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Post by mnquad07 on Apr 30, 2023 12:38:30 GMT -5
even though I'm paralyzed from the shoulders down, I still get horny and often! Almost 16 years now, without any kind of release. Talk about frustrating!
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Post by britishtetra on Apr 30, 2023 13:40:41 GMT -5
What did you say 16 years? I am nearly into 33 years, trust me when I get a wash around my penis, itβs like Christmas morning π
Pete
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Post by vvulfie on Apr 30, 2023 14:38:05 GMT -5
I find erotica in any form helps me find some kind of "satisfaction" for my own sexual expression. Music, dance, writing, drawing, painting, W/E
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Post by imupforanything on Apr 30, 2023 15:06:40 GMT -5
I don't know how the general perception of this is here on PD but there are sexual surragates out there. It's not free but it's a possible option to look into. In other places sex for hire is legal, like in Amsterdam in the red light district. Many of the places have the ADA wheelchair symbol in the windows.
Some countries understand the importance of healthy sexual participation for all.
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Post by vvulfie on Apr 30, 2023 15:21:38 GMT -5
maybe we'll get there eventually
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Post by Dani on Apr 30, 2023 17:08:40 GMT -5
I wish it was legal here, it would help a lot of people
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Post by mellowcanuck on May 1, 2023 7:21:17 GMT -5
Thirty years in a wheelchair and I still get the urge to throw a lady up on a counter top when I see em.
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Post by sungod on May 1, 2023 9:32:13 GMT -5
Most of us seem to find ways to get enough satisfaction solo through taking in media or expressive arts, but there're certainly days where it seems insatiable. Just like in many aspects of life, every now and then it would be really nice to have some functioning hands.
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Post by infinatedreams on May 1, 2023 10:43:29 GMT -5
Thirty years in a wheelchair and I still get the urge to throw a lady up on a counter top when I see em. well if you cant throw her up, ask her to hop on up and wheel under, she could always rest her feet on ya wheels π theres something hot abiut having the flat of a foot press against your chest and push you backwards after breakfast π
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Post by anthonyg on May 1, 2023 15:05:40 GMT -5
I know the feeling bro and I'm just 4 years in!!!!
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Post by mnquad07 on May 1, 2023 15:21:02 GMT -5
yeah, things should be legal especially among two consenting adults. Look at all the benefits, medically, it provides.
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Post by diablednerd on May 1, 2023 18:51:14 GMT -5
I don't know how the general perception of this is here on PD but there are sexual surragates out there. It's not free but it's a possible option to look into. In other places sex for hire is legal, like in Amsterdam in the red light district. Many of the places have the ADA wheelchair symbol in the windows. Some countries understand the importance of healthy sexual participation for all.
vegas baby!
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Post by Quad787 on May 1, 2023 22:56:20 GMT -5
I don't know how the general perception of this is here on PD but there are sexual surragates out there. It's not free but it's a possible option to look into. In other places sex for hire is legal, like in Amsterdam in the red light district. Many of the places have the ADA wheelchair symbol in the windows. Some countries understand the importance of healthy sexual participation for all. As with most things, imupforanything is ahead of the Curve here... But first, there are two problems here that have been conflated. First, there is the physiological problem that most quads experience where we cannot ejaculate/orgasm. For me, it's going on 36 years since I've busted a nut. And it's a shame for me to think that most of the experience I had before my injury was me flying solo. Now I look at photos of me at 18-19, and I'm scolding myself that I should have been getting laid daily. But I was a shy kid, and didn't know what was coming down the road. I only mentioned that first issue because even if/ when you find a willing and attractive partner, the physiological problems still exist. So one must come to grips with being more focused on one's partner then on experiencing The Rush and intensity of one's own orgasm, because the latter may never occur, and it's better to have half a loaf than none at all. The second issue is what most have focused on here, finding a willing and attractive partner for sexual escapades. And this is where I'm with imupforanything. It is a shame that we don't have a legal sexual surrogate option in the US. There are other opportunities, for those whose budgets allow it. But for the majority of disabled males, it's a desert out there. And even if a Wheeler dude is able to find a willing partner, there is still some residual frustration from not being able to enjoy things like one used to. But for me, at least, that frustration melts away when you have someone who enjoys being with you, and being pleasured by you.
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Post by pyrat on May 17, 2023 20:26:17 GMT -5
even though I'm paralyzed from the shoulders down, I still get horny and often! Almost 16 years now, without any kind of release. Talk about frustrating! Tell me about it
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Post by articalien on May 17, 2023 22:36:38 GMT -5
imupforanything and Quad787 have provided great information you might want to research further. Going on 34 years here and I'm in the same boat. No movement below my shoulders. So 'going solo' is not an option. I feel for you man! Know you are not alone.
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