly what I got when I came through the door.
I've been hiding the details of what it means to be born with Spina Bifida all my life because it made the women I dated very uncomfortable. However, all the devs are probably well aware of the details, and they don't seem to be uncomfortable around me at all. That's a feeling I can't really describe to you.
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