! member warning for my fellow Devs

[ichbin]

Dear fellow Devs, 

a PWD guy from Sweden ghosted me in another forum (fetlife) in the middle of a normal conversation, he blocked me without obvious reasons. Last thing he wrote me "By the way, I also identified you in another forum online, ichbin that's totally you", and when I answered "Congrats, Sherlock! Who are you on PD?" he never answered, instead he blocked me.

I was pissed and tried to find out myself who he is on here.

Which I did. 

The guy is "Magnus" on PD - keep your hands off him. I just think his behaviour is more the one of a 14-year old than of an adult, ... so I would definitely NOT recommend any Dev to have contact with him. 

The moderator is informed.

If anyone wants to know what's his profile name on fetlife, just send me a PM. 

xx your fellow Dev ichbin

[Dani]

You know.....before I even read the name who he is...when you said Sweden, I knew it. Didn't care for the guy here and now my gut instinct has proved right once again. I am sorry you had to deal with this dude.

[Magnus]

Explain why you "didn't care for the guy", Dani! List the things I've written that made you form that opinion. What a very unpleasant (and quite random) thing to write! I will not stand for (metaphorically speaking, of course) Being defamed by a hater stranger on no grounds whatsoever. (Even if no one is paying attention.)

[Dani]

Magnus the guys are not supposed to comment or even read in here

[devogirl]

ichbin I saw your message to me. Ghosting someone on another site is not grounds for banning someone here. And I'm certainly not going to intervene in a private conversation between the two of you to scold him on your behalf. Calling someone out publicly in a place where you know he is not allowed to reply is petty and mean. It may also make other guys think twice about messaging you, knowing that their messages might be posted publicly later. Not every flirtation on the internet goes the way we want it to, but seeking public retribution here is not going to benefit the board. I'm locking this thread.