How far would you go????

[Inigo Montoya]

Sam, I don't know if I'm the one to respond or not... I'm, like, twice your age and I've never been married. I can tell you that the grass is always greener, though. And, I understand from talking to married friends that the umff has a tendency to kinda disappear from most relationships over time. I think it has to do with getting used to each other, etc. It's why you see books and articles devoted to "putting the spark back in your relationship." I'm always envious of people who have found things early. Their purpose in life, a spouse, whatever. There are things I like about being single, (not having to answer to anyone is my personal fave ;D) but I miss someone to share things with. I love my friends but they're not with you like a partner. <--- sounds mournful and I'm not... I've got plenty of stuff going on...

[Dee Dee]

Also, Samantha, relationships will go back and forth, marriages will go up and down (no pun intended ;D); seriously though, life is like that.

Out of all the people I know, who are married, there isn´t ANY ONE, who doesn´t feel like this once in a while. It´s only if you start feeling like this every single day, you must do something about it.

If I were you, I´d enjoy the fact that you get along so well with your wheeler husband. Count your blessings, right?

[doe]

Someone on here (I can't recall who) said that you are the luckiest person if you have someone who loves you. It's so true. So Sam you are one lucky girl, hun, even though you did marry very young and probably need the thrills more because of that. Yes, all relationships go through the umff stage(s). That's why you have to regularly act as though you are still courting each other... you know the wooing part, the chasing, the good stuff .