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Post by TotalBias on Jun 21, 2019 19:35:05 GMT -5
Has anyone else experienced a change in dating AB ppl pre and post dating PWD? I’ve found that being with a PWD is very rewarding in ways that are very different from dating AB ppl. Now when I date AB ppl I feel like there’s a degree of intimacy missing. I’m not sure if this is just due to my feelings not being as strong for my AB partners for other reasons or if this is a more generalized thing other devs experience. Thoughts?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2019 20:48:53 GMT -5
I was in my 40's before i was lucky enough to have my first pwd relationship and can say its 100% better than with previous AB partners.
There needs to be a much deeper trust and intimacy due to the disability, a willingness to be open and to discuss things.
Sex is so much more when you add those traits.
I have zero interest in AB men now and even if my partner and i split, i know i wouldnt want to go back to an AB man. Not purely due to my attraction as a dev but mainly due to being a woman and needing more openess than most men are comfortable with.
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Post by TotalBias on Jun 22, 2019 2:30:06 GMT -5
Thanks for sharing @delight  |
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Post by strawberrybubblegum on Jun 22, 2019 18:33:59 GMT -5
I’m currently dating an AB guy after 3,5 years of dating a PWD.
I don’t necessarily feel there’s a level of intimacy missing in my current relationship. Might be because we’ve known each other for 10 years.
But I do feel like when I dated my ex we reached a level of intimacy rather quickly and I thought it was because of the disability and him “relying” on me (when we were both comfortable with it) and also trusting me with certain things. Throughout the whole relationship him trusting me with new things and trying stuff together felt very special and intimate. So yeah, I can see were you’re coming from. Don’t know how it would be if I was dating a guy I just met recently.
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